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(42,862 posts)... smearing and attacking Democrats and the Democratic party. Strength through unity, not division and suspicion. All I'm trying to say is that we Democrats will overcome our GOP and Russian enemies by working together. Insults don't unify... they divide. Lies don't unify... they weaken. Smears don't strengthen... they create distrust. All I'm trying to say is that who try to divide us by creating resentment with name-calling and lies about Democrats and the Democratic party are only helping the GOP, not the Democrats.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)Criticism is valuable. Self-criticism and outside criticism. The criticism that is weak we can own, the criticism that is on point, we can learn from and adjust to. I don't fear that. Strong and right.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)sure I trust your compass on that.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)sure I trust your compass on that.
But I will admit that it's very wise of you to not come right out and bluntly say that I'm too dumb to discern the difference between actual criticism and the typical insults, smears and lies.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)critical of the Democratic Party. I could be wrong about that, but one thing I do not wonder about is your intelligence. You are a solid part of the DU community with a strong perspective that you articulate well. I almost always find myself on the other side of issues with you, but that is not a question of intelligence. Its a question of what lens we see the world through. I don't think its unreasonable for either of us to think the other is seeing the world through a distorted lens because we both think we have the clearer vision of it.
It would be unreasonable for us to quit challenging our own perspective, so I'll continue to do that, and you have certainly given me grist to do that over the years.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)critical of the Democratic Party.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)Intelligent people can't privilege some facts over others? They can't have confirmation bias?
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)JCanete
(5,272 posts)as a cynical dishonest actor attempting to trick you into talking about certain subjects, etc. That does happen. You may not think I'm unintelligent(I'm not sure) but you certainly think that I'm not arguing in good faith and say so. I actually can believe that you're intelligent and arguing in good faith at the same time, and still find us coming to different conclusions.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)I'm not the only one who sees it. No gaslighting me. Sorry, not sorry.
George II
(67,782 posts)JCanete
(5,272 posts)JCanete
(5,272 posts)who feels like I let myself get sucked into a vortex of pointlessness.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)who feels like I let myself get sucked into a vortex of pointlessness.
All I'm trying to say is that it really serves no good purpose to try and talk down to me... and blaming me for your own mistakes, well... that's pointless, too.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)or lecturing versus having an opinion and stating it, but I don't expect that you'll clarify the difference for me here.
Again, whereas you can interpret what I've said how you like I've never said what you are inferring. Contrast that to you consistent refrain that I'm trying to trick you into one thing after the other. That my intentions have nothing to do with the content we're discussing and everything to do with...what, getting you banned? Tricking you into revealing something compromising? Getting you to buy into a timeshare?
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)JCanete
(5,272 posts)characterization as something that very nearly edges our conversation up to a level of civil, so I thank you for that.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)ehrnst
(32,640 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)desperately needs to match it with actions.
In Florida, Sanders has endorsed the far weaker of our Democratic candidates, Andrew Gillum, for governor. Congressman John Lewis, whose commitment to fighting authoritarianism has never been in doubt, endorsed our stronger Democratic candidate. I'll be delighted if Gillum wins, but the Republicans' chances of replacing Gov. Rick Scott with "voters don't mon-kee this up " very hard right Ron DeSantis just got brighter.
In Florida's senate race, Sanders has NOT endorsed our Democratic candidate, Bill Nelson. I don't know if that's good or bad. If Sanders feels it might hurt our chances and tip Florida to Governor-now-Senator Rick Scott, not endorsing might well be in order.
But, judging by Sen. Sanders' refusal to support the vast majority of Democrats and some endorsements of dangerously weak candidates in the other 49 states, it's probably just indicating the continued huge dissonance between Sanders' words and his actions.
I applaud this simple statement because it's so dreadfully true. But Senator Sanders needs to put his actions where his words are.
George II
(67,782 posts)Tiggeroshii
(11,088 posts)He is not maple syrup!!
George II
(67,782 posts)Tiggeroshii
(11,088 posts)Either way neither Senator from Vermont or Florida is maple syrup.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)then there's a better chance that the base will get out for that candidate, and that's what wins elections. I don't care about the speculations or the head-to-head matchups...it might be an interesting intellectual endeavor to wonder whether Sanders for instance, would have beaten Trump, but the reality is Clinton took the bulk of the votes and that's the best indicator we have. A weak candidate doesn't simply win. A weak candidate beats another candidate in the primary. So even if that candidate is weak as you proclaim, I'm not sure what that says about his or her opponent.
Cary
(11,746 posts)You ought to have objective research to show that your "criticism" doesn't aid and abet "conservative" disinformation. I haven't seen any, myself. Since "conservatives" spend billions of dollars to sow discord and discontent I have to assume that it helps elect Republicans.
