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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAvenatti- "When you have a white male making the arguments, they carry more weight"
Link to tweet
Buried in the Time article
http://time.com/5434317/michael-avenatti/
Oooof
Obama was a TWO-TERM President. Hillary was the Dem nominee and a damn fine senator and SoS
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I think President Obama managed to carry quite a bit of weight when he made his arguments. Martin Luther King's words also carry more weight than perhaps any figure in American history.
Avenatti on the other hand gave us the least credible accuser of Kavanaugh and in my opinion helped get him nominated. I sure hope this idiot goes back to the obscurity he so richly deserves. Sadly loudmouthed ignoramuses tend to be good at finding a microphone.
Crutchez_CuiBono
(7,725 posts)Yo mike. We got this. Take off. You aren't helping.
genxlib
(5,528 posts)There are people out there who will only listen to a white man.
Those people are assholes and won't vote for a Democrat anyway.
Ergo, that is not a reason to fall into that trap.
I am open to all genders, colors etc. May the best candidate win.
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)There are a lot of independents, people that are not solidly a dem or repub.
Demwolv
(88 posts)Hes not wrong. Sadly. I think he said this because he feels we need all the fire power weve got to take down Trump....
Which brings me to say that I think hes wrong thinking that a white male will be the one to bring down Trump when elections have proven that minorities are more excited to vote for a fellow minority. I dont think a white male energizes the Dems the way he thinks.
CrispyQ
(36,478 posts)I agree. It energizes the independents & moderate repubs who are disgusted with Trump. Do we want them in our party? I don't. Do we want their vote? Not if it means that we lose our appeal to the HUGE number of non-voters who couldn't be bothered to vote. This is the group we need to appeal to & go after with zeal. Not the wafflers who will go right back to being a repub if the party ever regains its sanity.
Also, we have plenty of white male candidates who are already vetted blue dems. We don't need Avanetti.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,740 posts)That would be a No.
Corvo Bianco
(1,148 posts)God grant wisdom to white men. For my sanity.
inwiththenew
(972 posts)JHan
(10,173 posts)Wintryjade
(814 posts)mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)Given that Trump is a walking, talking caricature himself?
Just sayin' ...
oberliner
(58,724 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)And when there's none available, you make some again...
Kingofalldems
(38,459 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)What are your thoughts on his remarks?
Kingofalldems
(38,459 posts)If I find I posted the same thing as another DUer I delete it if the other poster was first.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)... and I'll just leave it at that.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)You can send a PM if that is better.
demmiblue
(36,865 posts)Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)because that will nullify his racist and sexist arguments. He's got nothing but racism and sexism. If he can't use that, he is toast. I also think we should go better than that. Make it a young, good looking white guy who is optimistic.... Trump's got nothing. We could get so many people just with the looks thing. I know it sounds shallow, but Democrats need to be realistic about where most Americans are at in their heads right now. What's the psychology that motivates them to vote certain ways? The race for presidency seems to be a masculinity contest for a lot of people, so we have to play that game to win. Trump is an old, out of shape dude, so it wouldn't be hard if we pick the right person.
It might be good to pick a woman for vp role though. Get people warmed up to women being in charge more. Still, it shouldn't be anyone that right has been vilifying for a long time. That was a problem we had with Hillary too. Too many years of bullshit being said about the Clintons. That was hard to work against.
I loved Hillary too. I'm a woman and I think woman make excellent leaders, but Democrats need to get back in control of this government and we should not take any risks in this next presidential election. Get a Democrat in there that can win and then start moving this country in the right direction.
SWBTATTReg
(22,143 posts)season for the 2020 election cycle, and depending upon what happens in the transition period between 2018 after the midterm elections and the 2020 election cycle, many people will be put forth as being one to be the one to run for president. May the best candidate that suits all of us win. Our votes throughout this process will determine our future candidate who will wipe the earth clean of the filth of the rump era.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)It's a matter of winning or not winning. I think we have far too much to lose here. Now is not the time to be idealistic.
onenote
(42,714 posts)Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)Like they have for so many years before. Anyone can be inspirational if they speak about the issues that matter to you. Plus, there are lots of people already motivated just to vote against Trump (lots of women and minorities in this group). We still need to get some of those Trump voters though. We need to give them something that they'll be willing to vote for as opposed to Trump.
kcr
(15,317 posts)And Avenatti just showed he isn't that guy.
kcr
(15,317 posts)First of all, only running white males further entrenches white male supremacy, which helps Trump. Second of all, it won't stop him from being a racist and a sexist because he still has the Dem base, who you're spitting on by insisting one of them can't be a candidate, as his targets. It's vile and reprehensible, and shame on Michael Avenatti. He's disqualified himself from consideration as a candidate.
