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MineralMan

(146,331 posts)
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 10:14 AM Aug 2018

Thanks to everyone today for not attacking

Senator McCain. Like almost everyone here, I always opposed his political positions. However, his service to the country, both as a Navy officer and as a long-time Senator cannot be ignored. One can hold political views that I will fight against, but serve honorably, based on political beliefs that are opposite to mine.

We have two major political parties in the United States. They are quite different. The nation is roughly evenly divided between those parties, which causes considerable movement back and forth on many issues. I'd rather that weren't the case, but it is. Still, John McCain stood up and cast the last and decisive vote against shutting down the ACA. He did not do that because he thought it was a good law, but because he did not want to take away what was left of it, leaving millions of Americans with no alternative.

So, today, I am simply honoring his service. I can do no less. He is gone, and I will not speak ill of him today.

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Thanks to everyone today for not attacking (Original Post) MineralMan Aug 2018 OP
K&R stonecutter357 Aug 2018 #1
Good call Angry Dragon Aug 2018 #2
I cherish DownriverDem Aug 2018 #22
And my thanks to you, too, sir! better Aug 2018 #3
Thanks Mineral Man. smirkymonkey Aug 2018 #4
I too will not speak ill of Senator John McCain, john657 Aug 2018 #5
Thanks brother Glamrock Aug 2018 #6
Amen.... Pachamama Aug 2018 #7
McCain also made a speech on the Senate floor to defend Huma Abedin against attacks by Republicans dalton99a Aug 2018 #11
Bravo.... Pachamama Aug 2018 #13
Never knew this. I'm so glad to learn of it. Hekate Aug 2018 #17
Thank you, Mineral Man. gademocrat7 Aug 2018 #8
Honor is in short supply today... He may have been a foe, but he knew what honor meant hlthe2b Aug 2018 #9
There have been plenty of comments that criticize the Senator. Grammy23 Aug 2018 #10
re: his action on the ACA strangedaysindeed Aug 2018 #12
Amen. Well said. nt R B Garr Aug 2018 #14
agreed... dhill926 Aug 2018 #15
Thanks Hekate Aug 2018 #16
It's hard for me to separate the political.... LakeArenal Aug 2018 #18
Well, I saw one or two people attacking him today. Honeycombe8 Aug 2018 #19
Thanks for all the replies. That's the DU sensitivity MineralMan Aug 2018 #20
I find the DU tributes from McCain's brothers-in-arms to be especially touching Hekate Aug 2018 #32
Yes. I posted in that veterans thread. MineralMan Aug 2018 #34
My husband is also a Vietnam-era vet, non-combat like you, and has always admired McCain... Hekate Aug 2018 #37
Yes. I admired his ethical balance and service, but not his positions. MineralMan Aug 2018 #38
Thank you ! obnoxiousdrunk Aug 2018 #21
We lost another Vietnam War veteran yesterday. SCVDem Aug 2018 #23
Trump has no say about what happens in the Capitol rotunda. MineralMan Aug 2018 #24
That made me teary-eyed. Lifelong Protester Aug 2018 #44
What's to attack? calimary Aug 2018 #25
Good question. MineralMan Aug 2018 #26
Very well stated. backtoblue Aug 2018 #28
Brilliant observation, calimary.. the difference in the game show traitor and John McCain.. Cha Aug 2018 #43
A Telling Moment Roy Rolling Aug 2018 #27
Indeed. Debating someone who cannot reply is a waste of time. MineralMan Aug 2018 #29
A Great Man guss Aug 2018 #30
At our core, we Democrats are the party of common decency flibbitygiblets Aug 2018 #31
Yes. Collectively, we are that. MineralMan Aug 2018 #33
We do work at it, and mostly we get there. Still glad to be a Democrat. nt Hekate Aug 2018 #35
There are so many malicious people in politics these days. backscatter712 Aug 2018 #36
I'll say it again LostinRed Aug 2018 #39
Thanks again to all who replied to this thread. MineralMan Aug 2018 #40
As a fellow human being Heartstrings Aug 2018 #41
I've yet to see a Democrat attack John McCain. I've been seeing Deplorables doing it all day CousinIT Aug 2018 #42
K and r. Tipperary Aug 2018 #45
Many thanks to you, MineralMan ailsagirl Aug 2018 #46
I agree. I don't agree with his politics Horse with no Name Aug 2018 #47
A fitting tribute, MineralMan.. Permanut Aug 2018 #48
Well said Pepsidog Aug 2018 #49

DownriverDem

(6,231 posts)
22. I cherish
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 12:10 PM
Aug 2018

his vote to save the ACA. No I didn't always agree with his views, but he did a great thing saving the ACA.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
4. Thanks Mineral Man.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 10:19 AM
Aug 2018

I have no ill-will in my heart for this man. I wish only peace for his family and loved ones.

Pachamama

(16,887 posts)
7. Amen....
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 10:22 AM
Aug 2018

I hope he and Teddy Kennedy are shaking hands and nodding right now....