I would never help to elect Republicans.
How about you? Would you help to elect Republicans?
JCanete
(5,272 posts)have been winning too many different ways for too long. And that isn't on the count of Sanders mean words.
Cary
(11,746 posts)... aid and abet Republicans, if that is the case.
The difference is that I am not willing to aid and abet Republicans. Even if I did not deem that probable, I would not be so willing. Republicans are fascists. We have a Nazi in the White House. I resist them with every fiber in my body.
You should resist them with every fiber in your body too.
Of a straw man to minimize a fellow Democrat who happens to have very mild criticism. There is nothing in the poster's comments that support your vile accusation of aiding and abetting the nazi gop.
Cary
(11,746 posts)The subject is criticizing Democrats. The premise is that criticizing Democrats results in fewer votes. I asked for objective evidence to refute the premise and was given none. I stated that I am not willing to engage in this criticism because, assuming the premise is true, I will not aid and abet Republicans.
While the premise may be untrue (I am certain that it is true) I don't wish to take that risk.
To that I have no response. Now please be so good as to present a reasonably objective argument to support your two accusations, or else be good enough to apologize.
George II
(67,782 posts)Cary
(11,746 posts)I sense malice, from a "fellow Democrat."
StuckInTexas
(66 posts)You can take your not so subtle accusation and shove it (I will leave it for you to decide where). I work 50 hours a week, and cannot reply at your whim. I also attend school at night 4 nights a week. You know what I do with the rest of my limited amount of time? I wish it was spend time with my family, but it is not. I fill those other waking hours volunteering wherever and whenever I can for democrats.
Currently I do phone banks and block walks for Beto. I do this at LEAST 12 hours a week. We're currently in the middle of a dogfight with a chance to put in one of the most promising Senate candidates in years while simultaneously taking out the vile pseudo human, Ted Cruz.
If that isn't proof of me being enough of a Democrat for you, well, my first statement will suffice. I ask you, besides being an asshole who questions the motives of other Democrats, what are you doing to fight the nazi gop?
Note: I won't be able to respond until tomorrow, as I literally will not have more than a few minutes free until the very late evening. And quite honestly, I probably won't reply at all as this doesn't do anything to help the ultimate goal of a blue fucking wave.
Cary
(11,746 posts)I asked you to back up your own accusations and you respond with personal attacks and lame excuses.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)until you feel like bringing evidence to a conversation, I'm going to abstain from having one with you. We've had too many and a lot of your words tend to be more about me than the topic at hand.
Cha
(297,323 posts)We're not talking about criticism here and you know.
Lobbing that "the Democratic Party is the party of the 1% and NOT of working people" is not true.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)As to whether we are the party of the 1 percent, I think that's a more complicated answer. The 1 percent HAVE gotten richer under democratic leadership and Republican leadership. They've never lost. Democrats are a lot better at tamping down outright corruption and not letting money slip away in the night, and not having the commons sold out from under us. Our party tends to be responsible stewards, that nonetheless under our watch, the wealth redistribution continues, and the power that allows the rich to wield and thus then clobber Democrats in elections, has continued.
Cha
(297,323 posts)JCanete
(5,272 posts)That's different than a smear. Its a characterization.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)It's like someone saying that they only "characterize" another person as being dumb. We're supposed to buy the argument that it's not really the same as making out outright declarative statement that the other person is dumb... because, instead they're just "making a case". --- What nonsense!
All I'm saying is that no matter what pretty words and euphemisms anyone uses to characterize the lies and smears and insult... they're STILL (and always will be) lies and smears an insults.
These are opportunistic and cynical lies that ONLY serve to divide and weaken and to turn new voters away from being (or supporting) Democrats.
Power 2 the People
(2,437 posts)Tearing each other down will not help in November.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)mcar
(42,334 posts)I think we all know which is which.
Cha
(297,323 posts)deny the smear. Talk about "TELLING".
It's ok for BS but when we call him out on it or anyone like him.. it's Not OK.. according to those who think it's ok for BS but not for thee.
See how that works? mcar
Eliot Rosewater
(31,112 posts)and require your entire family stand with you and nobody leaves until you decide what color to paint it AFTER it burns to the ground?
You are EITHER doing that criticizing now or you have an entirely different reason to criticize NOW.
It has gone on too long, I no longer believe those doing this care AT ALL about a strong D party but in fact have an entirely different agenda.
R B Garr
(16,954 posts)degradation for its own sake. That is just opportunistic exploitation.
MrsCoffee
(5,803 posts)As do most who pretend his criticism of the Democratic Party is noble.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)In posts recently I took issue with the characterization or intention of something he said regarding losing southern states but still thought it was a dumb thing to say.
