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Omaha Steve

(99,632 posts)
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:26 PM Aug 2012

My first day on the new job, mom past away (updated)


I'd been at work an hour when my sister called. Mom had less than 2 weeks in the hospice. Cancer. My sister and I were there with her. She turned 88 on July 11th.

It will be a few days before I'm back here regularly.

Services will be Friday morning.

Edit: The post from last week about my new job: http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021048109

OS

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My first day on the new job, mom past away (updated) (Original Post) Omaha Steve Aug 2012 OP
Hang in there OS KurtNYC Aug 2012 #1
Deepest sympathy to you and your family Omaha Steve malaise Aug 2012 #2
I hope her passing was peaceful. I will keep you in my thoughts. Arkansas Granny Aug 2012 #3
I'm sorry. reflection Aug 2012 #4
I am so sorry. Justice wanted Aug 2012 #5
Stay strong, Omaha Steve. NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #6
I'm very sorry for your loss, Steve. yardwork Aug 2012 #7
My deepest sympathy Siwsan Aug 2012 #8
I'm sorry, Steve pinboy3niner Aug 2012 #9
Condolences to you and your family.... CherokeeDem Aug 2012 #10
... tosh Aug 2012 #11
......... Angry Dragon Aug 2012 #12
So sorry for your loss Steve, felt as if I knew her. Peace to you and yours..n/t monmouth Aug 2012 #13
{{hugs}} nc4bo Aug 2012 #14
My deepest sympathy to you, Steve, and your sister. n/t pnwmom Aug 2012 #15
My thoughts are with you and your family. Liberal Veteran Aug 2012 #16
I am so sorry for your loss... virgdem Aug 2012 #17
May Peace be with you and your family. Nt xchrom Aug 2012 #18
I'm so sorry. LeftofObama Aug 2012 #19
My condolences to you and your family, Steve. LongTomH Aug 2012 #20
Very sorry for the sadness you and your family are going through. glinda Aug 2012 #21
Oh dear Steve. I'm so very sorry. lamp_shade Aug 2012 #22
I'm sorry you lost your mom. HappyMe Aug 2012 #23
So sorry for your loss flakey_foont Aug 2012 #24
So sorry---it's never east to lose a parent. 88 is a pretty good run.......... panader0 Aug 2012 #25
So sorry Steve, I hope you and the family will find comfort in the weeks ahead. freshwest Aug 2012 #26
condolences and lots of loving, healing thoughts for you and your family. niyad Aug 2012 #27
I'm so sorry OS Warpy Aug 2012 #28
My condolences on your loss. AtomicKitten Aug 2012 #29
I'm sorry, Omaha. Lost my mother about 9 years ago. :hug: nt raccoon Aug 2012 #30
I'm so sorry for your loss. Solly Mack Aug 2012 #31
I am so sorry, Steve brer cat Aug 2012 #32
My sympathy to your and your family on the loss of your Mom livetohike Aug 2012 #33
condolences to all mopinko Aug 2012 #34
I'm so sorry, Steve. Condolences to you and your family. highplainsdem Aug 2012 #35
I'm so sorry, Steve. intheflow Aug 2012 #36
I am so sorry Steve. GentryDixon Aug 2012 #37
I am very sorry for your loss. Mika Aug 2012 #38
My mom died of pancreatic cancer in 2010 lunatica Aug 2012 #39
Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss TuxedoKat Aug 2012 #40
Peace to you and yours. aikoaiko Aug 2012 #41
My heart goes out to you and your family emsimon33 Aug 2012 #42
So sorry, Omaha Steve. Sending out hugs to you and your family. LoisB Aug 2012 #43
Take your time Steve nadinbrzezinski Aug 2012 #44
My sympathies! hamsterjill Aug 2012 #45
(hug) proud patriot Aug 2012 #46
I am so very sorry for your loss. Lone_Star_Dem Aug 2012 #47
So very sorry, OS. Be with your family and friends. sinkingfeeling Aug 2012 #48
Very sorry. Historic NY Aug 2012 #49
I am so sorry. cate94 Aug 2012 #50
