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markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 08:25 PM Jan 2018

Had an encounter with a small group of Trumpers, and am left utterly flabbergasted!

Had an exchange a little earlier with some Trump supporters about Trump's "shithole " comment that has left me utterly flabbergasted.

First, they think liberals and the media are outraged that Trump said a "bad word." I tried to point out that it was the complete context in which he said it, as well as the REST of what he said, that made it an issue.

Then they asserted that Trump's comment was no different from the kinds of shit people say in social media posts all the time. That may well be true, and that liberals were being "hypocritical" if they objected to Trump's comment but had themselves ever posted a comment about the appearance, dress, or other aspects of any member of the Trump family and Trump administration. (Wait . . . what?!)

Then they insisted that Trump wasn't talking about immigrants from those "shithole" countries, but was instead merely commenting on-how terrible those places were to live. Uh, no, sorry. IKt was in the context of a discussion about fro.m which countries we should allow immigrants to enter the U.S. Trump said he didn't want more immigrants from the countries he identified as "shithole" countries, (which happen to all be countries whose populations are predominantly black or brown and instead wanted more immigrants from countries like Norway, which happens to be,like, the whitest country on the planet.

it gets better. . .

Still another of these folks claimed that it was a "double standard" that professional athletes to be permitted to kneel during the national anthem when playing games outside the U.S. while Trump comes in for heavy criticism for calling other countries "shithole." (Where to even begin with that?!)

And then, as I could have predicted, one of them said that sometimes people just need to "face reality" and "tell it like it is." And anyway, this person continued, Trump was just saying what everybody was thinking.ell, maybe in Trumpland that's how everybody thinks. And anyway, I'm sorry, but simply making an ignorant comment, and making it in the crasses, crudest, most offensive way possible is NOT "telling it like it is." It is merely grossly unprofessional and boorish. And sorry to break it to you, Trump supporters, but your bigotries are a reality only in your own twisted souls!

But none of this really surprised me, nor should it have. What really left me gobsmacked was the realization that the folks I was talking to seemed to have absolutely no concept of why it isn't generally a good idea for someone in a high position of leadership -- especially when he is the chief executive of the most powerful nation on earth --to flap his gums in the style of the neighborhood loudmouth who hangs out at the corner bar night after night. They apparently had absolutely no understanding of the kind of damage that sort of careless diarrhea of the mouth can do to international relations, to trade relations, as well as to the U.S.'s standing in the eyes of most of the civilized world.

I guess I had been under the mistaken notion that any reasonably compos mentis adult, irrespective of political leanings, would recognize, almost instinctively, why past U.S. presidents, as well as leaders in high positions both in government and in the private sector, have been and are generally so careful about measuring the words they use in public statements, and also in high profile meetings which are sure to get press coverage. And I just assumed that reasons why that is so important were self-evident, and why we hold leaders to a different, and higher, standard.

All I can say is that if, as a country, we have completely lost any concept of a discourse that is more refined and elevated than that of a belligerent drunk at the local bar, then we are in a crisis that is much, much deeper than any of us has yet realized.

