The National Weather Service assembles and publishes very extensive and very objective information about these storms:
http://www.nhc.noaa.gov/index.shtmlTheir information on Irene, for example, had it arriving at New York (40.7 N latitude) at a level right between tropical storm and hurricane consistently for at least two days leading up to the actual arrival. Even though the media made some wild claims, the NWS gave clear and objective and, ultimately, correct information all along. Of course they can't predict down to the inch where things will go, so they give confidence bands. The actual track of Irene was, I think, within 10 miles of the track predicted a couple days before. Although it was a Category 3 in the open ocean off of Florida, it was never expected to maintain that strength across land and over colder waters.
They only predict out 5 days. The best thing to do, I think, is see what they are saying a few days from now to see whether this one is headed to NC.
You can see a complete archive of their advisories and discussions here:
http://www.nhc.noaa.gov/archive/2011/index.shtml if you want to understand how accurate their forecasts are and how they evolve over time Generally the closer the time gets, the accurate the prediction will be.