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)but he can't use racism or sexism against our candidate then.
kcr
(15,317 posts)He won't magically stop being Trump, with all the racism and sexism that entails, just because we nominated another white male, because it's the racism and sexism that appeals to his base. The identity of the candidate won't matter one bit. Sexists and racists can get pretty damn creative, and Trump is good at it.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,358 posts)"Nullifying his argument" does not necessarily lead to victory.
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)That's the idea. Do we want to win this time or not? I don't like that people in this country are racists and sexists, but they are.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,358 posts)EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)And funny how it's always white people deciding for everyone else when the time is right.
They have no idea the mindset of white superiority they're revealing.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,358 posts)Telling people we all have to wait for the "right time" to do better is the epitome of white privilege and superiority.
onenote
(42,714 posts)So what if he's a white male. The same racist, misogynistic folks who wouldn't vote for a minority or female candidate aren't going to vote for a white candidate who is sympathetic towards women and minorities.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Shhhh. No more if that PC talk after all, we can't engage in "identity politics" if we want white people to vote Democratic,party can?
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)Think Bill Clinton.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)And then, let's default to a white guy so we can Keep what we won.
And then let's default to a white guy so we can win again.
And then let's default to a white guy so we can keep winning.
And then let's default to the white guy because we don't want to lose this good thing we got.
Meanwhile, everyone else can just wait their turn until we get to a point where we can win without defaulting to the white guy ... which, of course will never happen if we keep assuming we've got to default to the white guy in order to win
See how that works?
It works great - at least for the white guys.
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)Doesn't mean that's the way we have to keep doing things.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)We can't let you in the room this time because the stakes are too high, so leave it to the white men to handle, but next time we'll let you in - unless we decide then that the stakes are still too high to trust you to be in the room with us.
Not only is this bullshit, it's breathtakingly insulting and condescending and represents the very essence of what makes institutional racism effective.
wryter2000
(46,051 posts)I'm amazed to see this crap here. I guess I shouldn't be.
sheshe2
(83,793 posts)Next Time
Maybe Later
Next Time
Maybe Later
Next Time
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)sheshe2
(83,793 posts)Hillary won the popular vote. A woman isn't the 'risk'.
peggysue2
(10,832 posts)Really, it's time for Avenatti to go home if this is the sort of advice he's spouting. Which is, of course, the same advice that's been spouted throughout our history.
Same old, same old.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)there and Trump is going to come out swinging against minorities and women. He is going stir up as much resentment and hatred as he can against them. It is what he does best. However, if he is confronted with a younger, media-savvy, quick-witted, white male, he is not going to have as much ammunition. It's that simple.
I don't like it at all, but I think if we are all honest with ourselves we have to admit there is a grain of truth in what he says. It's not impossible that a woman or a minority can win in this country, but going up against Trump is a different thing entirely. I wish it were not so, but I really think he has a good point.
demmiblue
(36,865 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)A great progressive woman who has no patience for white male BS.
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)Frankly, I don't like him as a candidate anyhow. I'd much prefer a woman in the presidency at this point. Haven't we had enough men already? I think so.
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)WhiskeyGrinder
(22,358 posts)Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)We aren't going to be able to change the system in 2 years. We need to work with in the system to get ahead right now. We could do the same thing again. Get more votes, but still not win. That doesn't put us in a better position as a country.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)And white men have lost every presidential election in history, But, by all means, let's insist that only white men can win elections and should be the only people given a chance to run.
Wintryjade
(814 posts)sink at her to keep her at just 3 million more through suppression, Russia, Comey, and other.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Trump beat 17 men in 2016.
But no one has suggested that men should stand down and not run because men have list previous races.
The last two times a black man ran against a white man, the black man won. But no one is saying that we shouldn't run a white candidate because he might not be as strong a candidate as a black man.
So, why do you think women shouldn't run because a woman lost in 2016?
kcr
(15,317 posts)What an ass.
dlk
(11,569 posts)We still have far to go toward equality.
Caliman73
(11,738 posts)He isn't right. He may be accurate in understanding that endemic racism and sexism still exist in the US, but he is completely wrong to say that in order to overcome it, the Democrats need to appease the racists and sexists that exist within the electorate, but within our own party as well.
You don't get equality by trying to make the oppressive party comfortable just like you don't get peace by giving an aggressor nation the land that they want in hopes they will stop.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)But it sure is a convenient way for white folks to stay in charge while claiming to be oh so not racist ...