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Had an encounter with a small group of Trumpers, and am left utterly flabbergasted! (Original Post) markpkessinger Jan 2018 OP
I'm sometimes a belligerant drunk in a bar... ret5hd Jan 2018 #1
I think they are repeating what they hear on fox wasupaloopa Jan 2018 #2
And RW radio like rush lunasun Jan 2018 #36
Yeah, if they are a trump fan Cha Jan 2018 #46
They're authoritarians and Trump is their leader. Hortensis Jan 2018 #48
Too right. Authoritarians to the core. GoneOffShore Jan 2018 #78
I. Can't. Even. Either. Hortensis Jan 2018 #82
Just the language get over it, huh? gratuitous Jan 2018 #3
You are making a big mistake Sampan Jan 2018 #4
Welcome To DU! SoCalMusicLover Jan 2018 #9
Thanks for the welcome! Sampan Jan 2018 #16
Welcome to du, Sampan! Heartstrings Jan 2018 #55
Thanks! Sampan Jan 2018 #93
I have no intention of changing them. Mr.Bill Jan 2018 #18
Most of them are too far gone to be humiliated. Mariana Jan 2018 #37
Over half of conservatives are strong authoritarians, Hortensis Jan 2018 #50
Yes, precisely, they will excuse or rationalize ANYTHING mreilly Jan 2018 #53
They are no different than the mobs that idealized Hitler and Mussolini. olegramps Jan 2018 #76
Had it been Obama or Hillary, they likely TOTALLY would've understood ... mr_lebowski Jan 2018 #5
Yep not fooled Jan 2018 #32
Just tell them that people on Facebook... LuckyCharms Jan 2018 #6
trump's election flying rabbit Jan 2018 #7
It's like turning the light on and LittleGirl Jan 2018 #30
Except they aren't scattering. nt. Mariana Jan 2018 #38
Exactly, roaches have the good manners to try to hide their grossness bigbrother05 Jan 2018 #75
Your First Mistake Was Staying More Than 1 Minute SoCalMusicLover Jan 2018 #8
Yup. JawJaw Jan 2018 #47
They will die off (they must, eventually) FiveGoodMen Jan 2018 #87
You must not live in a solid red state where such deplorables are common? Hoyt Jan 2018 #10
I live in NYC ... markpkessinger Jan 2018 #44
I am sorry to hear this BUT ... SWBTATTReg Jan 2018 #67
They are only imitating their leaders ladym55 Jan 2018 #11
I recently had someone tell me there are more Phoenix61 Jan 2018 #12
Because all their RW media was continually frothing at the mouth about antifa MrPurple Jan 2018 #28
They have no idea how someone in the office of President should act. lpbk2713 Jan 2018 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author Kajun Gal Jan 2018 #14
You and 70% of whites are the same then. lunatica Jan 2018 #71
I'm genuinely far more concerned RandomAccess Jan 2018 #15
Government is not real to them. It's zentrum Jan 2018 #17
I wonder what they would have said if you asked them: pnwmom Jan 2018 #19
They are convinced that Obama actually said that and worse. yardwork Jan 2018 #25
Or from Slovenia😁 Orange Free State Jan 2018 #34
Hell, they believe Obama is an immigrant from a "shithole" country. Mariana Jan 2018 #39
They think Hawaii is a shithole country. n/t pnwmom Jan 2018 #40
The nutcases don't believe he was born in Hawaii at all. nt. Mariana Jan 2018 #42
Of course RUMPERS like shitholes Liberalagogo Jan 2018 #20
Don't waste any of your time... llmart Jan 2018 #21
"I understand ya'll are stupid enough to believe fox news so I'll just leave it at that." Alpeduez21 Jan 2018 #22
It's a gutter-level world view bucolic_frolic Jan 2018 #23
I unfriend someone two weeks ago. BigmanPigman Jan 2018 #24
Did they have any outlook on the coming indictments? byronius Jan 2018 #26
The USA is now a "belligerent drunk at the local bar" DBoon Jan 2018 #27
They are a cult. Denis 11 Jan 2018 #29
here's my response to a thumper LittleGirl Jan 2018 #31
Brava for that! n/t markpkessinger Jan 2018 #45
thank you. a moment of clarity for me. n/t LittleGirl Jan 2018 #62
Just do what they do... Orange Free State Jan 2018 #33
My late cousin Ohiogal Jan 2018 #41
Best to retire and live near a major base Orange Free State Jan 2018 #43
You rock GrapesOfWrath Jan 2018 #69
"mental judo" sammythecat Jan 2018 #72
Most of the time Orange Free State Jan 2018 #90
similar mehrrh Jan 2018 #35
Trumpers are by and large Ugly Americans mnhtnbb Jan 2018 #49
What was the collective IQ? Throck Jan 2018 #51
See, that's the thing . . . . markpkessinger Jan 2018 #92
yep, you are deluding yourself to believe that batshit crazies can be reasoned with.... beachbum bob Jan 2018 #52
He is saying Heartstrings Jan 2018 #54
Those are all the Fox News / Hannity talking points oberliner Jan 2018 #56
A tRump fan told me that the shithole comment was not racist, but economic. lkinwi Jan 2018 #57
I have noticed the RWNJ also believe Alwaysna Jan 2018 #58
probably more than half of the population Stanley Roper Jan 2018 #59
More evidence that the racism is a feature, not a bug with his supporters... PunkinPi Jan 2018 #60
Sounds like you were subjected to the t Rump version of a cultist 'love bomb'. Mc Mike Jan 2018 #61
I believe most tRumper's to be Dyedinthewoolliberal Jan 2018 #63
I call it "Belligerent Ignorance". They fight so hard against knowledge. SharonAnn Jan 2018 #68
There's two Americas - those who watch Fox News and those who don't. Initech Jan 2018 #64
oh you poor thing. for you: niyad Jan 2018 #65
None of what you have said surprises me...... BlueJac Jan 2018 #66
It's also self evident that they love a bully as a leader lunatica Jan 2018 #70
Double standard is those folks dismissing s*hole who were po'd about deplorables bigbrother05 Jan 2018 #73
I find the problem arguing with brainwashed tRump supporters robbob Jan 2018 #74
They do the 'Gish Gallop' all the time. GoneOffShore Jan 2018 #79
You've got to remember that these are just simple farmers. MrScorpio Jan 2018 #77
And scene! GoneOffShore Jan 2018 #80
MrScorpio, they're the "exceptional" in Hortensis Jan 2018 #84
What about...? AlleganCarpenter Jan 2018 #81
they know it's wrong but their need to be always right, in the face of overwhelming evidence... Javaman Jan 2018 #83
When I let the current social and political landscape slip just a wee bit out of focus, BobTheSubgenius Jan 2018 #85
Can we work from within their frame? jmbar2 Jan 2018 #86
They are shitholes so of course they love it. onecaliberal Jan 2018 #88
I have something that ends most any conversation like that. GulfCoast66 Jan 2018 #89
If he had made the shithole comment OR the Norway comment Nevernose Jan 2018 #91