Oh Steve! So very sorry for the loss of your mom. Mnemosyne Aug 2012 #51
My sincerest condolence -- n/t mazzarro Aug 2012 #52
sorry for your loss, take care /nt still_one Aug 2012 #53
Ohhhh Steve frogmarch Aug 2012 #54
I'm so sorry Lucy Goosey Aug 2012 #55
Am very sorry you lost your mom. There is only one. secondwind Aug 2012 #56
((hugs)) Starry Messenger Aug 2012 #57
I'm so sorry, Omaha Steve. Chorophyll Aug 2012 #58
I'm am sorry, and send my condolences Lifelong Protester Aug 2012 #59
All my best and congratulation on your new job my friend DainBramaged Aug 2012 #60
I'm very sorry to hear about your Mom, Steve. kentuck Aug 2012 #61
blessings and condolences to you and your family, Omaha Steve librechik Aug 2012 #62
(((((((Omaha Steve))))))) WillyT Aug 2012 #63
My heartfelt condolences Steve. JNelson6563 Aug 2012 #64
So sorry, Omaha Steve. yellerpup Aug 2012 #65
Be at peace, OS longship Aug 2012 #66
so sorry demtenjeep Aug 2012 #67
All sympathies to you and all your family Bossy Monkey Aug 2012 #68
The worst part of life is death. malthaussen Aug 2012 #69
Sorry about your mom, Steve. My sympathy to you and your family. TwilightGardener Aug 2012 #70
For Omaha Steve & Family Astazia Aug 2012 #71
Sorry to hear my friend. grantcart Aug 2012 #72
Sorry for your loss Steve. 99Forever Aug 2012 #73
My condolences are with you and yours OhioChick Aug 2012 #74
Your Mom rjlobo422 Aug 2012 #75
Condolences Steve GoneOffShore Aug 2012 #76
Life is full of meetings and partings. That is the way of it. OmahaBlueDog Aug 2012 #77
Me too love0bama-4ever Aug 2012 #78
So sorry for your loss Worried senior Aug 2012 #79
sorry OS..... spanone Aug 2012 #80
Deepest sympathy, Steve. nt msanthrope Aug 2012 #81
wow,may she rest in peace seanpencil Aug 2012 #82
My sincere condolences to you and yours, Steve. babylonsister Aug 2012 #83
My deepest sympathy to you, Steve SlimJimmy Aug 2012 #84
Sorry, OS graywarrior Aug 2012 #85
deepest sympathies. rurallib Aug 2012 #86
I am so sorry for your loss Digit Aug 2012 #87
My dad also died at 88 PlanetBev Aug 2012 #88
I'm so very sorry! *hugs* GreenPartyVoter Aug 2012 #89
My deepest condolences etherealtruth Aug 2012 #90
Deepest condolences to you and all who knew your mother. cordelia Aug 2012 #91
(((OS))) blaze Aug 2012 #92
Sending my Smilo Aug 2012 #93
(((hug))) WilliamPitt Aug 2012 #94
My most sincere condolences to you and your family. n/t amandabeech Aug 2012 #95
My deepest sympathy susanr516 Aug 2012 #96
I am so sorry. GoCubsGo Aug 2012 #97
I am so sorry for your loss derby378 Aug 2012 #98
(((VIBES))) Odin2005 Aug 2012 #99
Omaha Steve, Trailrider1951 Aug 2012 #100
She knew she could let go. Festivito Aug 2012 #101
Deepest Sympathy. annabanana Aug 2012 #102
There are never the right words ... Blessings cr8tvlde Aug 2012 #103
Condolences to you and your family csziggy Aug 2012 #104
Condolences. ananda Aug 2012 #105
I am so sorry. CBHagman Aug 2012 #106
I'm sorry OS. lonestarnot Aug 2012 #107
Sympathy goes with you, Steve. Kurovski Aug 2012 #108
I cannot say enough how sorry I am. You all tried so hard and so did she. I wish you and roguevalley Aug 2012 #109
I am sorry for your loss. Ruby the Liberal Aug 2012 #110
I'm sorry Steve - I just lost my mom in May (she was also 88) dflprincess Aug 2012 #111
I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. IndyJones Aug 2012 #112
I lost my mum last year Skittles Aug 2012 #113
I'm so sorry, you and your family will be in my thoughts. nt Raine Aug 2012 #114
i'm sorry Omaha Steve barbtries Aug 2012 #115
I thank all of my extended family here on the DU for the warm thoughts Omaha Steve Aug 2012 #116
In solidarity and peace. Ninga Aug 2012 #117

