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Edited on Thu Apr-21-11 01:24 PM by closeupready
I'd first met her in kindergarten, and being from a small town, I knew her older brother, too (and she knew a few members of my family, etc.) - I mean, everyone basically went through the same school system (though of course grammar schools were much more neighborhoody, and the junior and senior high schools were for the whole town).
We stayed good friends for all those years, and had a few phone calls after graduation, then even later, we'd exchange emails. She went into the military and I went to college. She went to college, too, eventually, and graduated. I moved East, was openly gay (though I never really told her that), and she moved South, married and had kids.
Well, during the Bush/Kerry elections, it became clear to me that she was deeply conservative and religious Christian fundamentalist, which disappointed me. It was a difficult decision, but I eventually changed email accounts and I no longer really read her emails.
She has had an inspiring life, and I have lots of respect for her, but ... You know, there are so many people from back home that I can't relate to anymore. I don't wish bad on anyone, but I've never been to a class reunion, and I'm not sure how enthusiastic I would be to do so. Some of my classmates now have died, some who meant something to me. I wish I didn't feel that way, but I feel that I had a hard childhood, esp. in terms of being socially isolated.
I will say that I do sometimes get word from mutual acquaintances that so-and-so said hi, or 'thanks for the memories, for listening, thank you for being a friend when I needed it', so-and-so wishes you well, here's a picture of them and their children. :cry:
But anyway, I wish I could offer advice, but obviously, I don't have much to offer you. :( Just know that your friends will also understand - like you do - over time why the two of you needed to part ways. That could eventually lead to a rebirth of the relationship. :)
Cheers. :)
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