Cha

(297,311 posts)
46. Yeah, if they are a trump fan
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 04:20 AM
Jan 2018

then anything he does is ok and accepted.. thanks to the Pro Liars @ fakefox and hate radio.

I don't think one could even be a trumper at this stage and not be the lowest common denominator.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
48. They're authoritarians and Trump is their leader.
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 05:53 AM
Jan 2018

Fox is tremendously helpful to Trump in providing them with excuses, tells them what to say, but their personalities are the glue that holds them to their chosen leader no matter what he does.

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
3. Just the language get over it, huh?
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 08:37 PM
Jan 2018

Then why did the non-existent "whitey" tape drive these knuckleheads to distraction?

Sampan

(121 posts)
4. You are making a big mistake
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 08:41 PM
Jan 2018

I made it too. But I’ve finally come to the realization that no matter what we say to them or what The Monster does, THEY WILL NOT CHANGE. It took me a long time. Once you accept this, you will stop wasting your time, write them off, and move on. They are hopeless and useless and not worth a moment of your time.

 

SoCalMusicLover

(3,194 posts)
9. Welcome To DU!
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 08:49 PM
Jan 2018

And this is 150% Correct!

And it is why his support will NEVER drop below 33%. Remember, he could kill someone, get convicted, and these supporters would still say he's doing a great job.

Mr.Bill

(24,303 posts)
18. I have no intention of changing them.
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 09:52 PM
Jan 2018

I'll settle for exposing and humiliating them for what a bunch of ignorant assholes they are.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
37. Most of them are too far gone to be humiliated.
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 11:30 PM
Jan 2018

I remember this when Shrubbie was in office, they would twist themselves into the most intricate knots, trying to excuse his stupidity of the day. It's 100 times worse with Trump, because most of them virtually worship him.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
50. Over half of conservatives are strong authoritarians,
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 06:41 AM
Jan 2018

and you're of course appallingly right, Sampan. Authoritarian personality and its need for a strong leader to obey is wired into them.

Mercifully, Trump is incapable of using his power well. But if their counterparts and other conservatives in congress were able to unite in purpose with a President Pence? Pence is almost certainly a hard-core authoritarian himself.