I agree with all you said Mineral Man.... I feel the same way and I will also remember when during the campaign he corrected that woman who called Obama an Arab and other times he respectfully defended him. I will also remember his action on the ACA. Always.

dalton99a

(81,585 posts)
11. McCain also made a speech on the Senate floor to defend Huma Abedin against attacks by Republicans
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 10:33 AM
Aug 2018
"Recently, it has been alleged that Huma, a Muslim American, is part of a nefarious conspiracy to harm the United States by unduly influencing U.S. foreign policy at the Department of State in favor of the Muslim Brotherhood and other Islamist causes. On June 13, five members of Congress wrote to the deputy inspector general of the Department of State, demanding that he begin an investigation into the possibility that Huma and other American officials are using their influence to promote the cause of the Muslim Brotherhood within the U.S. government. The information offered to support these serious allegations is based on a report, 'The Muslim Brotherhood in America,' produced by the Center for Security Policy."

"To say that the accusations made in both documents are not substantiated by the evidence they offer is to be overly polite and diplomatic about it. It is far better, and more accurate, to talk straight: These allegations about Huma, and the report from which they are drawn, are nothing less than an unwarranted and unfounded attack on an honorable citizen, a dedicated American, and a loyal public servant. ..."

"I have every confidence in Huma's loyalty to our country, and everyone else should as well. All Americans owe Huma a debt of gratitude for her many years of superior public service. I hope these ugly and unfortunate attacks on her can be immediately brought to an end and put behind us before any further damage is done to a woman, an American, of genuine patriotism and love of country."

Pachamama

(16,887 posts)
13. Bravo....
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 10:38 AM
Aug 2018

McCain was a good man even if we disagreed on his politics....

And I trust Joe Biden and him and John McCain were good friends....that says a lot too....

hlthe2b

(102,361 posts)
9. Honor is in short supply today... He may have been a foe, but he knew what honor meant
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 10:31 AM
Aug 2018

and showed he had it in spades during some of the most difficult times in his life.

I honor that and I grieve its loss. Our country, our world is a far worse place without examples like McCain and I fear for our future.

RIP, John. You angered me, you frustrated me, but in the end, looking at the entirety of your life and career, I salute you.

Grammy23

(5,813 posts)
10. There have been plenty of comments that criticize the Senator.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 10:33 AM
Aug 2018

But now is not the time to revisit them. Today, and the days following his passing, should be reserved to honor his service. There will be plenty of time to critique his entire life story later on but these few days can and should be devoted to memorials. It is the kind and decent thing to do and we need more of that these days.
 

strangedaysindeed

(226 posts)
12. re: his action on the ACA
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 10:35 AM
Aug 2018

I remember the look on McConnell's face when McCain stood in front of him and plunged his thumb down during the vote.

He had his ups and downs, but I think his heart was in the right place.

LakeArenal

(28,845 posts)
18. It's hard for me to separate the political....
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 11:43 AM
Aug 2018

However, how he has represented end of life issues really is magnificent.

These last few months have shown a real graciousness and gratitude for the life he made.

That I can respect; and wish him well on his journey.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
19. Well, I saw one or two people attacking him today.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 11:45 AM
Aug 2018

I think he was an honorable, ethical man...to the extent that any of us is honorable and ethical. I did not agree with him ideologically, but he was a normal Republican, not part of the alt-right extremists (formerly called the Tea Party).

Establishment Republicans and establishment Democrats have a long history of working together on issues and compromising. Each side serves as a sort of checks and balances on the other side, preventing extreme laws from being passed. This can be bad or good, but whichever it is, that is how government in a democracy operates. McCain was willing to work with Democrats and compromise at times. He counted Democrats among his personal friends.

Besides that, he was a family man and loved his family more than anything, and I believe he loved America, including its ideals. (Although I have a memory that McCain left his first wife for Cindy? I'm fuzzy on that.)

Anyway, he lived a good life and died with his honorable reputation intact. He made mistakes, like we all have. But overall, a good guy with good intentions.

Hekate

(90,794 posts)
32. I find the DU tributes from McCain's brothers-in-arms to be especially touching
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 12:53 PM
Aug 2018

For the most part it looks like DUers filled with bile managed to get it out of their systems on Friday/Saturday. Today is a day to lay down the partisan cudgels, and for recalling the good he did.

MineralMan

(146,331 posts)
34. Yes. I posted in that veterans thread.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 12:56 PM
Aug 2018

I was never in harm's way, as McCain was. But I did voluntarily serve in the military during the Vietnam war. It was not a hardship for me, as it was for so many others, but the military decided where to send me and what I should do. My bravery was never tested.

Hekate

(90,794 posts)
37. My husband is also a Vietnam-era vet, non-combat like you, and has always admired McCain...
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 01:05 PM
Aug 2018

In the heat of election cycles I participated in bashing McCain -- but he never would. And now I too lay down that political fight, remember the ways in which he was a good man and a patriot, and leave the rest to history.

