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Cruzan (806 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:25 AM Original message |
Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
1. Disgusting. Xenophobic. Myopic. Self-Hating. Close-Minded Trash. nt |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:40 AM Response to Original message |
2. I have a close friend who moved here from China as a young adult. I have to say that |
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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:42 AM Response to Original message |
3. As a Chinese American I read this article and am familiar with this "valuing education" thing |
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MattBaggins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:29 PM Response to Reply #3 |
44. Delete... didn't mean to comment to this post |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:43 AM Response to Original message |
4. This woman has issues, and if she wants to brag about it, that's her problem. |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:45 AM Response to Original message |
5. Ah, so that's why so many Chinese kids committ suicide due to stress, |
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jallo (38 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:48 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Japanese Americans also value education highly |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:56 AM Response to Reply #6 |
8. ... |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:57 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Pretty hard to argue with a mother who decides everything for a kid |
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jallo (38 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:01 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. I'm not making a value judgment |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:30 AM Response to Reply #6 |
33. A significantly higher suicide rate is an odd measure of achievement |
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jallo (38 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:19 PM Original message |
I agree and |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:07 PM Response to Reply #6 |
54. I had a Japanese American friend when I was in |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:52 AM Response to Original message |
7. Interesting. Have not processed all the ramifications yet. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:05 AM Response to Original message |
11. Stopped reading at the "list of things not allowed to do". She's a psycho. |
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cherokeeprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:09 AM Response to Original message |
12. Superior to what? n/t |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
13. Well, it was halfway buying it, until I got towards the end, |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:13 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. She's got a personality disorder, and she's glorifying it. n/t |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:11 AM Response to Original message |
14. She is glorifying narcissistic, perfectionistic, controlling parents |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:20 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. Yeah, she is patting herself on the back prematurely. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
16. Interesting read. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:37 AM Response to Reply #16 |
36. The girl from the biggest loser was already obese as a child. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:55 PM Response to Reply #36 |
85. Why do I presume they'll have issues? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:00 PM Response to Reply #85 |
88. Do you actually watch "the biggest loser?" |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:23 PM Response to Reply #88 |
95. Link, please, to the episode where Bob or Jillian calls someone "garbage". |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:20 PM Response to Reply #95 |
102. Considering I have never claimed that Bob or Jillian called |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 06:28 PM Response to Reply #102 |
111. You are claiming that this mother takes a similar approach to Bob and Jillian |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 07:11 PM Response to Reply #111 |
113. Similar approach in terms of "tough love." |
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lbhuang (1 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-11 06:23 PM Response to Reply #113 |
126. Why do you not comprehend? |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:17 AM Response to Original message |
17. Her book should be read in conjunction with "The Drama of the Gifted Child," |
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vanlassie (826 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:35 AM Response to Reply #17 |
35. I second this suggestion. A classic. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:47 PM Response to Reply #17 |
107. Expanded upon by John Bradshaw. |
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nolabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:47 PM Response to Reply #17 |
108. Amen to that! |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:52 PM Response to Reply #108 |
109. As I said somewhere else, these are vampire parents, |
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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 08:59 PM Response to Reply #108 |
120. WSJ touting this...that's how Republicans are raised? |
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provis99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:31 AM Response to Original message |
19. and now we know where angry Chinese-American porn stars come from. |
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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:52 AM Response to Reply #19 |
23. were you thinking about Tila Tequila? |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:42 AM Response to Original message |
20. Sad that she is incapable of finding pride through her own accomplishments |
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provis99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:47 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. you sound like a much better mom. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:30 AM Response to Reply #20 |
24. She appears to be a vampire mother, |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:36 PM Response to Reply #20 |
45. Did you read the bio? |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:04 PM Response to Reply #45 |
52. And? Success is different things to different people. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:34 PM Response to Reply #52 |
96. I think most people would say that ability to persevere is a good success trait. |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 07:27 PM Response to Reply #96 |
114. "The key is to encourage kids to achieve all that which they are capable" |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:01 PM Response to Reply #45 |
89. What difference does it make what her job is or how much money she makes? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:36 PM Response to Reply #89 |
97. The post to which I replied observed that she wasn't taking pride in her own accomplishments. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:44 AM Response to Original message |
21. That woman's a control freak and emotionally abusive |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:21 PM Response to Reply #21 |
66. And she picked the instruments! |
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Prometheus Bound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 07:51 AM Response to Original message |
25. That lady's not going to get a lot of respect for that article. For starters, she's an idiot. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
26. so when the chinese take over they can use us for televised target practice and gladiator fights |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 08:18 AM Response to Original message |
27. only a true loser could be perturbed by this mother's words |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:56 PM Response to Reply #27 |
49. !!! |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:13 PM Response to Reply #49 |
57. i was being sarcastic |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:16 PM Response to Reply #27 |
99. She's a narcissistic, controlling parent. The Chinese factor has little to do with it. |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
28. Stopped reading after the bullet points. |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
29. w/o going to the link, just reading posts sound like a serial killer creator. |
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KossackRealityCheck (153 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
30. Let's refer this to the experts (ROFLMAO!!!) |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
31. A frightening article; and no, it does NOT describe 'Chinese mothers' in general |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:25 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. This is the correct answer. -nt |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
34. Wow! All you guys are missing the point *entirely* |
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hayu_lol (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:26 PM Response to Reply #34 |
43. There are always truths in the midst of garbage... |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:40 AM Response to Original message |
