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ret5hd

(20,517 posts)
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 04:46 PM Jun 2018

I wonder what would happen if instead of asking RW'ers to leave...

(to be clear, I fully support these people being kicked out of the restaurants, etc. Just doing a little thought experiment here)

Picture this:

Instead of being asked to leave
a) all music etc is shut off
b) everyone stands and surrounds the table in complete silence - waiters, owners, patrons.
No smiles, no grins, not a word. Complete silence. Staring. Silently. Blankly. With every eye watching every bite. Every sip of wine. Listening to every comment, every burp.

I know that I couldn't stand such "attention". Not for more than a minute or two. I couldn't get out of there fast enough.

Just thinkin'.

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lame54

(35,321 posts)
1. How about when they are served their food...
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 04:48 PM
Jun 2018

The waitress gives them a wink making them think twice about biting into it

ret5hd

(20,517 posts)
3. well, in my little thought experiment, no one gives them any expression whatsoever.
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 04:52 PM
Jun 2018

Just blank dead stares.

Funtatlaguy

(10,885 posts)
14. Lol....yes talking about how they don't
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 05:08 PM
Jun 2018

Believe in government assistance but they can’t find anyone to adopt the baby.

 

PaulX2

(2,032 posts)
2. Surround The Table And Stare At Them - Not A Word - Make Sure They Can See The Hatred
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 04:51 PM
Jun 2018

Pouring from every pore.

Maybe show some clenched teeth.

Better than they deserve.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
6. As the patron sitting at the next table *I* would leave...
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 04:58 PM
Jun 2018

... why would I want to put myself in harm's way being witness to this type of standoff? Why would I want to have no service while the rest of the staff were busy harassing (intimidating) others? --- Best to just turn them away at the door.

ret5hd

(20,517 posts)
8. Yeah, maybe. Just thinking, as I said.
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 05:00 PM
Jun 2018

It could probably never happen in real life. I just know that I personally couldn't withstand such a scene and would be gone as soon as I saw what was happening.

EarthFirst

(2,904 posts)
9. How about they already have their safe-havens...
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 05:03 PM
Jun 2018

In their gated communities; golf clubs and private societies/clubs to feel “safe.”

Why should I have to adjust my moral compass towards compassionate protest on a day to day basis in public to show them that I’m “not pleased”

Fuck that!

If they’re in public; they’re gonna damn we’ll hear about it!

LeftInTX

(25,543 posts)
10. I just wouldn't serve them. However, I would not tell them that I wasn't serving them
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 05:04 PM
Jun 2018

Let them sit there forever....

Don't pay any attention to them, like they're invisible.

FuzzyRabbit

(1,969 posts)
15. Kick out Trump's policy makers, ie SHS, Stephen Miller.
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 06:41 PM
Jun 2018

Tell them that evil, morally reprehensible people like them are not welcome among civilized people and you do not want them infecting your place of business.

eleny

(46,166 posts)
17. I'll tell you a story
Tue Jun 26, 2018, 06:50 PM
Jun 2018

Working in social services I made home visits for decades. One time I visited a very large family. I sat on the sofa and every man, woman and child sat all around me and gave me their full attention. There were at least a dozen people in the room. It was a thing of respect. I was visiting and they were paying attention to me.

At first I didn't really notice. But then when I realized that I had about a dozen pairs of eyes on me my palms broke out in a sweat. Swear to god. There was nothing threatening about anyone. But the attention was unnerving at first. Then I got a grip and forgot about it and it was a very pleasant visit as was my usual experience on the job.

So, you're right about the attention. I don't know if it could ever be pulled off given timing etc with members of our government. The logistics are tough. But you're right about giving people so much attention and silent, to boot. At my home visit there was conversation. Your scenario of silence would frightening.

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