Btw, from a January 2016 Politico article warning that authoritarians could elect Trump:

The 39 percent of independents in my poll who identify as authoritarians and the 17 percent of self-identified Democrats who are strong authoritarians.

https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2016/01/donald-trump-2016-authoritarian-213533

(Note that last reality almost never mentioned. I'd bet a large majority are conservative Dems, but in any case this author was correct in suspecting they would vote authoritarian)

Midterms, hurry up!
 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
53. Yes, precisely, they will excuse or rationalize ANYTHING
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 08:14 AM
Jan 2018

.... whatever he does will be perfectly fine and your time will be wasted with "What he really meant was" or "everyone thinks so too" or some such crap.

Oh, but just let Obama hold a coffee mug while saluting the troops or wear a tan suit or something and watch the shrieking commence from that hypocritical crowd of assholes.

olegramps

(8,200 posts)
76. They are no different than the mobs that idealized Hitler and Mussolini.
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 03:57 PM
Jan 2018

Trump especially reminds me of Mussolini. A pompous windbag bully. Perhaps he will have the same ending. I was just a young boy, but I remember the newsreels that covered both Hitler and Mussolini and huge mobs of followers. My uncle was in Germany in the occupying forces and marveled how rare it was to find anyone who admitted to being a supporter. "I know nothing."

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
5. Had it been Obama or Hillary, they likely TOTALLY would've understood ...
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 08:44 PM
Jan 2018

... how important it is that our President not go around speaking like that ...

It's because they're knuckle-dragging cult members who's Dear Leader Can Do No Wrong ... that they fail IN HIS CASE ... to 'understand the problem' and therefore rationalize his behavior.

Likely that's true of most of them, anyway.

Though they also seem convinced, down to a (wo)man ... that the entire 'problem' in the WORLD is blacks, terr'ists, abortionists, teh gays, them immigrants ... and the USA failing to wave it's proverbial big dick all around the World Stage, acting like a belligerent asshole of a country and 'winning' like we 'should be' cause we're so big and tough and 'the World needs us more than we need them' ...

Dump shares their same 4th-Grade level understanding of 'the problems of the world', and better still, isn't afraid to illustrate to the world just what a simple-minded, uneducated, hate-filled proto-fascist he is ... just like THEM ... so they love him oh so much cause if a moron from their level of intellect and hate can become both Rich and President ... why they themself might be rich and important one day too!

Of course, 'Being A'murkin' is about all most of their dumb cracker asses can claim in the way of accomplishments, so ... maybe we should take pity ...

not fooled

(5,801 posts)
32. Yep
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 11:13 PM
Jan 2018

It's shocking to realize how brain-dead and catastrophically ignorant a large swath of the American electorate really is. For this country to work, the founders realized that the electorate needed to be well informed.

Yet here we are, with these ignorant, faux- and flush-propagandized dumbasses who have no idea how government or this country works, yet who have opinions and who vote.

They will tie their brains in knots to justify the traitorous, treasonous, criminal behavior of their idol.


LuckyCharms

(17,444 posts)
6. Just tell them that people on Facebook...
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 08:45 PM
Jan 2018

don't have the ability to make policy that can screw up the whole world. Also, people on Facebook don't have a nuclear button.

flying rabbit

(4,635 posts)
7. trump's election
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 08:45 PM
Jan 2018

has certainly opened my eyes to the psyche of a large swath of americans. Not in a good way either.

 

SoCalMusicLover

(3,194 posts)
8. Your First Mistake Was Staying More Than 1 Minute
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 08:47 PM
Jan 2018

As soon as you realized what you were up against, you should have cut your losses.

Drumpf supporters CANNOT be convinced that their guy is a loser. YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE THEIR MINDS, and will become frustrated and depressed when you realize that they are why this country will never be great.

JawJaw

(722 posts)
47. Yup.
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 05:48 AM
Jan 2018

The best we can hope for is that they die off over the next couple of decades and that appropriate protections (against big money in politics/media ownership) are enacted so that the millennials aren't infected with the same virus of stupidity.