37. Wow--withholding food and water and bathroom breaks until a difficult piano piece was learned. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:41 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. How does he not let her do something? |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:42 AM Response to Reply #38 |
39. No--I'm suggesting he could divorce her and sue for custody. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:49 AM Response to Reply #39 |
40. Why? From what I gleaned from the article, she is quite |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 11:52 AM Response to Reply #40 |
41. All sorts of people look good from the outside shiny surface. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 09:17 PM Response to Reply #40 |
121. Oh, she "accomplished" something, all right. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:38 PM Response to Reply #38 |
46. Is he not a parent? |
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MattBaggins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:04 PM Response to Reply #46 |
53. No shit |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:51 PM Response to Reply #46 |
70. Since when having expectations for a child is abuse? |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:58 PM Response to Reply #70 |
73. If they are beyond the child's ability and the child is put down over it? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:04 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. Since the child learned to do it, clearly it was not beyond |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:17 PM Response to Reply #75 |
76. Are you talking about that piano piece? |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:22 PM Response to Reply #75 |
94. You'd learn to do all sorts of shit you never thought you could, too--if it meant |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:37 PM Response to Reply #70 |
98. Expecting a 7 year old to master the piano before peeing is an unrealistic expectation. n/t |
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Brooklyns_Finest (747 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
42. Chinese Mothers |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:56 PM Response to Reply #42 |
110. That kind of parenting isn't superior, it's the result of a personality disorder |
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ironrooster (273 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
47. OK have to weigh in here - |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
48. Well, I'd say, "Yeah, and her brother, too! " Except......... |
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zanana1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
50. That was sick. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
51. I've had three close Chinese-American friends |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:12 PM Response to Reply #51 |
56. Sadly, I know a similar situation. |
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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 09:20 PM Response to Reply #51 |
123. MY HOMETOWN! So unbelievable. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
55. This woman is legitimizing her abusive behavior by the results. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:13 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. The proof is in the pudding. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:18 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. and results are what matter |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:19 PM Response to Reply #58 |
62. She raised compliant robots. |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #58 |
64. First of all, we only have her word for it |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:41 PM Response to Reply #64 |
80. No we don't just have her word for it. |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:17 PM Response to Reply #80 |
92. A lot of children who are NOT threatened and pressurized and deprived of ordinary social activities. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:28 PM Response to Reply #80 |
105. If you are in favor of education, you could try |
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whatchamacallit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 07:47 PM Response to Reply #80 |
115. Mission Accomplished! |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:18 PM Response to Reply #58 |
100. Her children are still children. And we don't know how many years |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 07:52 PM Response to Reply #100 |
116. It sounds to me like the woman herself was raised in a similar |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 08:02 PM Response to Reply #116 |
117. That's the typical course for surviving narcissists. The parent sucks the life out of the child, |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:16 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. to make an omelette, you must break eggs. |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:22 PM Response to Reply #59 |
67. Children aren't a food for others to eat, and don't need to be broken. (nt) |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:26 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. if the worst a child gets is a demanding parent who holds them to standards . . . |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
61. I hate that crap about how a B is not good enough |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:21 PM Response to Reply #61 |
65. win, win, always play to win . . . |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:45 PM Response to Reply #61 |
69. If one strives to just being average, I suppose C is just fine. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:56 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. Somebody has to be average |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:43 PM Response to Reply #72 |
81. If her children are getting As only then it's not unrealistic, is it? |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:56 PM Response to Reply #81 |
86. Someday one of them will get a B in something |
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whatchamacallit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:27 PM Response to Reply #69 |
77. Cranking out the shiniest widgets... |
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mainer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
63. she is NOT like every Chinese mother |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
71. That woman is certifiably insane. |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
74. What bullshit |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
78. Talk about smug... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:39 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. She is a professor at Yale and published a couple of books (so far). |
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whatchamacallit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:45 PM Response to Reply #79 |
82. Again, if the only way to measure success is by resume |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:50 PM Response to Reply #82 |
83. How else could possibly measure success of someone I |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:58 PM Response to Reply #83 |
87. At what cost? |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:07 PM Response to Reply #83 |
91. FWIW, I know quite a few people who have published academic books - including myself |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 07:02 PM Response to Reply #91 |
112. I've also published an academic book |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:04 PM Response to Reply #79 |
90. I'm a bit conflicted... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:20 PM Response to Reply #79 |
101. So? I lived in a university town and know many more accomplished people |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:25 PM Response to Reply #101 |
104. Abuse? Oh please. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:38 PM Response to Reply #104 |
106. I hope you don't have children if you think |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 08:05 PM Response to Reply #106 |
118. Her method of raising the kids appear to be one end of the |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 08:49 PM Response to Reply #118 |
119. I agree. The opposite extreme is not effective, either. |
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Frank Booth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-10-11 11:25 PM Response to Reply #79 |
127. I had her as a professor, and really wasn't impressed. |
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KossackRealityCheck (153 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
84. Worst part: Chua justifies her abuse with ethnic chauvinism. Not Chinese at all. |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
93. She's only playing the game WE set up |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 05:24 PM Response to Reply #93 |
103. I don't think so. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-11 09:18 PM Response to Reply #103 |
122. Except there are people like that in all cultures. |
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whatchamacallit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-11 12:22 AM Response to Original message |
124. It makes sense this was in the Wall Street Journal |
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tnvoter (75 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-11 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
125. I grew up in similar environment -- and I'm grateful for it |
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