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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:16 AM Original message |
Being a divorced father means |
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DesertFlower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:19 AM Response to Original message |
1. my granddaughter was recently divorced. |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:21 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. what state are you in? I am in france and france has |
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ingac70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:25 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. In every state.... |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:31 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. the usa is more advanced than france then |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 11:10 AM Response to Reply #10 |
42. I hope you're doing some outside research... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:41 PM Response to Reply #10 |
75. My parents had joint custody of me when they divorced. |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 01:28 PM Response to Reply #5 |
48. Depending if there is a geographical restriction in it |
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DesertFlower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:26 AM Response to Reply #2 |
8. my granddaughter lives in florida. they |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 08:37 AM Response to Reply #8 |
21. i haev never heard alimony. but, no one i know going thru divorce makes enough for consideration. |
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DesertFlower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 01:23 PM Response to Reply #21 |
46. my granddaughter is getting $5800 a month. |
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Angry Dragon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:14 PM Response to Reply #46 |
79. I hope she knows she has to pay federal taxes on her alimony |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:28 PM Response to Reply #21 |
82. In Texas it's referred to as spousal support |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:44 PM Response to Reply #82 |
85. ah, well, all i know that have divorced, under ten. and no one had any money anyway |
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DebJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:47 AM Response to Reply #2 |
33. What happens in 50 50's if the parents cannot agree? One |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:56 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. in 50 50 you have to come to joint decisions with the other parent |
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jeff47 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 12:04 PM Response to Reply #33 |
44. They have to work it out, or go to court and a judge will break the tie. (nt) |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 01:31 PM Response to Reply #33 |
49. In a true 50-50 custody |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:41 PM Response to Reply #33 |
61. joint custody more often than not, sucks! |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:44 PM Response to Reply #61 |
76. If the dad is a woo-woo chiro-moron he should not have gotten custody in any case. |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:05 PM Response to Reply #76 |
77. let's face it |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:45 PM Response to Reply #77 |
86. I think you are mixing up strereotypes with facts. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:24 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. i am hearing this more and more. where they protect the other parent more. nt |
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maddezmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:25 AM Response to Reply #1 |
7. I am recently divorced and and have a 50/50 shared custody |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:32 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. please tell me what state this is in |
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maddezmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:41 AM Response to Reply #11 |
14. Texas |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:47 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. i have seen only fair, considering both parents here in texas. i have always been impressed |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:57 AM Response to Reply #18 |
36. texas has different legal tradition |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 01:34 PM Response to Reply #36 |
50. Texas laws favors wealthy men. Period. |
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rainbow4321 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 01:50 PM Response to Reply #36 |
52. I divorced in TX about 20 yrs ago |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 02:18 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Texas is very evenhanded for the most part. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:19 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. he was a gold digger. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:43 PM Response to Reply #52 |
62. Zoinks - what an ass. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:51 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Thank you. |
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rainbow4321 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 05:44 PM Response to Reply #62 |
68. Thank you....from the three of us |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:27 PM Response to Reply #11 |
81. My ex husband and I do not have 50.50 custody |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 01:24 PM Response to Reply #1 |
47. I like that |
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DesertFlower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 06:02 PM Response to Reply #47 |
69. even on the days he has custody my granddaughter |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:23 AM Response to Original message |
3. wow, what a question. i just got up |
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johnnyplankton (128 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:25 AM Response to Original message |
6. Dont Project |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:34 AM Response to Reply #6 |
12. not certain, perhaps never, perhaps just said that to piss me off |
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quinnox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:29 AM Response to Original message |
9. it seems complicated |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:36 AM Response to Reply #9 |
13. i am a us citizen |
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quinnox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:45 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. I wish you well but |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 01:37 PM Response to Reply #13 |
51. Your wife needs to put a passport watch on your child |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:26 PM Response to Reply #51 |
57. are you sure? |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:42 AM Response to Original message |
15. My fiance cannot even move within the state of California |
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Johonny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 04:20 PM Response to Reply #15 |
65. My limit experience with the California Court on this is they can. |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
16. Hope you can work it out without it coming to that Reggie - |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 08:29 AM Response to Original message |
19. My son got full custody of his son. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 08:33 AM Response to Original message |
20. My guy let signed a paper to let his kid go to Columbia |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 08:39 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. I also would not send a kid to Columbia University |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 09:42 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. I'm talking about Columbia...the country :-) |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 09:58 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. I get that, but the country is spelled Colombia |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:59 AM Response to Reply #20 |
37. i was married and happy when i fathered my daughter |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 09:09 AM Response to Original message |
23. I was divorced about 20 years ago, and there was no stipulation whatsoever |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 11:01 AM Response to Reply #23 |
38. i am talking about 50 50 joint and physical custody |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 05:40 PM Response to Reply #23 |
67. He had to sign for the passport to be issued. |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 09:11 AM Response to Original message |
24. In Canada if you don't pay your child support they take your license |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
25. Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 11:04 AM Response to Reply #25 |
39. very interesting, but france and russia are memebers too |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 11:13 AM Response to Reply #39 |
43. Be that as it may, France and the US are not Russia |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 12:19 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. ah, thanks for the wisdom |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:19 AM Response to Original message |
28. As you consider this option, are you thinking, "What is the best possible outcome for my daughter?" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:42 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. really, that has always got to be the bottomline. my brother had over a decade fighting for his |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:44 AM Response to Reply #28 |
32. Very good advice. |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 11:05 AM Response to Reply #28 |
40. basically if mom moves to an island |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 09:25 PM Response to Reply #40 |
72. Believe me, I understand. |
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lynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
29. I would think that any restrictions on moving would have to be incorporated - |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
31. Well, seeing as that is how things are there... |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 11:07 AM Response to Reply #31 |
41. i agree, i would consider moving to follow my kid |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:20 PM Response to Reply #41 |
55. Sounds like you have your priorities right and are a good dad Reggie |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
34. I think if the child is our priority |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
56. Being a divorced father means 'shut up and send the checks.' n/t |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:29 PM Response to Reply #56 |
59. Being a divorced mother means "shut up and send the checks". |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:32 PM Response to Reply #56 |
60. i only earn 60% of what my wife earns |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 06:48 PM Response to Reply #56 |
71. Cry me a river. |
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sibelian (543 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:08 PM Response to Reply #71 |
78. That doesn't really help. |
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JustAnotherGen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
58. It goes state by state in the US |
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laundry_queen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
64. I feel for you. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
66. Rhythm's ex-husband took their daughter and moved to Australia. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
70. You might want to read the order again. Moving away means court. |
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Exultant Democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:17 PM Response to Original message |
73. Knowing what you know you should think about asking to have this thread locked and deleted |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-15-11 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
74. My cousin was lucky to win custody of his 2 kids rather than his psycho ex. |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
80. I have a friend that shares 50/50 custody with their father |
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TNLib (683 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
83. I think kidnapping your child would be a terrible mistake |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
84. "am i a monster for considering this option?" |
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southernyankeebelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-16-11 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
87. In Tn a parent cannot move to another state without the permission of |
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