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one_voice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 12:20 PM
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Cobra, cpaps and shit...
When my husband lost his job almost 3 weeks ago he also lost his health insurance. We recently received the cobra bill, to cover my husband and my son it will cost over $900 a month. Mind you, this is VERY shitty insurance. My son is in college and can get insurance through school, still shitty, but covered if anything big happens. So the amount would drop to over $500 a month.

So, out of the whopping $327 he gets a week in unemployment and my small disability check, we're supposed to be able to afford this. Along with the mortgage, food, elec, etc.

He had a heart attack last October (it'll be a year on the 13th) so there are those meds too. He had to have a sleep study done, which he did. Turns out he's really bad. Stops breathing every 60 seconds..lasting anywhere from one second to 30. He's woke in the middle of the night gasping for air--main reason for sleep study--and it seems like forever before he can breath again. They told him he's another heart attack waiting to happen.

So he needs to get a cpap machine. It's literally a matter of life and death. So I looked into finding help getting one, either very low cost or free--you know all those charities the repugs hoot and holler about? I found ONE awake in America org. I looked into the states high risk insurance--lower payments--you have to be uninsured for at least 6 months...WTF?!?!

So now we have to decide to we find a way to pay at least one months cobra--probably getting backed up on other bills-or play Russian roulette every night while he sleeps. Earlier this year, and woman my daughter works with husband died from sleep apnea--he was younger than my husband and had never had a heart attack.

I know I'm not the only one in the situation. Millions of people are living this very same nightmare. The fact that so many people just don't care is heartbreaking. America's attitude has become everyone for themselves, and I've got mine you can go to hell.

The many are being crushed by the few. The dollar is more important than a human life. This is the world we're giving our children?

I remember when I was a teenager. There was a family that lived in my neighborhood, and the husband was a construction worker and would always get laid off in the winter. Every winter a collection was taken for them, meals were prepared and frozen for them, we helped each other. It was like that when any family needed help, we all pitched in. What happened?

I'm proud of all the "occupy" cities/states that are happening. I'm happy we're no longer being silent..I hope they hear us.

Thanks for letting me vent.
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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 12:33 PM
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1. That's terrible.
Here's something to think about. I just checked my local Craig's List and there were CPAP machines galore for sale there. I imagine it's the same on most Craig's lists. Prices ranged from under $200. New ones were also listed, starting at about $300.

Just in case.
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one_voice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 12:39 PM
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2. Thanks....
I thought about looking on Craig's List and Ebay. Going to look now.
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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 12:43 PM
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3. Ebay doesn't allow them to be sold there. Supplies, yes,
but not the machines.
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formercia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 12:44 PM
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4. I have one for you
Edited on Thu Oct-06-11 12:46 PM by formercia
PM me.

It worked for me, don't need it any more and I can't sell it, since it's a Medical device.
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one_voice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 01:04 PM
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7. Sent...
thank you!
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formercia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 01:21 PM
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11. I can mail it tomorrow if you need it right away.
Glad if I can help.
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Gregorian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 12:59 PM
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5. CPAPTALK is a great forum. Go there!
I got my bipap off Craigslist.

Cpaptalk.com is a community of people who really know their stuff.

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one_voice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 01:04 PM
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8. Thank you!....
sometimes message boards are the best way to find out things. I'm going there now.
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w8liftinglady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 01:02 PM
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6. let me see if my insurance is buying me a new one
I'll send you my "old" one.you may have to get a mask,but it's practically new(3 years old and hardly used).
I'll know within the week, and will PM you.
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one_voice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 01:05 PM
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9. Thank you!
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cutlassmama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-06-11 01:08 PM
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10. normally it's every 5 years for insurance. I think someone else already
is sending her one.

I was going to send my old one too, but it looks like someone else already is.
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