RIP, Senator, and thanks for your service.

MineralMan

(146,331 posts)
38. Yes. I admired his ethical balance and service, but not his positions.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 01:10 PM
Aug 2018

Now, his positions no longer matter, so all that is left is those other two things.

 

SCVDem

(5,103 posts)
23. We lost another Vietnam War veteran yesterday.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 12:17 PM
Aug 2018

Historians will do a better job on the life of John McCain than we ever could .

For now we mourn a veteran, family man and a United States Senator.

For those who deride him, what have you done with YOUR life that comes close to his resume?

I only hope tRump doesn't interfere with his lying in state in the Capitol. We veterans would not take kindly to such disrespect!





MineralMan

(146,331 posts)
24. Trump has no say about what happens in the Capitol rotunda.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 12:24 PM
Aug 2018

That's a congressional option. I suspect someone has explained that to him, to his disappointment.

calimary

(81,467 posts)
25. What's to attack?
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 12:31 PM
Aug 2018

Anyone who was around during the 2008 campaign or earlier has already pointed out whatever mistakes or flaws or issues or whatever, with which they found fault - regarding this VERY human and yet strong and courageous and noble American. I'm certainly no exception. But it grew harder and harder to stay with those feelings as time passed, and John McCain's behavior repeatedly showed the measure of the man. We who didn't know him from his Arizona world could see who and what he was as time passed, especially through the Obama years up til now.

His behavior proved him to be a really classy guy. Patriotic and loyal - to the country and the Constitution. Steadfast. Strong. Able to withstand some seriously ungodly stuff back at the Hanoi Hilton and even after that as he tried to recover.

A remarkable man. Total class. Selfless service. Imperfect, yes, but hell - aren't we all? He left a record ANYONE would be proud to have - any public servant, OR civilian. He'll always cast a giant shadow. And donald trump will NEVER be worthy even to touch the hem of his pants leg.

Frankly, I find myself wondering if John McCain's final gift to America is to wake a few more people up - about what greatness REALLY is, in HIGH contrast to what trump keeps on telling them. The comparison cannot be avoided OR overstated, even by those in denial. It's a HUGE crater that I suspect at least a few of them will have BIG trouble trying to step over.

MineralMan

(146,331 posts)
26. Good question.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 12:35 PM
Aug 2018

It's one thing to disagree on policy issues. It's another to attack the person in a general way. Now, I do make exceptions. I can find no redeeming values in someone like Donald Trump, for example. In general, he deserves attack.

We've moved into another phase in this country, I think - A phase where there are no subtleties. Personally, I don't find that to be a good thing.

Cha

(297,659 posts)
43. Brilliant observation, calimary.. the difference in the game show traitor and John McCain..
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 08:08 PM
Aug 2018
Frankly, I find myself wondering if John McCain's final gift to America is to wake a few more people up - about what greatness REALLY is, in HIGH contrast to what trump keeps on telling them. The comparison cannot be avoided OR overstated, even by those in denial. It's a HUGE crater that I suspect at least a few of them will have BIG trouble trying to step over.

Roy Rolling

(6,933 posts)
27. A Telling Moment
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 12:41 PM
Aug 2018

Those who continue to debate a dead man were never interested in agreement as much as obedience.

MineralMan

(146,331 posts)
33. Yes. Collectively, we are that.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 12:54 PM
Aug 2018

If we stop being that, I think we are no longer Democrats. It is, and should be, part of our fundamental beliefs.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
36. There are so many malicious people in politics these days.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 01:05 PM
Aug 2018

John McCain wasn't one of them.

Sure I disagreed with him about 99% of the time, but he had far more dignity than a lot of the right wing shitheads out there.

MineralMan

(146,331 posts)
40. Thanks again to all who replied to this thread.
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 02:50 PM
Aug 2018

You have boosted my spirit today, which wasn't easy to do. Thanks!

CousinIT

(9,257 posts)
42. I've yet to see a Democrat attack John McCain. I've been seeing Deplorables doing it all day
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 08:03 PM
Aug 2018

Trump's hoarde of knuckle-dragging mobsters. Ugh.

He's always had my respect. He served this country faithfully and honorably and though I didn't share his political beliefs, I always felt he had America's best interests at heart.

Rest in Eternal Peace, Senator.

Horse with no Name

(33,956 posts)
47. I agree. I don't agree with his politics
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 10:07 PM
Aug 2018

But his service to this country earned him the title of patriot.
He did a lot of things I didn’t agree with, which is understandable because of our differing ideologies.
I wish his family comfort in the thoughts that he lived his life with great effort to be a good man.

Permanut

(5,637 posts)
48. A fitting tribute, MineralMan..
Sun Aug 26, 2018, 11:52 PM
Aug 2018

I also served in the Vietnam era, but never went there (Destroyer USS Sampson, DDG 10). I served honorably during a conflict I didn't agree with, and was never in the line of fire. Senator McCain served honorably and paid dearly for his service. This veteran honors his service.

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