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Recursion

(56,582 posts)
Thu Oct 11, 2018, 08:46 PM Oct 2018

On Coming Out Day, I want to salute every out DUer


That's a courage I can't imagine, and the liberation must be a joy I can't comprehend. You've earned it.

Those of you who can't be out yet: we love you, and we know you're there, and we hope you can be in a safer place soon.

I'm straight, but my understanding of sex as being about authenticity and honesty came from all my LGBTQ friends. You have added that to our idea of what sex requires, and I cannot thank you enough for it.



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On Coming Out Day, I want to salute every out DUer (Original Post) Recursion Oct 2018 OP
First time I ever recall a post like this. Behind the Aegis Oct 2018 #1
. irisblue Oct 2018 #2
Thank you, Recursion. That's a wonderful post from a beautiful soul! Glorfindel Oct 2018 #3
Thank you for your sacrifice! nt TwistOneUp Oct 2018 #11
Thank you! n/t Ms. Toad Oct 2018 #4
Nice lunasun Oct 2018 #5
K&R Solly Mack Oct 2018 #6
Thanks for your post! David__77 Oct 2018 #7
Sweet. JudyM Oct 2018 #8
Thank you, Recursion... peequod Oct 2018 #9
Thanks! TwistOneUp Oct 2018 #10
K&R demmiblue Oct 2018 #12
thanks dsc Oct 2018 #13
thank you!!!! n/t gay texan Oct 2018 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author bhikkhu Oct 2018 #15

Glorfindel

(9,730 posts)
3. Thank you, Recursion. That's a wonderful post from a beautiful soul!
Thu Oct 11, 2018, 08:53 PM
Oct 2018

I came out to my family 50 years ago, right after being discharged from the US Army. I was greeted by a big yawn...they had figured it out long since, they didn't care, and they loved me anyway.

David__77

(23,419 posts)
7. Thanks for your post!
Thu Oct 11, 2018, 09:46 PM
Oct 2018

As a gay man and a man married to a man and a human who cares for freedom, it’s good to hear!

peequod

(189 posts)
9. Thank you, Recursion...
Thu Oct 11, 2018, 11:44 PM
Oct 2018

That was a wonderfully thoughtful post. I salute and appreciate your understanding. Coming out was not a smooth ride for me and involved a lot of fear, tears and anguish. Thank you again for your appreciation of our struggle

TwistOneUp

(1,020 posts)
10. Thanks!
Fri Oct 12, 2018, 04:21 PM
Oct 2018

Recursion, thanks for your post.

Conversion / reparative therapy are harmful and cause depression and suicides, and no one ever changes - despite their marketing BS.

You are what you are, you like what you like, and that's that.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
13. thanks
Fri Oct 12, 2018, 05:38 PM
Oct 2018

There may well be a day when coming out isn't a thing, but frankly I think it is a long time coming.

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