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Quixote1818

(28,947 posts)
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 02:54 PM Feb 2018

My 90 year old parents said they never had prayer in their schools

Wasn't that just something they had in southern states? I did a quick search on Google but didn't see anything right off hand. For anyone around before teacher lead prayer in school was outlawed in 1963, what was your experience?

By the way. My Dad grew up in Nevada and my Mom lived in a number of states growing up including MT, CO, ND, WI, AZ etc.

By the way! There is still plenty of prayer in schools today, right before every test.


Editing to add this:

Haven't Public Schools Always Had Prayer?
At the time the U.S. Supreme Court issued its 1962 and 1963 decrees against school-sponsored prayers and bible-reading, it is estimated religious observances were unknown in about half of the nation's public schools.

https://ffrf.org/outreach/item/14029-prayer-in-public-school

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My 90 year old parents said they never had prayer in their schools (Original Post) Quixote1818 Feb 2018 OP
I never had prayer in school in NY.... CatMor Feb 2018 #1
Same here, I'm from New York, but evidently in Virginia, where I live now, phylny Feb 2018 #24
We had prayer in NYC school Yupster Feb 2018 #38
I'm surprised that occurred in NYC. CatMor Feb 2018 #39
It was early 1960's Yupster Feb 2018 #40
They didn't in my parents' schools, either. Mariana Feb 2018 #2
I never saw it in Minnesota in the 50s and early '60s. The Velveteen Ocelot Feb 2018 #3
I grew up in Mississippi (60s and 70s) fleur-de-lisa Feb 2018 #4
On second thought . . . fleur-de-lisa Feb 2018 #7
That pre-game prayer before football only was the only thing I remember from the 70's brewens Feb 2018 #12
Never had it in Chicago public schools either world wide wally Feb 2018 #5
Right. We never had prayer in Chicago public schools. hedda_foil Feb 2018 #31
grew up in PA, 50s thru the 60s onethatcares Feb 2018 #6
First and second grade. 1963-65. maveric Feb 2018 #8
No scheduled prayers Yonnie3 Feb 2018 #9
First and second grade. 1963-65. maveric Feb 2018 #10
Alabama 1964+ ThoughtCriminal Feb 2018 #11
We had religious plays in NM in the late 1970's too. Quixote1818 Feb 2018 #13
The push to get prayer OUT of the public schools began with the archbishop of New York who Squinch Feb 2018 #14
Interesting. nt Quixote1818 Feb 2018 #16
"Dagger John" Hughes. Fought to remove biblical teachings, biblical readings, and Squinch Feb 2018 #19
The only religious invocation I remember during high school was Mrs. Dyer's AP English class. LanternWaste Feb 2018 #15
We never had prayer in school PatSeg Feb 2018 #17
1980-1981 school year, Springfield, MO The Genealogist Feb 2018 #18
I was educated in Florida, am a baby boomer. Blue_true Feb 2018 #20
None, except for one 3rd-grade teacher in 1957 Golden Raisin Feb 2018 #21
Went to public grade school in Missouri in the early forties. justhanginon Feb 2018 #22
I started first grade in 1954 and we had prayer and Bible verse sinkingfeeling Feb 2018 #23
Depends of if the John Birchers/Knights of Colombus were running the county/school district. haele Feb 2018 #25
In Massachusetts, in the 50's we said the Lord's Prayer right after the pledge... annabanana Feb 2018 #26
I went to catholic schools, but my friends in public schools rurallib Feb 2018 #27
I specifically remember in elementary school we said the Pledge and sang My Country Tis of Thee Zen Democrat Feb 2018 #28
Went to school in Spokane in the 60's. No prayers. nt leftyladyfrommo Feb 2018 #29
Had it in Alabama, and it was really not good, just embarrassing to me because Sophia4 Feb 2018 #30
Other than a prayer or benediction at graduation ceremonies madinmaryland Feb 2018 #32
I Was born in 63 OriginalGeek Feb 2018 #33
Only in parochial school and Fresh_Start Feb 2018 #34
I went to 6 different school, all in various towns... 3catwoman3 Feb 2018 #35
In 1950s NJ every school day started with the pledge and a bible reading Jersey Devil Feb 2018 #36
None at my school in the 1950's left-of-center2012 Feb 2018 #37
Prayer in school is common and universal in all schools grantcart Feb 2018 #41

phylny

(8,380 posts)
24. Same here, I'm from New York, but evidently in Virginia, where I live now,
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 05:09 PM
Feb 2018

they prayed and also used Bible versus in instruction, according to people I know who have lived here. Go figure.

