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cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 07:43 PM Jun 2018

We women just don't appreciate what men have given us...

So, I frequent a forum for movie collectors and lovers. It's predominantly men and boys (I say this because some of them act like boys) with a few women here and there. I'm reading through a posting about the movie Annihilation with Natalie Portman. Here is what he said:

Watched this again last night with a couple guys and a gal. The guys loved it and yet the lady was bored and complaining throughout. That's two viewings for me with a woman that didn't really care about the movie at all. It's no wonder that producers gear all these movies towards men. You give women a predominately female cast of protagonists, they don't appreciate it at all, and they would still rather be watching a romantic comedy, another teen movie, a period piece with costumes, or reality television.

I'm so over video games and movies trying to be progressive and cater towards women. There is no point.

I'm not suggesting this film did that either. I love this movie and whatever choices the director made are just fine. But it's simply another piece of the puzzle that is representative of the whole. Just like how none of the women I know went out and supported Ghostbusters. I'm making a generalization here obviously not all people are like this, but it's generally true.


I don't know what we would've done if the men hadn't give us unappreciative women the right to vote or owning property.



What a douche.
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We women just don't appreciate what men have given us... (Original Post) cynatnite Jun 2018 OP
Maybe if women Ohiogal Jun 2018 #1
You've hit upon the issue. Changing the genders alone of the lead characters is not going to make Yavin4 Jun 2018 #5
You sure don't. geomon666 Jun 2018 #2
I feel your pain. tazkcmo Jun 2018 #13
That last line is priceless ProudLib72 Jun 2018 #3
So, it is a blood and gore movie, from what I read. ChrisTee Jun 2018 #4
Normally, they don't interest me either... cynatnite Jun 2018 #7
Good to know that it is a good movie. Thanks. ChrisTee Jun 2018 #9
Give me a mindless romance over any thoughtful or thought provoking lunatica Jun 2018 #6
Maybe the movie sucked? vercetti2021 Jun 2018 #8
The movie may be dull (I haven't seen it) but it had Natalie Portman Merlot Jun 2018 #10
I'm guilty of that vercetti2021 Jun 2018 #12
Seems to me he thought women should like it... cynatnite Jun 2018 #11
Yeah...no doesn't work like that vercetti2021 Jun 2018 #14

Ohiogal

(32,102 posts)
1. Maybe if women
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 07:51 PM
Jun 2018

weren't just cast as "eye candy" in a low cut top, or someone's girlfriend with no real role in the story, ya think we'd like movies better? A movie with a real story and not just a bunch of shooting and explosions? Think "Norma Rae."

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
5. You've hit upon the issue. Changing the genders alone of the lead characters is not going to make
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 08:00 PM
Jun 2018

women watch the movie. The Ghostbusters reboot and probably the Oceans reboot won't do all that well, but those movies just changed the genders of the leads instead of it being an original idea. In contrast, Bridesmaids, had a predominately female cast, and did very well because it was an original female story.

tazkcmo

(7,302 posts)
13. I feel your pain.
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 08:33 PM
Jun 2018

Why, just this morning not only did I have to get my own coffee, I had to MAKE it, too! From scratch!


Sarcasm also.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
3. That last line is priceless
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 07:53 PM
Jun 2018
I'm making a generalization here obviously not all people are like this, but it's generally true.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
7. Normally, they don't interest me either...
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 08:03 PM
Jun 2018

It's a sci-fi movie with a little horror thrown in. The last twenty minutes are really good and kind of throws you.

I stay away from gore movies as a whole. This does have some gruesome moments, but it's still a fascinating story and a well-made movie.

I get that it's not for everyone.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
6. Give me a mindless romance over any thoughtful or thought provoking
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 08:02 PM
Jun 2018

movie any day! I just get too confused!!



vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
8. Maybe the movie sucked?
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 08:04 PM
Jun 2018

I'm such a cynaical asshole when it comes to movies and such. So it goes both ways my friend...it isn't because of female casts...it's because the movie itself is horrible. Guess Einstein didn't think of that.

Merlot

(9,696 posts)
10. The movie may be dull (I haven't seen it) but it had Natalie Portman
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 08:19 PM
Jun 2018

He probably was so distracted by her, he didn't notice the movie was boring.

Men like to look at pretty women - and that's my generalization for today.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
12. I'm guilty of that
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 08:32 PM
Jun 2018

A lot of women are beautiful, but I don't stare like most would or cat call that's just disrespectful. Same for men, a lot are handsome.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
11. Seems to me he thought women should like it...
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 08:27 PM
Jun 2018

because it was a mostly all-woman cast and those that didn't weren't appreciative of it.

Fact is, some liked it and some didn't just like with any movie. This douche was condescending and chauvinistic about it.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
14. Yeah...no doesn't work like that
Sun Jun 10, 2018, 08:34 PM
Jun 2018

Can be said for all male cast. Most I've seen are garbage movies because the story was terrible. Just because it's all women doesn't mean a woman has to like it automatically. That's just stupid thinking.

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