Caliman73
(11,738 posts)When leaders of women's rights or racial equality groups say that sometimes "White liberal allies" can be frustrating, this is what they are talking about. Expedience means that you "girls and darkies need to just hush up while us White Folk fix this" and they wonder why Michael Harriot writes about "wypipo" THIS, THIS is why.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Blue Owl
(50,427 posts)if she decided to run...
tymorial
(3,433 posts)Having the first female president be a black woman, too amazing for words to accurately describe
jimmimac43
(2 posts)As a black man in Maryland I can tell you that history told me that Ben Jealous was not a good choice for Maryland statewide office. Maryland for whatever your opinion of it is has a history of not electing minorities to statewide office. I have no idea how Barbara Mikulski pulled it off.
Kathleen Kennedy, lost. Republicans loved Ehrlich and by extension Michael Steele. Popular governor term limited out with a black man running to succeed him. Shoe in, black Democrats will crossover. Didn't happen. Black Democrats didn't switch over and I suspect that Washington County, Garrett County, Allegheny County not to mention the eastern shore soft democrats came back home after a white man wasn't running against a woman. Donald Brown lost and Ben isn't looking too good.
I told anyone that would listen that it wasn't gonna happen for Jealous. It wouldn't have happened for Rushern Baker either. We cannot just chalk it up to uninspiring campaigns. Larry Hogan does not inspire! Do I like it? Nope! However I cannot act like it isn't the truth.
There are soft democrats in Maryland and across the country. It doesn't mean that we accept a dull white guy over a dynamic minority. All things being equal, a dynamic white guy or a dynamic minority, yeah, in 2020, I will take the white guy and run up the score. With a great white guy, the house and senate we can work on the things that ail us. With the crazy party in the White House and controlling the house and senate we aren't gonna fix a damn thing.
Oneironaut
(5,504 posts)My opinion of him has never changed - while Avenattis trolling of Trump is amusing, Avenatti is a morally bankrupt sleezebag who probably has a closet full of skeletons. Hes a lot like Trump in many ways.
tman
(983 posts)Fighting Trump with Trump is foolish thinking and isn't going to work.
brush
(53,792 posts)He'll have to stay useful as an abrasive antidote to combat repugs but he probably just eliminated himself as a candidate for 2020.
There's a kernel of truth to what he said, considering how white, male privilege works in out society but the Democratic Party has the potential to prevail against that as it has put forth formidable candidates who have proven repug white male privilege can be overcome with the right candidate. Hell, Hillary just did but the election was stolen from her by comey, repug cheating and traitors working with Putin.
And let's not forget Barack Obama, the 44th President of the United States.
As for me, an AA male, I'd like to see a woman president. It's time.
Let me amend thata Democratic woman president.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Also - the fact that Obama beat both McCain and Romney and that Hillary got millions more votes than Trump speaks volumes.
dlk
(11,569 posts)SaschaHM
(2,897 posts)We really don't need the primary debates turning into a circus. I appreciate Avenatti for what he's done on the Daniel's front, but he hasn't handled the whole "potential candidate" buzz well at all.
brush
(53,792 posts)That wasn't a smart thing to say even though white male privilege is a thing in our society.
For someone who has come off as a pretty intelligent guy, that was dumb.
He can still be useful as a pitbull against trump and the repugs though.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,358 posts)MadDAsHell
(2,067 posts)bitterross
(4,066 posts)Seriously. Read the statement. He says he wished it didn't make a difference. He didn't say it was right, proper, preferred, correct. He didn't say it was universal.
He simply said what we know to be true if we stop to think about it. How else do you explain the way the South block votes for anything with an "R" by it's name? How else do you explain why all those intelligent, white women voted for Trump?
Like it or not, he is correct. Don't shoot the messenger.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)bitterross
(4,066 posts)If you haven't noticed by now, Obama seems to have been the anomaly and exception to the rule. We Democrats were lulled into a sense that this nation had actually progressed on things like race and gender.
Did you miss the election of 2016 and the ensuing months since then. It is very clear we were wrong. This nation has not only not progressed, but it has regressed.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Hillary Clinton, a woman, got millions more votes than the white man she just ran against.
bitterross
(4,066 posts)You have very valid and good facts. They do not alter what I believe is current reality though.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)weird coincidence not likely to occur again - which doesn't really speak well of your historical knowledge or understanding of what it means to be the first minority or woman to break through a barrier. Being first does not make one an "anomaly" - it means they are forcing change even though some people insist they are just the "exception to the rule.""