Yupster

(14,308 posts)
38. We had prayer in NYC school
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 08:19 PM
Feb 2018

Very early grade, must have been 1st or 2nd grade. We had a prayer, snack and then teacher turned off light for a few minutes and everyone put head on desk to rest. Looking back kind of weird but it was every day. Early 60's.

Yupster

(14,308 posts)
40. It was early 1960's
Tue Feb 20, 2018, 01:36 AM
Feb 2018

Last edited Tue Feb 20, 2018, 02:11 AM - Edit history (1)

because I'm old.

On edit, I put it was early 1060. Yes, I went to first grade right before those damned Normans came and killed poor King Harold. I'm old but not that old.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
2. They didn't in my parents' schools, either.
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:00 PM
Feb 2018

The idea that kids aren't allowed to pray in school is a right-wing lie, anyway. They can pray if they want to. What they can't do is force or pressure anyone else to participate in it or to listen to them, and they can't disrupt class with it.

fleur-de-lisa

(14,627 posts)
4. I grew up in Mississippi (60s and 70s)
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:05 PM
Feb 2018

and we never prayed in school. We said the Pledge of Allegiance, but there was no praying.

fleur-de-lisa

(14,627 posts)
7. On second thought . . .
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:10 PM
Feb 2018

I played sports. Athletes prayed that no one was injured before games, but that was it. Short, simple little prayer and it wasn't mandatory.

brewens

(13,598 posts)
12. That pre-game prayer before football only was the only thing I remember from the 70's
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:31 PM
Feb 2018

in Idaho. I don't remember anyone objecting. I suppose I felt like it couldn't hurt. I sure didn't want anyone injured.

onethatcares

(16,172 posts)
6. grew up in PA, 50s thru the 60s
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:07 PM
Feb 2018

no prayer in public school then although if you went to parochial school it was mandatory.

maveric

(16,445 posts)
8. First and second grade. 1963-65.
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:10 PM
Feb 2018

They made say the Protestant Version of the Lord’s Prayer. Lawrence MA, where 95% of the students were Roman Catholic. The teacher would recite the prayer and we all would stop after “... deliver us from evil”. Funny.

Yonnie3

(17,444 posts)
9. No scheduled prayers
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:11 PM
Feb 2018

In the mid 50s through mid 60s in Tidewater Virginia.

I do recall prayers being read at some assemblies and them being blended with with anticommunist and patriotic rhetoric.

maveric

(16,445 posts)
10. First and second grade. 1963-65.
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:11 PM
Feb 2018

They made say the Protestant Version of the Lord’s Prayer. Lawrence MA, where 95% of the students were Roman Catholic. The teacher would recite the prayer and we all would stop after “... deliver us from evil”. Funny.

ThoughtCriminal

(14,047 posts)
11. Alabama 1964+
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:30 PM
Feb 2018

We had it - every day. By the time I was in the 3rd grade (1966) I think it had vanished from daily practice. Very religious-themed Christmas plays continued until at least the 1970s.

Quixote1818

(28,947 posts)
13. We had religious plays in NM in the late 1970's too.
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:41 PM
Feb 2018

They were all Christmas related. Similar to what you see in the Charlie Brown Christmas cartoon.

Squinch

(50,955 posts)
14. The push to get prayer OUT of the public schools began with the archbishop of New York who
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 03:56 PM
Feb 2018

built St. Patrick's. He didn't like his catholic flock having to say protestant prayers.

I always like to throw that in the face of my catholic friends who complain about no prayer in schools.

Squinch

(50,955 posts)
19. "Dagger John" Hughes. Fought to remove biblical teachings, biblical readings, and
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 04:11 PM
Feb 2018

all Protestant prayer and ritual from the public schools.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
15. The only religious invocation I remember during high school was Mrs. Dyer's AP English class.
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 04:00 PM
Feb 2018

The only religious invocation I remember during high school was Mrs. Dyer's AP English class.

Just prior to each rigorous test on our reading material, she'd say "God bless you" and with a wry smile, wink to us.

We began calling any difficult exam or quiz "God Bless You Tests."