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
87. They will die off (they must, eventually)
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 06:28 PM
Jan 2018

But they will be replaced by a new generation, and there's no reason to think it'll be a better one.

Today's monsters are raising tomorrow's monsters and they've got Fox News, hate radio, and the mega-churches to help them do it.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
44. I live in NYC ...
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 04:08 AM
Jan 2018

... but I grew up in rural Pennsylvania. And the person whose posting I was responding to is, I'm somewhat sorry to say, a member of my extended family.

SWBTATTReg

(22,133 posts)
67. I am sorry to hear this BUT ...
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 02:17 PM
Jan 2018

You still have your self respect, and is secure in your knowledge that you speak w/ truth in your words. A great deal of our families are (my spouse and I) in mid-Missouri rural areas (outside KCMO and STLMO) and we experience this tRUMP aura once you get outside the metro areas...just a bunch of loudmouths who feel that speaking more louder than anyone else in the room justifies their idiotic remarks...

Hang tight!

ladym55

(2,577 posts)
11. They are only imitating their leaders
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 08:57 PM
Jan 2018

Having heard not one but TWO Trump spokespeople on AM Joy this weekend need to be shut down for lying, obfuscating, and otherwise spewing garbage, this is how Trumpsters know how to argue.

They don't get the niceties of things like logic and common sense.

I keep thinking about our soldiers currently serving in multiple countries in Africa. Their president* has just endangered them through his ignorance and racism. What few State Department people we have are being called on the carpet.

See when the Orange One gets loud, stupid, and racist, he represents this nation to the world. (shudder) The world is NOT impressed.

Phoenix61

(17,006 posts)
12. I recently had someone tell me there are more
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 09:01 PM
Jan 2018

alt-left neo-Nazis then there are alt-right neo-Nazis. Can't make that stuff up.

MrPurple

(985 posts)
28. Because all their RW media was continually frothing at the mouth about antifa
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 10:28 PM
Jan 2018

and demonizing black lives matter as well. They're sheep.

Response to markpkessinger (Original post)

 

RandomAccess

(5,210 posts)
15. I'm genuinely far more concerned
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 09:10 PM
Jan 2018

that our President doesn't understand that about past presidents, language, decorum, etc.

zentrum

(9,865 posts)
17. Government is not real to them. It's
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 09:51 PM
Jan 2018

…….just a trashy reality show, complete with table turnovers and high, cheap drama.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
19. I wonder what they would have said if you asked them:
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 09:55 PM
Jan 2018

How would you feel if Obama had said he didn't want to allow any immigration from "shithole" countries like Poland, and that we should only get them from Africa?

Would they have found that acceptable?

yardwork

(61,650 posts)
25. They are convinced that Obama actually said that and worse.
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 10:15 PM
Jan 2018

They are certain of this. No way to budge them.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
39. Hell, they believe Obama is an immigrant from a "shithole" country.
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 11:34 PM
Jan 2018

Most of them are still convinced he was born in Kenya and isn't a US citizen.

llmart

(15,540 posts)
21. Don't waste any of your time...
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 10:05 PM
Jan 2018

Our energies are better spent on getting out the vote in November and doing whatever it takes to marginalize these idiots. We want them to go back under the rocks they came from.

Alpeduez21

(1,751 posts)
22. "I understand ya'll are stupid enough to believe fox news so I'll just leave it at that."
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 10:07 PM
Jan 2018

I don't have time for them. I don't have empathy for them. I don't have sympathy for them. I don't care about their viewpoint. I don't want to change their minds.

I work to get progressive voters. I canvas in neighborhoods, I make phone calls. GET OUT THE VOTE!! We vote we win.

bucolic_frolic

(43,182 posts)
23. It's a gutter-level world view
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 10:09 PM
Jan 2018

uneducated low lifes trash has been breeding for awhile. they really do see the world that way. they just tear down whatever is above them which is literally everything. Ironically tRump comes from that street level NYC/Brooklyn background, sort of a rolling anger at everything.

You can't reach these people with art, logic, elegance, kindness. Everything you say is an effront. They will tear down anything to elevate themselves.