NeverTrumpDemocrat
(48 posts)That's why it's a bone-headed gaffe.
bitterross
(4,066 posts)Sounds like you're being racist and sexist to me. You're discrediting his statement of truth because he fits the category.
Besides, I don't really think he's seriously considering running.
NeverTrumpDemocrat
(48 posts)commenters on websites, like you and me (also a white male) CAN say it.
You're a white male running for president? You have others make that case for you. Bone-headed.
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)I don't want it to be this way, but it is.
JonLP24
(29,322 posts)NeverTrumpDemocrat
(48 posts)although I think there is truth to it. It's something you'd expect an analyst or pundit to say, and in dispassionate terms, it makes some sense.
Avenatti's an energetic attorney and a great self-promoter. Self-promoters gonna self-promote though, even when it will backfire. He should never get anywhere near to being the nominee. No more publicity hounds for president!
demmiblue
(36,865 posts)mcar
(42,334 posts)Done with this guy.
grantcart
(53,061 posts)JCMach1
(27,559 posts)So no, not disgusting... However, does show he isn't ready for prime time.
meow2u3
(24,764 posts)Many people won't vote for a woman or a POC while Terrorist Trump is still in power. It's sad that white men's words carry more weight that those of a woman or a POC, but many people would vote for Satan if he were a white guy running against the most sainted woman.
That's the misogynistic, bigoted reality. Unfortunate if you ask me.
On a side note, I think Avenatti would make a spendid attack dog for Democratic presidential candidates, especially given his talent for getting under Trump's skin and goading him and repukes to irrational behavior unbecoming of statesfolk. He ought to team up with Democratic ad makers to provide effective ads that will make rethugs squeal like stuck pigs.
Caliman73
(11,738 posts)now you should just sit back and wait util we're ready for you to speak again.
I even understand the underlying psychology of the statement but it is just wrong on every level. Avenatti is basically saying that White people should be appeased of their racial and sexual bigotry until some point in the nebulous future, White people fix the problem of racism and sexism and then LET women and people of color participate at the highest levels of leadership and service in the country.
That is twisted logic.
HopeAgain
(4,407 posts)Michael just planted his privilege flag.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)That's ALWAYS the excuse for supposedly well-meaning white people to perpetuate the racist status quo.
"I'M not racist, but some of my friends are, so I'd better not invite Malik to my party."
"I'M not racist, but some of my customers are, so I'd better not hire a black employee because I could lose business."
"I'M not racist, but some of my neighbors are, so I better not sell my house to that black family."
And now we have "I'M not racist, but some voters are so we better not run a candidate who isn't white."
See how that works? The very fact that the fundamental concern is about catering to the sensibilities of white racists - and not on finding ways to educate them and, if that doesn't work, to marginalize, minimize, and overcome them - tells you all you need to know about that mindset.
In short, it's pure racist-enabling bullshit.
Caliman73
(11,738 posts)Exactly what is the percentage of racists and sexists in the electorate (including the Democratic Party) that would preclude another woman or person of color from running as our Democratic candidate?
Does gender and skin color REALLY get in the way of an intelligently delivered message?
If so, then how would pushing women and people of color back into the shadows ever really alleviate that problem?
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)cilla4progress
(24,737 posts)This might be one of those times when it's OK to think it, but not say it....
I take his point. I think it's called white male privilege. Mansplaining. But he's losing me, with this.
dameatball
(7,398 posts)I hope he sticks with what he does best. Represent his clients and speaks his mind. Probably very little future in politics unless he gets some kind of appointment on down the line.
violetpastille
(1,483 posts)Last edited Thu Oct 25, 2018, 04:57 PM - Edit history (1)
He's not our savior and he's not our undoing.
but as he would say, he is certainly enjoying the free rent in our collective heads.
wryter2000
(46,051 posts)Back in the kitchen where you belong
JenniferJuniper
(4,512 posts)This country is sickeningly sexist and racist. And we can't lose 2020.
wryter2000
(46,051 posts)When can a non-white or a woman run for office? The next century? The next millennium?
Should it only apply to the presidency, or should women and POC forget about the Senate, too?
Maybe liberal columnists should only be white males because their opinions will carry more weight.
Just how much are you willing to give up to placate sexists and racists, who aren't likely to vote for Dems, anyway?
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Of course, it's ALWAYS "just this one time."
Sickening to see Democrats buy into and repeat this racist crap, isn't it?
wryter2000
(46,051 posts)And I think some people here need to listen to what they're saying.