I disagree with, given the context in which Sanders said it, people who are angry at him for using the term "identity politics" as a knock to dems, but I appreciate the history with that term, the long seeded connotations, so I understand that grievance.
There is one article that suggests Sanders was not entirely cognizant of what powers the President has...Sanders suggested he would have the power as President to do some sort of regulating I think it was, and he did a very bad job of articulating what those powers might be. It may have been that he thought they'd be able to find the legal precedent for them or that the legal precedent he was thinking of was on shaky ground, but either way that particular piece is entirely legitimate and effective criticism of Sanders and whether or not he was the most prepared candidate on the actual workings and legal challenges of the office.
I've also said recently that I disagree with him about saying the democratic party is the party of the 1 percent, I just don't think his comment rises to the level of a smear, because I think he could make a case given the continued financial success of the rich in this country no matter which party has been in control. I don't have problem with people taking it to task though, because it is a statement absolutely worthy of push-back. The counter-argument to his is a solid one.
Nor did I have a problem with questions and criticisms regarding Sanders recent proposal to get big companies like Amazon and Walmart to pay 100 percent of government assistance, because the actual consequences of such legislation were legitimately a big question mark.
Nor am I partisan when it comes to issues that seem directly targeted at Sanders, like releasing tax returns as a prerequisite for running in the dem primary, which I'm fine with, or doing away with caucuses, which I might lament as an avenue for less heavily backed candidates but which I understand to be greatly disenfranchizing.
Criticism is fine. But inaccurate criticism should be challenged and different perspectives brought to bear.
Cha
(297,323 posts)Damn Straight, MrsCoffee
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)Clearly NJ is not talking about criticism here.
Puching away at a strawman and less than subtle gaslighting really don't indicate "strong" or "right," where debate among adults is concerned.
Neither does heaving stones while living in a glass house. When there is even the slightest doubt or dissent expressed towards Senator Sanders ideas, you are among the first to label it "smearing," or "innacurate criticism."
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)Interesting and revealing.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)Cha
(297,323 posts)but Not "interesting" that you would think so.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)dansolo
(5,376 posts)Just like how Bernie and Our Revolution operates. There can be authoritarians on the left, too.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)And it is good to recognize the tendency.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)ehrnst
(32,640 posts)But not to Nurse Jackie's post.
Before I read her post, actually.
George II
(67,782 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)Cha
(297,323 posts)them out.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)And some pointed that out to you.
Cha
(297,323 posts)Eliot Rosewater
(31,112 posts)If the Dems dont take back the house I am going to come here and SCREAM at certain people and I suspect even that wont matter at that point.
peggysue2
(10,833 posts)this continuing smear and run campaign by some folks is beyond aggravating. Nancy's call for a strong, unified Dem party is an example of . . . authoritarianism??
Oh please! State the obvious and loyal Dems are dictators?
Maybe it's this: the country is in crisis and too many people want to pretend it's business as usual. The November elections are critical to our national survival but too many people want to pretend that the worse it gets the better future for their particular agenda, as in Susan Sarandon exclaiming that The Revolution will be forced into being by the Trumpster debacle. That theory is based on a false assumption: that the miraculous Revolution will solve all problems, even though history tells us that the vast majority of well-intentioned revolutions end in utter chaos & destruction--think French as opposed to American. It also presumes the opposition will fold up and die, be forever extinguished which is the way fairytales are read to small children, minus the darkness. They won't go away. That's why the fight is ongoing and the fight in November is so important.
We have one damn shot at stopping the madness and rerouting the train before the damage to our institutions and Rule of Law becomes irreparable. Anyone criticizing, belittling or standing in the way of that effort is not a Democrat or even a patriot. Yes, I used the word: patriot. Because our sovereignty, our national democratic identity is at stake.
We fight this together now. We argue about the color of the drapes later. Otherwise, there will be nothing left to save. Good intentions won't correct this mess. Shoulders together is the only way.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)Cha
(297,323 posts)Words matter and he needs to be held accountable.
Thank You!
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)Walking lockstep with a manifesto and ejecting any who dissent make for a very dynamic movement, but not a successful campaign.
Especially with Democrats - we just have this thing about being allies with those who have different ideas on how to get to the same goal.
Tiggeroshii
(11,088 posts)...
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)Uncle Joe
(58,366 posts)Thanks for the thread pbmus.
OilemFirchen
(7,143 posts)I do know, however, that it is considered inappropriate to cast any aspersions on the Senator.
I guess that's ironic, but I can't say for sure.
Cha
(297,323 posts)For Sure!
OilemFirchen
(7,143 posts)Cha
(297,323 posts)lol
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)That's what I'm told.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Thanks for sharing.
Autumn
(45,109 posts)SkyDancer
(561 posts)Thanks for sharing this!
Authoritarianism must be recognized and challenged.