BigmanPigman

(51,609 posts)
24. I unfriend someone two weeks ago.
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 10:12 PM
Jan 2018

My sister did this 20 years ago when she realized this person was not a friend and they had nothing in common. I was nicer and gave her the benefit of doubt. She sent me a Christmas card with all the crazy shit I hear on the news about this type of person and I had to accept reality. She is a full blown alt right, neo Nazi, Fux Ruse cult member. I will not waste any energy trying to convince her that she is nuts. I have better things to do like getting people to vote Dem in the midterms and to RESIST every single day.

DBoon

(22,367 posts)
27. The USA is now a "belligerent drunk at the local bar"
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 10:19 PM
Jan 2018

Putin has achieved his goal, eliminating the USA as a credible world power

LittleGirl

(8,287 posts)
31. here's my response to a thumper
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 10:42 PM
Jan 2018

she hasn't responded since I posted this a few hours ago:

We just have little patience for anyone that thinks immigrants are not worthy of living in this country. Let me tell you this, our homeless numbers are 100% higher than ANY European country I visited or lived in between 2006 and last June when I was there last. We have serious problems in this country with gun violence, homelessness, Corporate Welfare robbing the middle class by not paying a living wage, money running our politics and healthcare (!), and terrorism is so random worldwide we can't stop living our lives because of one lone wolf madman. Which reminds me, I didn't even mention mental healthcare lacking worldwide. We have a lot to learn and becoming isolationists in America is foolish and down right dangerous to all of us. We're better than that and we need to grow up and listen to other governments and countries that ARE doing it right and take notes. The only thing I want to make America do again is be open to new ideas and try them rather than doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

Orange Free State

(611 posts)
33. Just do what they do...
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 11:20 PM
Jan 2018

Change the subject and start screaming. They don’t know how to deal with that, and they don’t know what to say if they have to go off Fox script.

A RW guy I know was grumping about Obamacare, calling it socialized medicine. I said “I don’t like it either, I prefer a single payer socialized medicine system, like the armed forces have.” He started to sputter and I thought he would have a stroke on the spot. I knew he was retired Army and had had socialized medicine for decades and would for the rest of his life. He was out of ammo on that one.

Another RW, an older woman, also was yelling about Obamacare. I said calmly, “I think we should get rid of ALL socialized medicine, ESPECIALLY that damn Medicare! We spend too much for the medical care of older people, it’s dragging the country down and. we should just let God take them!” She was stunned and speechless, because she was of an age where she was going to be next. The best she could come up with was “But but but....Medicare isn’t socialized medicine!” It was so absurd a statement that people were laughing at her.

Don’t try to take them head on, use mental judo on them. Maybe you can make them think, you never know.

Ohiogal

(32,006 posts)
41. My late cousin
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 11:44 PM
Jan 2018

Was a Navy veteran and had VA care and was also pretty much of a RWNJ. Any time he had to wait to get in to see a doctor or have a procedure, he'd bitch like hell, "That's what happens when you have to depend on socialized medicine". ( meaning the VA)

Orange Free State

(611 posts)
90. Most of the time
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 12:03 AM
Jan 2018

They don’t really understand what they are saying anyway. It’s just words, it’s whatever they hear on Fox. Take what they say, nod in agreement and go further with it. “The country will be STRONGER when we get rid of SSI and Medicare. We can’t afford to support non productive members of society any more. We’ll have euthanasia for those people, like other countries do” Is a good one, if you know that you are speaking to a non productive member of society. And in my area, a predominantly Trumpian white rural place where half the population collects SSI and is hooked on “pine peels”, most people are non productive. If they are going to be idiots, then I will impersonate a worse idiot.
I posted this once before, a woman in church kept harping about death panels. I finally told her one day that she had better be nice to me, as I had just been appointed by Obama to her local death panel. I wish I had a picture of her face.
My son was a wrestler in middle school, he was not strong and could not take other wrestlers head on. I taught him to bait them and if they charged, to use their momentum against them. He weighed 45 pounds at the time, and actually threw larger wrestlers completely out of the circle. It is a judo move, and that is why I called what I do mental judo. It is fun, try it! “I’m worried about the health of the President, he’s in his 70s and carries far too much weight. And he has a young wife to satisfy” I say this stuff very seriously. When my SO hears me start, she has to leave because she understands what I am doing and starts to laugh.
Best one ever was when a RW woman got in my face and said “Do you support gay marriage?” I was thoughtful for a second and said “Well, you can’t just have them living in sin!”