Wintryjade
(814 posts)Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)You act like there isn't much to lose. Right now is different than it has been.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)You really should be embarrassed to even suggest that only a white man can beat Donald Trump. You have fallen for the most fundamental myth that perpetuates and endorses white male supremacy - that we must cater to racists and marginalize women and minorities ("just until we get past THIS rough spot" in order to build up the strength we need to eventually overcome racism and sexism.
And if you truly believe that ONLY a white man can "save" us and that we have too "much to lose" to trust a woman or person of color with our future, you need to either educate yourself and/or do some serious rethinking of your principles.
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)I want a Dem to win so we can turn this around and make the future better for everyone rather than continuing to go further in this bad direction that Trump is taking us. I haven't fallen for any myth. I am not racist or sexist. I have wanted a woman president my whole life, but I'm just being realistic. The climate is not right. Sure, maybe they could win, but the point is to run someone who has the best chances of winning.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)dangerous.
"I'm not racist BUT ... I'm not going to hire this woman because my customers might not like it, I'll lose business and I won't ever be able to hire any women in the future if I don't have a business."
"I'm not antisemitic, BUT ... I'm not going to sell my house to this Jewish family because my neighbors won't like it and they might not be comfortable here.""
"I'm not racist, BUT ... some of my friends are, so I'd better not invite my black friends to my dinner party because they won't be accepted."
If you study discrimination and civil rights, you'll learn that there are two kinds of discrimination - intentional discrimination and disparate impact. Both are just as dangerous and wrong, but the latter is often perpetrated by supposedly well-meaning people who hide behind the "I'm not racist BUT" arguments while engaging in acts that result in blatant discrimination just as insidious as the "I just don't like women and nIg*rs" variety.
And your "the climate's not right" argument is bullshit - the climate is NEVER right until someone disrupts it. And you don't disrupt it by going along with it until the climate is better. Attitudes like yours does nothing to improve anything - it only ensures that it stays just the same.
Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)I'm talking about strategy to win. We cannot win too. Sure. It just would be nice to not have an irresponsible, despicable person as president. If you want to risk running a woman again against Trump, just be prepared for the heart break again. I don't think it is going to turn out well. We haven't been making progress in the last 4 years. We have been going backwards.
Catherine Vincent
(34,490 posts)Solly Mack
(90,773 posts)In a sexist and racist society that comment holds a lot of truth, however.
Sort of like the missing white woman/girl gets the headline while the missing and murdered black woman/girl might make page 10.
I'll never forget "Girl X".
Most will have to look her up now.
But people know the name JonBenet Ramsey who was dominating all the headlines at the time.
Not saying one was more tragic than the other - am saying the white girl got the headlines because her family was white and wealthy.
It was a reflection of what society values. White over black. Wealth over poverty.
A sexist society values men over women.
A racist and sexist society values white men over all women and people of color. There is a hierarchy of hate.
A racist and sexist society that equates being wealthy with good and poverty with bad will value a wealthy white man the most.
Think of all the bad things some people attribute to the poor - the subtext being such things aren't true about those not poor.
Sure, there are exceptions to the sexism and racism that infects society - but exceptions are exceptions for a reason - they aren't the norm.
The thing is, you can't give in to racist and sexist thinking and saying we need a white man to lead is giving in to racism and sexism. That without a white man we can't win or advance our ideas is propping up the myth that (some) white men have created - that without them, it all falls apart. Same shit republicans pushed when Obama was in office - the whole "take our country back". They meant take it back to where a black man wasn't president. They want white male leaders only.
Saying the nominee needs to be a white male is pandering to the racists and sexists. That's what they might need but it's not what America needs.
America needs the best qualified Democrat - and that person doesn't have to be a white or male.
A country does not move forward by embracing backward thinking.
doc03
(35,349 posts)EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)We can hear it loud and clear.
nini
(16,672 posts)Last edited Thu Oct 25, 2018, 11:28 PM - Edit history (1)
..than their opponents in the last 3 presidential elections.
So.. nah. He is not right. He's more of the same.
Raine
(30,540 posts)for him.
nini
(16,672 posts)How so many couldn't see through him is beyond me. He's out of touch with the non white Democrats obviously.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Okay ... Whatever.
FiveGoodMen
(20,018 posts)So he's not asserting a valid privilege, he's just pointing out a sad fact.
The responses in this thread remind me of the coastal states that banned any talk of climate change.
Or the influenza teen who couldn't be expected to face up to the truth of what he did.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Not only isn't it "so" - as evidenced by the last three elections and the country's changing demographics - but we don't need a Great White Hope.
Thanks, anyway, Michael.
Mike Nelson
(9,959 posts)
I don't agree. The last three Presidential elections had the White men lose the national vote.