virgdem

(2,126 posts)
17. I am so sorry for your loss...
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:33 PM
Aug 2012

She lived a very long life and she is no longer in pain. My Mom died of Colon Cancer 9 years ago, so I understand what you are going through. Take as long as you need to grieve-that is important!

glinda

(14,807 posts)
21. Very sorry for the sadness you and your family are going through.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:36 PM
Aug 2012

Sorry for your great loss. Hugging you.....

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
26. So sorry Steve, I hope you and the family will find comfort in the weeks ahead.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:44 PM
Aug 2012


We'll miss you while you're gone.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
27. condolences and lots of loving, healing thoughts for you and your family.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:45 PM
Aug 2012

as always, your DU family is here if you need us.

Warpy

(111,261 posts)
28. I'm so sorry OS
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:46 PM
Aug 2012

I know she was sick for a very long time, but it's always a shock when it finally happens.

livetohike

(22,144 posts)
33. My sympathy to your and your family on the loss of your Mom
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:54 PM
Aug 2012
May all the happy memories you have of her life cause you to smile and help to ease the sadness of her last illness.

intheflow

(28,474 posts)
36. I'm so sorry, Steve.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:06 PM
Aug 2012

May your family find comfort in knowing her pain is gone and your shared memories. Please don't stress about your job; any employer worth their mettle will understand that death knows no timeline and your job will be secure when you return. Hang in there.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
40. Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:20 PM
Aug 2012

of your beloved mom. I hope they are understanding at your new place of employment. (((HUGS)))

proud patriot

(100,705 posts)
46. (hug)
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:27 PM
Aug 2012

here if you need me Steve .. lost both my grandparents that raised me last year. Been a rough year but managing , i hope the best for your healing.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
47. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:29 PM
Aug 2012

You have my full empathy. My dad (step) just passed away recently from cancer as well.

DainBramaged

(39,191 posts)
60. All my best and congratulation on your new job my friend
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:52 PM
Aug 2012


I hope my Mom runs into your Mom so they can talk about us.


librechik

(30,674 posts)
62. blessings and condolences to you and your family, Omaha Steve
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:53 PM
Aug 2012

you live an epic, mythical life. It is a privilege to share the lttle bit you give us here.

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
64. My heartfelt condolences Steve.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:54 PM
Aug 2012

To you and yours. You're a treasure to so many of us here, as is obvious by the responses to your post.

Hugs & encouragement,
Julie

yellerpup

(12,253 posts)
65. So sorry, Omaha Steve.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:56 PM
Aug 2012

My thoughts are with you in this difficult time of transition. Celebrate the love you shared. From what you have written about her, she must have been a wonderful woman. Peace for your heart.

longship

(40,416 posts)
66. Be at peace, OS
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:56 PM
Aug 2012

You deserve a break.

May your mom rest in peace.
You and your family are in all our thoughts.

Astazia

(262 posts)
71. For Omaha Steve & Family
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 05:40 PM
Aug 2012

May the wonderful memories always be in your heart during this difficult time.

I will post a poem that seems to bring light during sad times. Blessings of love to all who are with you.

I don't know your Mom, but knowing the little I know from here @DU, she was very proud of the man you've become. Hang in there Steve.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
73. Sorry for your loss Steve.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 05:55 PM
Aug 2012

Good thoughts to you and yours from another Union brother to whom Omaha is home. (even though I now live elsewhere)

rjlobo422

(29 posts)
75. Your Mom
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 05:56 PM
Aug 2012

Losing a parent is always hard Steve. Please know that you and your Mom and family are in our thoughts and prayers.

OmahaBlueDog

(10,000 posts)
77. Life is full of meetings and partings. That is the way of it.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 06:01 PM
Aug 2012

I'm sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
88. My dad also died at 88
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 06:49 PM
Aug 2012

One day before he was scheduled to go into in-home hospice. Anyway it happens, and no matter how old they are, it's still a shock and it still hurts.

Condolences to you and the family, Steve.

Smilo

(1,944 posts)
93. Sending my
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 08:18 PM
Aug 2012

deepest condolences to you and your family OS.

Now is the time to grieve and cry, but hoping that in time the tears will lessen and your memories bring you peace and smiles.

Trailrider1951

(3,414 posts)
100. Omaha Steve,
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 09:29 PM
Aug 2012

I'm sorry that your Mother has passed into the next world, and you are so filled with grief. Please be at peace.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
101. She knew she could let go.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 09:50 PM
Aug 2012

Sensing you were not there, she knew your job search was a success.

I bet there was a twinge of a smile as she fondly left the station.

cr8tvlde

(1,185 posts)
103. There are never the right words ... Blessings
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 09:57 PM
Aug 2012

My 93 year old mother is day to day ... hospice has left. Got to believe they go to a better place, but lord we miss them.

dflprincess

(28,078 posts)
111. I'm sorry Steve - I just lost my mom in May (she was also 88)
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 11:29 PM
Aug 2012

Complications after a fall - so it was rather sudden.

It doesn't matter how old we are or how old she is, we are never ready to lose our mom.

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