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left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
Sat Jul 21, 2018, 11:01 AM Jul 2018

How the Obamas managed to become invisible in Washington

When Barack and Michelle Obama announced they were staying in Washington after eight years in the White House, there was a palpable buzz. Most people assumed that the Obamas would move back to Chicago, where they still own their Hyde Park home. But eight months before leaving office, the president said they would stay in town until younger daughter Sasha graduates from Sidwell Friends in June 2019.

After renting the home of former Clinton administration press secretary Joe Lockhart in Kalorama, they purchased the eight-bedroom manse for $8.1 million last spring ... Earlier this year, Michelle told Ellen DeGeneres that the family has settled into their new home. Barack, she explained, has the smallest room for his home office, Sasha a two-room suite because she’s the only child living at home, and Malia — who started at Harvard last fall after taking a gap year — has “a room in the attic somewhere.” The former president has an office in the West End, where he’s working on his memoirs and receiving visitors.

... why does it feel as if they're not really here? From a political standpoint, keeping a low profile follows a long tradition: It’s considered poor form for a president to outshine or criticize his successor, something more likely to happen when they live in the same city. But also because they travel a lot to promote their pet platforms: youth leadership, health care, women’s rights and wellness. This week, Barack is in South Africa for a Nelson Mandela birthday tribute; Michelle took in Beyoncé and Jay-Z’s show Sunday in Paris.

There’s one other factor, a more subtle and complicated aspect of their lives here: Most of their closest friends are African American. They move in an elite, exclusive circle that entertains privately and does not tweet, Instagram or share details about their own lives, much less the Obamas’. “Black Washington is not observed by white Washington,” says a friend who is not authorized to speak about the Obamas but socializes with them. “They’re still the first couple of the world. But the notion that they’re not here is something black people laugh at.”

“The Washington they travel in is appropriate to their ages. People in their 50s and 60s don’t whip out their phones and tweet about it.”

full article at:
https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/how-the-obamas-managed-to-become-invisible-in-washington/ar-AAAc8Tm

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How the Obamas managed to become invisible in Washington (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Jul 2018 OP
It's never been about the headlines with the Obamas beachbum bob Jul 2018 #1
There were some pics when he was hanging with Richard Branson underpants Jul 2018 #2
...and it must be crushingly heartbreaking to see where we are now. Dennis Donovan Jul 2018 #6
It's called class. Butterflylady Jul 2018 #3
It is Class, Wellstone ruled Jul 2018 #8
I'm glad they are able to live their lives hibbing Jul 2018 #4
Because they don't tweet about every damn thing and make it all about THEMSELVES. tanyev Jul 2018 #5
funny. the other day on twitter avanatti posted about being in chi mopinko Jul 2018 #7
This is fascinating. LisaM Jul 2018 #9
I should have read your post cilla4progress Jul 2018 #12
Proudest moment of my white life (for context) NoMoreRepugs Jul 2018 #10
What I found interesting was that they mostly hang with cilla4progress Jul 2018 #11

underpants

(182,826 posts)
2. There were some pics when he was hanging with Richard Branson
Sat Jul 21, 2018, 11:13 AM
Jul 2018

but other than that they showed the same level of class and decorum they always have. It has to be quite a decompression leaving the White House.

Butterflylady

(3,544 posts)
3. It's called class.
Sat Jul 21, 2018, 11:32 AM
Jul 2018

Having integrity and not putting your life in the public limelight. They're keeping their private life, private.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
8. It is Class,
Sat Jul 21, 2018, 01:26 PM
Jul 2018

and their sucsessor's are leaving one ugly stain on a prestigious Position. Class versus White Trash.

hibbing

(10,098 posts)
4. I'm glad they are able to live their lives
Sat Jul 21, 2018, 11:58 AM
Jul 2018

Interesting article, thanks for posting. Of course I miss them both so much it hurts, but this is best for him and his family.

Peace

tanyev

(42,564 posts)
5. Because they don't tweet about every damn thing and make it all about THEMSELVES.
Sat Jul 21, 2018, 11:58 AM
Jul 2018

You know, what grownups do.

mopinko

(70,121 posts)
7. funny. the other day on twitter avanatti posted about being in chi
Sat Jul 21, 2018, 01:24 PM
Jul 2018

and a whole lot of people mentioned the obamas. i replied a couple times that they were in dc. seemed to come as a surprise to a lot of people.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
9. This is fascinating.
Sat Jul 21, 2018, 02:01 PM
Jul 2018

I find myself wanting to know more about the elite African American community in Washington, though I'm sorry that it's distinct from other circles. I wish that divide could be breached.

cilla4progress

(24,736 posts)
12. I should have read your post
Sun Jul 22, 2018, 12:42 PM
Jul 2018

before commenting.

Same here.

It makes me sad somehow because I recall his rainbow family and group of friends while Prez. I hope this is purely their choice and not some regression in "race relations." It also feels like it gives white separatists fodder.

NoMoreRepugs

(9,435 posts)
10. Proudest moment of my white life (for context)
Sat Jul 21, 2018, 02:04 PM
Jul 2018

after the birth of my 2 children was voting for that MAN twice. I'm 69 and in what's left of my life there will never be another like him.

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