mehrrh

(233 posts)
35. similar
Mon Jan 15, 2018, 11:27 PM
Jan 2018

Not only are my encounters with Trumpeteers similar to yours, and I am gobsmacked as you are -- although I probably should not be surprised. When they have no other argument to defend themselves, they then play the "whatabout" scenario where they change the subject and try to put me on the defensive.

mnhtnbb

(31,392 posts)
49. Trumpers are by and large Ugly Americans
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 06:20 AM
Jan 2018

They are loud, ignorant, self absorbed and lack self awareness. They are people who are not interested in seeing how others live because they are certain that their way of doing things is superior.

They are Ugly Americans. It's not a surprise they support a Shithole President who is himself an Ugly American.

markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
92. See, that's the thing . . . .
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 03:08 PM
Jan 2018

. . . At least some of those commenting, or who liked their comments, are clearly not stupid people. One of the people who liked what this woman was saying is a niece of mine -- a highly intelligent woman who graduated from Ivy League school with a double major in chemistry and biochem. And the original poster, too, is herself college educated and the wife of a physician.

 

beachbum bob

(10,437 posts)
52. yep, you are deluding yourself to believe that batshit crazies can be reasoned with....
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 07:36 AM
Jan 2018

no use in talking to or with them....we just have to exert our massive will over the sick segment of american culture

lkinwi

(1,477 posts)
57. A tRump fan told me that the shithole comment was not racist, but economic.
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 08:40 AM
Jan 2018

When I asked him to elaborate, he couldn’t, and went off on a you lost , get over it tantrum. I just laughed and asked what that had to do with economics. He walked away muttering.

Alwaysna

(574 posts)
58. I have noticed the RWNJ also believe
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 08:54 AM
Jan 2018

That all democrats want to separate them from their guns. What they can not foresee is that they will voluntarily sell their guns when our economy sinks and they are forced to choose between keeping their guns or feeding their family. Truly an odd turn of circumstance.

 

Stanley Roper

(25 posts)
59. probably more than half of the population
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 09:00 AM
Jan 2018

lives in a demon-filled world, filled with Marxist bogeymen. They have completely lost their reason, for their thought process is pure logical fallacy. The more twisted the delusional thought process, the more this indicates intelligence, craftiness, or "good ol' common sense" to them.

You will achieve nothing by addressing the content of anything they say. You can just dismiss anything they say as gibberish.

It's best to walk away, ignore, or just forbid people like that from being around you.

The source of their delusion is tied to the foundations of their identity. It's impenetrable, irredeemable, a lost cause.

Mc Mike

(9,114 posts)
61. Sounds like you were subjected to the t Rump version of a cultist 'love bomb'.
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 09:41 AM
Jan 2018

There's a bit of a twist on it. They call it a 'hate bomb'.

Initech

(100,080 posts)
64. There's two Americas - those who watch Fox News and those who don't.
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 11:37 AM
Jan 2018

And you can easily spot someone who has fallen under the spell of the Fox cult of they start arguing about kneeling during the national anthem. If they start going off about that bullshit, they've already lost me. You can't fix stupid.

BlueJac

(7,838 posts)
66. None of what you have said surprises me......
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 02:17 PM
Jan 2018

they are apologists for their leader to the end. I am afraid this Shit Stain on our history is going to hard to get rid of.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
70. It's also self evident that they love a bully as a leader
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 03:04 PM
Jan 2018

But only if the bully is bullying others. Not them.

bigbrother05

(5,995 posts)
73. Double standard is those folks dismissing s*hole who were po'd about deplorables
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 03:40 PM
Jan 2018

Or over "clinging to their guns"?

