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Houston high school places responsibility for boys' behavior on girls (Original Post) Takket Aug 2018 OP
Disgusting. nt Phoenix61 Aug 2018 #1
That's horrible. Solly Mack Aug 2018 #2
That's always been a horrible school! ananda Aug 2018 #3
Quote from Sydney Biddle Barrows. madaboutharry Aug 2018 #4
... Cal Carpenter Aug 2018 #13
It was meant to be advice to prostitutes oberliner Aug 2018 #15
Wow, that was pretty stupid, and even dangerous in its implications. nt JCanete Aug 2018 #5
Texas... enough said...nt 2naSalit Aug 2018 #6
Middle school? Wtf? lunasun Aug 2018 #7
Wow! Heartstrings Aug 2018 #8
The more you act like a lady, Farmer-Rick Aug 2018 #9
The more you act like a lady, TheBlackAdder Aug 2018 #23
Why not Liberalagogo Aug 2018 #10
"She made me do it." zentrum Aug 2018 #11
Par For the Course erpowers Aug 2018 #12
This is the intent of the quote: Its not to protect women, its ... marble falls Aug 2018 #14
Someone should paint right below that... relayerbob Aug 2018 #16
Wouldn't it be nice if someone painted the following beneath that piece of crap... alwaysinasnit Aug 2018 #17
Exactly. Haggis for Breakfast Aug 2018 #20
Oh boy, you have brought back memories from my childhood with your post. alwaysinasnit Aug 2018 #21
Did the girls' dresses have to reach the floor when they were on their knees ? Haggis for Breakfast Aug 2018 #24
Not exactly, but if your knees were fully visible, you could be sent to the principal's office. alwaysinasnit Aug 2018 #25
I wonder what they had to do with these two old bats when Haggis for Breakfast Aug 2018 #28
After their fainting spells, I imagine they were quite happy to take early retirement. haha alwaysinasnit Aug 2018 #30
Update............. Takket Aug 2018 #18
Excellent. progressoid Aug 2018 #22
Are we still blaming Eve for Adam eating the apple? BarbD Aug 2018 #19
This is how it was in the fifties. raging moderate Aug 2018 #26
Man created God to control woman. CrispyQ Aug 2018 #29
Replace it with Staph Aug 2018 #27

madaboutharry

(40,231 posts)
4. Quote from Sydney Biddle Barrows.
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 05:23 PM
Aug 2018

Who was Sydney Biddle Barrows, you ask.....

Sydney Biddle Barrows was arrested in New York City for running a prostitution ring and became known as The Mayflower Madam.

Yes ladies and gentleman, some moron at Gregory-Lincoln Middle School decided to inspire the boys and girls who go to school there with the words of a rich hooker.

You. Can. Not. Make. This. Shit. Up.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sydney_Biddle_Barrows

TheBlackAdder

(28,226 posts)
23. The more you act like a lady,
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 08:37 PM
Aug 2018

.

The more you'll get molested by Middle School Faculty and Chief School Administrators.

.

erpowers

(9,350 posts)
12. Par For the Course
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 06:00 PM
Aug 2018

When has responsibility for the behaviors of men and boys not be placed on women and girls. We just went through an election in which a woman was criticized for the actions of her husband. During that same election and man was found not guilty of raping a women because of what she wore on the day he drugged her and had sex with her.

marble falls

(57,346 posts)
14. This is the intent of the quote: Its not to protect women, its ...
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 06:18 PM
Aug 2018

there to protect sexual predators because after all boys will be boys and women have to take care of themselves. Victim blaming 101.

The source of the quote makes me think whoever had this put up thinks HE'S a funny/ironic guy. Fire his ass.

relayerbob

(6,559 posts)
16. Someone should paint right below that...
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 06:28 PM
Aug 2018

The more of a dick he is, the harder I will kick him in the balls

alwaysinasnit

(5,075 posts)
17. Wouldn't it be nice if someone painted the following beneath that piece of crap...
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 06:29 PM
Aug 2018

As the above implies that males have no self-control, then the best solution is to put chastity belts on them.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
20. Exactly.
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 07:34 PM
Aug 2018

I thought this kind of nonsense mentality went out when I was in high school.

We actually had an older (unmarried) female teacher who went around to girls telling them: not to wear patent leather shoes (because that boys could see the reflection of their underwear in those shoes); not to wear red clothing (because red is too passionate of a color and it would "turn the boys on&quot , not to come to school on "those" days (because boys could smell their hormones and would not be able to control themselves), and other such utter rot. She also demanded that the school cafeteria stop putting tables cloths (they were plastic) on the tables at lunch time because it would remind the boys of bed sheets.

She believed that responsibility for boys' behavior rested with the girls.

I really thought this was stuff for the archives, not actual content in 2018.

alwaysinasnit

(5,075 posts)
21. Oh boy, you have brought back memories from my childhood with your post.
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 07:51 PM
Aug 2018

We were required to wear dresses so we were a bit constrained when we went out for recess. Happily for me, we did have one teacher who strongly suggested we wear shorts underneath and that that would help to stop accusations that we girls where "inciting" the boys.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
24. Did the girls' dresses have to reach the floor when they were on their knees ?
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 10:43 PM
Aug 2018

That's one of the things this teacher did. She'd make the girls get on their knees and if their dresses didn't touch the floor, then they were too short.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
28. I wonder what they had to do with these two old bats when
Sat Aug 18, 2018, 12:43 AM
Aug 2018

mini-skirts and hot-pants came along !! Probably sedate them in the teachers' lounge. Or give them earlier retirement.

Takket

(21,640 posts)
18. Update.............
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 06:56 PM
Aug 2018

a few hours later.... it is coming down LOL

Power to the people............ but just because a quote gets painted over doesn't mean the culture that supported it to begin with doesn't still exist........... hope the parents of kids there stay vigilant.


BarbD

(1,194 posts)
19. Are we still blaming Eve for Adam eating the apple?
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 07:26 PM
Aug 2018

Takes me back to parochial school when the girls were told not to be an occasion of sin.

raging moderate

(4,311 posts)
26. This is how it was in the fifties.
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 11:38 PM
Aug 2018

Ann Landers told the world that, if a boy/man molested you sexually, you must have subconsciously wanted it and sent out subconscious signals that attracted him. It was a girl's responsibility to control her subconscious libido which obviously had all the power in a relationship with a male.

Because, obviously, a male could not control himself.

CrispyQ

(36,538 posts)
29. Man created God to control woman.
Sat Aug 18, 2018, 11:18 AM
Aug 2018

We were told in Sunday school that God is neither male nor female. I got in trouble for asking why we referred to God as Father & Son, & if God didn't have a gender, why don't we have a special pronoun for God? It wasn't the only time I got in trouble for asking "inappropriate questions" at church.

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