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I was on the phone with my mortgage lender officer to renew my pre-approval. She informed me that she changed companies. The new mortgage company that hired her is "faith based" and does "mission work", she says with excitement.
What? The mortgage lender? Faith based and does mission work? I asked.
Yes, and they are one of the fastest growing mortgage lenders in the country. HQ is in North Carolina and they are national.
I became reactive. I asked, is the company radical right wing evangelicals? Are there confederate flags around the office?
She was not amused by me and said she was offended. I did back down, but still held my position of suspicion.
We finished the call cordially, but after hanging up I realized by my instant reaction that this is not a match for me and I will be moving on to another lender.
Whew! I have fire in my belly and it comes out when I least expect it. I am furious with the republicans for destroying our country and a "faith based mortgage lender" is probably right in step with the corrupt mess. IMHO and probably some judgement as well.
irresistable
(989 posts)Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)I am house shopping and have a pre-approved mortgage so I can readily make an offer on something. That pre-approval expires after 4 months and needs to be renewed.
irresistable
(989 posts)Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)Thanks for your affirming support.
Ellen Forradalom
(16,160 posts)"If you are doing business with a religious son of a bitch, get it in writing. His word doesn't mean shit. Not with the Good Lord telling him how to fuck you on the deal."
irresistable
(989 posts)Last edited Wed Oct 17, 2018, 01:42 AM - Edit history (1)
I don't feel quite the same as Burroughs did, but the quote did pop into my mind.
Cha
(297,655 posts)brush
(53,843 posts)Sounds ripe for discrimination against gays, blacks, Latinx, etc.
leftieNanner
(15,149 posts)I absolutely make economic choices based on my politics. Won't shop at the new Hobby Lobby in town. Won't buy Eden canned vegetables. Don't eat at Carl's Jr. (OK, so I don't eat fast food, but I deliberately snub Carl's). Just found out that a local winery owner who makes a lovely Pinot Gris is a big republican donor, so now I won't buy their wines.
The only additional impact that we can have besides voting, as far as I'm concerned, is to vote with our wallets.
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)ret5hd
(20,518 posts)We will have.
Sometimes we have no "good" choices so we can try to make the least bad choice.
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)blm
(113,091 posts).
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)ret5hd
(20,518 posts)essme
(1,207 posts)faith based.
Call another person in the company.
redstatebluegirl
(12,265 posts)MineralMan
(146,329 posts)Check out the Movement Foundation.
http://movementfoundation.org.s114500.gridserver.com/about-us-what-is-movement-foundation/
yardwork
(61,703 posts)I would change lenders too.
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)Why mix mortgages with "mission work"? WTF?
yardwork
(61,703 posts)deurbano
(2,895 posts)children, strangers, prisoners, the poor, the hungry and the sick. (Not to mention what he said about love of money...)
safeinOhio
(32,715 posts)Modern money changers?
Kajun Gal
(1,907 posts)Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)I can't shut off the burn. It might be there for the rest of my life.
Crutchez_CuiBono
(7,725 posts)What's next? That dog don't hunt anymore. The gop has zero moral high ground and religion of today is a sham.
Totally Tunsie
(10,885 posts)Will they accept that in payment of mortgages?
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)unc70
(6,119 posts)They are just outside of Charlotte, NC but over the border in South Carolina.
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)I looked them up on Wikipedia and both states have a republican super-majority.
llmart
(15,552 posts)Jim and Tammy Faye Baker's empire of duping people was just over the border in SC too.
I'd run the other way from this so-called faith based mortgage company.
RhodeIslandOne
(5,042 posts)You're her customer. She should shut her mouth. Too bad, lady.
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)She also said she should not have told me.
No, she needs to tell people so we can make informed decisions about the kind of companies we are doing business with.
grantcart
(53,061 posts)If she doesn't understand that then what else doesn't she get?
RhodeIslandOne
(5,042 posts)She thought it would hit a home run with the customer for whatever reason, she swung and missed. To get offended by it? She should get a helmet or get out of her job.
aeromanKC
(3,327 posts)That is what Trump Murrica is becoming.
KT2000
(20,587 posts)if they informed you that they are faith based and the mortgage lender is excited about it, they would probably discuss whether or not you were faith-based. If not, where money is involved, you can count on getting screwed.
Thomas Hurt
(13,903 posts)tclambert
(11,087 posts)Tell them you're Buddhist and see what happens. Oh, wait, tell them you're a Pastafarian.
tclambert
(11,087 posts)Zing Zing Zingbah
(6,496 posts)jmbar2
(4,906 posts)They're proliferating all over. Seems like a dumb gimmick. Run fast in the opposite direction!
eleny
(46,166 posts)GulfCoast66
(11,949 posts)Cause usury is a sin in the Bible. If she said no, call them Pharisees.
Clearly I dont believe in any of that shit.
Buckeyeblue
(5,501 posts)Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)I will be starting over with all that paperwork!
Buckeyeblue
(5,501 posts)slumcamper
(1,606 posts)I'm very toxic, even dangerous, these days.
I can't work the call bank, much less knock doors because my hair-trigger reaction to conservatives may land me in prison. I early voted to avoid having to look at them. I stay indoors, work from home as much as possible, and avoid interactions with anyone else to the fullest degree possible.
So yeah, I get ya.
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)That will help.
I hope Mueller will lead us down the road of justice.
appalachiablue
(41,171 posts)back when were beginning the process of purchasing another home. We were working with 2 partners, women, until they referred to a property as 'the divorce house.'
I gave them a chance, asked if that's what I heard and they affirmed that it was. I just couldn't work with people so biased, conservative and discriminatory as in,-- 'the handicapped house.' 'the crime house,' 'the heart disease house,' etc.
NJCher
(35,729 posts)These people are neophytes. Business is complicated enough without mixing in some extraneous factor like religion. There is just no way that adding that component to the business makes it any better.
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)mixing business with religion? No. If you want religion and mission work, there are churches for that. Not my mortgage lender!
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,895 posts)Isn't your pre-approval with a specific mortgage company? I don't understand these things very well, other than when I was buying my place around ten years ago the mortgage person I was working with gave up on the company that was originally to be my lender because they kept on dicking around. I forget the details.
In any case, you are vastly better off without a faith based mortgage company. Such bullshit. And yeah, too bad you didn't point out to her that the Bible is quite down on charging interest, so if you stay with them you expect a zero percent interest on your mortgage. Actually, it might be fun to call her up and discuss that with her, and listen to her justify faith based interest rates.
MontanaMama
(23,337 posts)call our business and tout themselves as a Christian organization as one of the reasons we should switch to them. My husband had the guy on speaker phone so I could listen while I was working. My reaction was immediate and visceral. Get that guy the hell off my phone. Seriously? Christian credit card processing?
Sorry about you having to re-do the paperwork for your mortgage but youll probably be glad you did this in the long run.
ecstatic
(32,731 posts)It's disgusting. They have shown themselves to be the most corrupt group of hypocrites.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)dawg
(10,624 posts)I generally assume that most "faith-based" businesses are out to rip you off.
hughee99
(16,113 posts)They should give you title to the house right away and have faith you will make the payments anyway.
treestar
(82,383 posts)it likely is corrupt.
hatrack
(59,592 posts)Thanks! You just made my life a little easier, since I can now check your company off the list.