How about "flyover country"? Or Podunk, the sticks, etc.?

robbob

(3,531 posts)
74. I find the problem arguing with brainwashed tRump supporters
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 03:40 PM
Jan 2018

They will bring up some crazy conspiracy theory involving the Clintons or Obama. The only way to contradict them is to have all the facts at hand. If you actually take the time to research the “scandal” which they fully believe to be true AND covered up by the “left wing media”, and then go back to them with the facts they will immeadiately pivot to another crazy right wing conspiracy. It’s exhausting. They don’t even seem to realize that their credibility is in tatters because 99.9% of everything they bring to an argument is made up bullshit.

One example: the so called Uranium One scandal. I got in an argument with a RWNJ about this, then I went to snopes to try and get some background on it. I brought that info back to them; oh well, turns out snopes.com is another “fake news liberal media site”! According to them, obviously.

Part of the problem is a complete lack of critical thinking. These people live in a bubble and they don’t question anything they hear in that bubble. What’s that saying? The first step in indoctrinating a cult member is convincing them that everyone else is lying to them.

Whenever I see something here on DU that seems a little fishy, the first thing I do is look for other sources that will confirm or refute what I am looking at. And to the credit of many here, by the time I get back to the thread that piqued my interest, some other DU’er has debunked the story. I wonder how many RW’ers bother to do that?

Critical thinking skills; they better start emphasizing that in school or democracy is essentially done for. We are living in a new world of alternate facts.

GoneOffShore

(17,340 posts)
79. They do the 'Gish Gallop' all the time.
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 04:31 PM
Jan 2018

It's impossible to marshal a decent argument against that rhetorical technique.

MrScorpio

(73,631 posts)
77. You've got to remember that these are just simple farmers.
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 04:18 PM
Jan 2018

These are people of the land. The common clay of the new West.

You know… morons.

AlleganCarpenter

(25 posts)
81. What about...?
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 04:34 PM
Jan 2018

Whataboutism is deflection at it's finest. Don't trouble ME with facts, I'm the victim of YOUR ....

Javaman

(62,530 posts)
83. they know it's wrong but their need to be always right, in the face of overwhelming evidence...
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 04:51 PM
Jan 2018

to the contrary, is more important to them.

tRump says the sky is red when it's clearly blue, but yet, his supporters will argue that it's red regardless how wrong they are and how much damage a statement like that could do.

to them, it's never been about country, it's always been about petty jealousy. Jealous of the fact that we on the left have intelligent people and they do not.

it's really that simple.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,564 posts)
85. When I let the current social and political landscape slip just a wee bit out of focus,
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 05:14 PM
Jan 2018

even for a moment, the whole thing seems so much more surreal. I don't much care for the hard edges the reality has, nor the sharply-drawn underline, but I live in the real world, and in a second or two, it becomes 100% real again.

jmbar2

(4,890 posts)
86. Can we work from within their frame?
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 05:35 PM
Jan 2018

For one, never let them frame a conversation using Faux News talking points. Engage them in discussions that don't have fixed talking points they can fall back on.

Ex: Which country is closest to your ideal form of society and government? What makes it ideal?

You can then maneuver to topics that authoritarians would agree with:
- Do you think it's possible to have a good society without a strong system of laws that apply to everyone?
- Is it important for leaders to demonstrate respect for the law?
- What happens when leaders don't respect the laws of the land? What should happen to them?

Do you think Trump obeys the laws?

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
89. I have something that ends most any conversation like that.
Tue Jan 16, 2018, 08:11 PM
Jan 2018

Obviously not this example as it just happened. But whenever someone goes racist and tell you everyone is thinking it. I just tell them to say it at their workplace and see how that works out for them. And then, before they can respond I tell them if they were one of my employees I would enjoy firing them because we do not welcome racist where I work. Turn around and walk away.

Shuts them the fuck up that is for sure.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
91. If he had made the shithole comment OR the Norway comment
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 12:23 AM
Jan 2018

It wouldn’t have been as bad. It could at least be explained away.

It’s the combination of the two statements that makes it racist.

Or at least that’s what I found myself explaining to a couple of Trumpers today.

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