It was all in jest... but I'm sure someone, somewhere will be oppressed by it.




(and as she never specified which God of which faith, we could only presume. Randy (our eventual valedictorian, said she was invoking Odin)

PatSeg

(47,503 posts)
17. We never had prayer in school
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 04:05 PM
Feb 2018

I lived most of my life in the Chicago area and my parents didn't have school prayer either.

We moved to Mississippi for a year and half, when I was in high school and I was totally shocked by the whole morning prayer routine. It was like traveling back in time. This would have been 1962 and 1963.

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
18. 1980-1981 school year, Springfield, MO
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 04:10 PM
Feb 2018

We took turns saying a prayer every day when lined up to go to lunch. I was a first grader.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
20. I was educated in Florida, am a baby boomer.
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 04:12 PM
Feb 2018

We did the pledge early on, but absolutely never prayed at anytime while at school. I grew up in a then conservative part of Florida.

Golden Raisin

(4,609 posts)
21. None, except for one 3rd-grade teacher in 1957
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 04:16 PM
Feb 2018

in whose class we recited "The Lord's Prayer" every morning. She did this on her own initiative. No other grade or class in the school (Long Island) had any prayer.

justhanginon

(3,290 posts)
22. Went to public grade school in Missouri in the early forties.
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 04:17 PM
Feb 2018

I don't recall any prayer in school. Went to parochial (Lutheran) high school and I am sure there was praying there but I was not much into that by that time in my life.

haele

(12,660 posts)
25. Depends of if the John Birchers/Knights of Colombus were running the county/school district.
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 05:19 PM
Feb 2018

Birchers were/are really big into school prayer as an anti-communist tactic. And they liked make sure everyone in the community fell in line.
That's where the "One Nation Under God" came from in the Pledge.

Haele

annabanana

(52,791 posts)
26. In Massachusetts, in the 50's we said the Lord's Prayer right after the pledge...
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 05:21 PM
Feb 2018

And I think that was BEFORE they added the "under God" to the Pledge.. Not positive because I was a liddle kid

rurallib

(62,423 posts)
27. I went to catholic schools, but my friends in public schools
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 05:39 PM
Feb 2018

said they never prayed at all, including the sports teams. This was late 50s to 60s in Iowa.

Zen Democrat

(5,901 posts)
28. I specifically remember in elementary school we said the Pledge and sang My Country Tis of Thee
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 05:48 PM
Feb 2018

At assemblies we said the pledge and sang America the Beautiful. There were no prayers. And no O Say Can You See.

This was in the '50s.

 

Sophia4

(3,515 posts)
30. Had it in Alabama, and it was really not good, just embarrassing to me because
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 06:01 PM
Feb 2018

I was frequently chosen to read the Bible verses. It was awful to be picked out like that. Maybe it was because I was well behaved and my father was a minister. I just felt so uncomfortable about it.

madinmaryland

(64,933 posts)
32. Other than a prayer or benediction at graduation ceremonies
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 06:05 PM
Feb 2018

I don’t ever recall any prayers in public school. 1960s to late 1970’s. Ohio.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
33. I Was born in 63
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 06:11 PM
Feb 2018

I went to elementary schools in Florida, Kentucky,Maryland, back to Florida and then out to Texas. The only prayer I remember was 7th-8th grade choir teacher who complained about not being allowed to pray and then held a moment of silence before every class. It was pretty obvious we were expected to pray. I then went to a christian school for high school and we obviously prayed every day and usually multiple times. OR so they thought.

3catwoman3

(24,007 posts)
35. I went to 6 different school, all in various towns...
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 07:19 PM
Feb 2018

...in western upstate NY. I do not recall prayer in the classrooms.

I do remember all the Catholic kids getting out of school early on Fridays for "religious instruction," and the cafeteria Friday menu alternating every pther week between fish sticks and cheese pizza to be in keeping with the no meat on Friday restriction.

Jersey Devil

(9,874 posts)
36. In 1950s NJ every school day started with the pledge and a bible reading
Mon Feb 19, 2018, 07:25 PM
Feb 2018

The Old Testament specifically so that Jews would not be offended. At least that was the teacher's explanation.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
41. Prayer in school is common and universal in all schools
Tue Feb 20, 2018, 01:40 AM
Feb 2018

right before a surprise quiz

other than that, no

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