http://www.save.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=home.viewPage&page_ID=7059F90B-018E-8AE4-A6C45D036A17D4F4Healthy, non-impulsive children who talk about death or seem preoccupied after losing a friend or loved one, but have a clear understanding that death is final, and who are not depressed, are probably at a very low risk for suicidal behavior.
Typically, when asked about their own death, children most often state it will happen due to old age or getting sick when they’re old. Many suicidal children believe that when others die, death is final, but that if they die, their death is reversible. Vulnerable children and adolescents who may be under stress (internal or external) may have a change in perceptions of and feelings about death.
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Suicidal behavior and depression is treatable. Thoughts of suicide in children are not normal and should not be treated as such.