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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:25 PM Original message |
Do schools ban the children from "picking teams" at recess now? |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
1. The only people who'd criticize that policy are those who never had to endure the humiliation |
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hlthe2b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:33 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. +++++++++ |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:35 PM Response to Reply #1 |
10. I have |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:37 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. So the bookworm who has no athletic ability should just suck it up, right? |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:10 PM Response to Reply #11 |
108. I was one of those bookworms. |
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rufus dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:56 PM Response to Reply #108 |
121. Outstanding |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 04:43 AM Response to Reply #108 |
136. lol! Yeah. Getting picked last...does suck. Is there something you can do to change that? |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:52 AM Response to Reply #136 |
142. last can also be |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:32 AM Response to Reply #136 |
157. What would an "alphafemale" know? I was always the last picked, and the problem was that |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:25 PM Response to Reply #157 |
168. And that's where you'd be wrong. I most certainly was picked last...plenty. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:40 PM Response to Reply #168 |
173. That's not how it played out, though |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 04:01 PM Response to Reply #173 |
197. Because it made most people grow the fuck up and do better. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:23 PM Response to Reply #197 |
216. But I was NOT inspired to improve until I was told how to improve |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:42 PM Response to Reply #216 |
218. Deleted message |
Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:51 PM Response to Reply #218 |
219. I am over it, and I am now very fit for my age, but I can still feel empathy |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 04:34 AM Response to Reply #173 |
222. Lydia, I completely agree with you. |
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shimmergal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 11:22 AM Response to Reply #222 |
247. I so agree with you and Lydia. |
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lolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-14-11 11:36 PM Response to Reply #168 |
274. Maybe your gym classes weren't |
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formernaderite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 07:50 AM Response to Reply #274 |
296. hate to burst your bubble but all of my teachers were |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:34 PM Response to Reply #136 |
202. I was fit and I still got picked last because people thought I was weird and a "dyke". |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:18 PM Response to Reply #108 |
165. But here's what happens in real life: |
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snagglepuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 07:29 PM Response to Reply #165 |
211. Exactly. nt |
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lolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-14-11 11:42 PM Response to Reply #165 |
275. Yep. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:42 PM Response to Reply #108 |
174. Physical effort doesn't have to be team sports though |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:54 PM Response to Reply #174 |
184. Judging from the number of enormously fat |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:27 PM Response to Reply #184 |
198. Oh now hush. The thumbs of all those 300 lb 13 year olds are very well developed. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 07:11 AM Response to Reply #108 |
294. I imagine there are more constructive ways... |
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rpannier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 06:06 AM Response to Reply #11 |
224. Then they don't have to play the games they have no interest in |
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a la izquierda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 07:05 AM Response to Reply #11 |
228. Some of us bookworms were jocks, too. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:41 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. You're awesome. |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:47 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. +1. Nailed it...nt |
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Hassin Bin Sober (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:00 PM Response to Reply #12 |
185. Like the saying goes, "the older I get, the better I was" |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:49 PM Response to Reply #10 |
18. Well, BULLY....for you. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:53 PM Response to Reply #10 |
21. And some people just learn to hate sports for the rest of their lives. n/t |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:24 PM Response to Reply #21 |
44. And others get over it, and go on to have a full life. nt |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 04:50 AM Response to Reply #44 |
137. And some people lick at at scratch or imagined insult |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 07:10 AM Response to Reply #44 |
229. You can hate team sports and still have a full life.. |
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bbdad (111 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-14-11 10:05 PM Response to Reply #229 |
270. As you can see, ... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 12:10 AM Response to Reply #44 |
279. Sports are in no way necessary for a full life. n/t |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:10 PM Response to Reply #10 |
36. A mind boggling concept... |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:08 PM Response to Reply #36 |
186. Well there's a few out there that getting hit in the face during dodgeball ruined their life. |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:37 PM Response to Reply #186 |
193. I take solace in the fact... |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:35 PM Response to Reply #193 |
203. Good |
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bbdad (111 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-14-11 09:57 PM Response to Reply #203 |
269. Have you ever considered genuine fitness classes ... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 12:56 AM Response to Reply #193 |
284. So why are you on a liberal board? |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 01:52 AM Response to Reply #186 |
289. Clearly |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:56 AM Response to Reply #10 |
144. Obviously you had some basic ability there |
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immoderate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:24 AM Response to Reply #144 |
154. A good analysis. |
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lolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-14-11 11:48 PM Response to Reply #154 |
276. One diference, however |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:45 PM Response to Reply #10 |
194. kind of surprised at how uninterested you are in your topic |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 10:01 PM Response to Reply #10 |
220. and some of the kids it motivates them to be bullies |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 06:47 AM Response to Reply #10 |
227. So, the kid with physical ailments proventing |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
13. Absolutely! |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 12:17 AM Response to Reply #13 |
280. I have Raynaud's too! |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:48 PM Response to Reply #1 |
16. Eesh. If that's considered humiliation we're in bad shape. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:55 PM Response to Reply #16 |
23. It's a popularity contest as much as anything. |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:00 PM Response to Reply #23 |
28. I pretty much sucked at sports |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:02 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Teaching the "athletic/popular kids" that the unathletic kids can be valuable players too |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:34 PM Response to Reply #28 |
53. Coddling has nothing to do with it. Do we have the "smart" kids assign grades |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:38 PM Response to Reply #53 |
58. Aye, but there's the rub. |
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Drahthaardogs (482 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:54 PM Response to Reply #28 |
87. In moderation, I do not see this as a huge problem. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:46 PM Response to Reply #28 |
178. What's "coddling" about it |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 07:00 PM Response to Reply #178 |
208. There isn't any child who is good at nothing |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 09:49 AM Response to Reply #208 |
239. Everyone is going to figure it out some way |
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lolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-14-11 11:51 PM Response to Reply #28 |
277. Define "coddling" |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:34 PM Response to Reply #23 |
191. Newsflash: Life is a popularity contest |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:07 PM Response to Reply #16 |
34. You are confusing two things. Keeping score has nothing to do with |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:11 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Why do we teach kids to rely so much on popularity for self-esteem? |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:26 PM Response to Reply #37 |
46. Why do we set them up in popularity contests when there is nothing |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:29 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. There's a lot to be gained from it. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:32 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. 13 year olds who commit suicide is a great lesson. Sorry, but if |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:35 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. Not one 13-year-old has committed suicide for not being picked for a team. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:39 PM Response to Reply #54 |
60. You can't say that. A child who is repeatedly chosen last, over an extended |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:41 PM Response to Reply #60 |
64. Then the problem is with the rest of her life. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:42 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. Yet, you have people here telling you it wasn't a minor disappointment |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:45 PM Response to Reply #67 |
71. And yet they're alive to tell the tale. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:48 PM Original message |
Some of them are. Some of them are not. |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
82. Harley committed suicide for not being picked for a team? |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:53 PM Response to Reply #82 |
85. Harley committed suicide over a bunch of things. Being ostracized |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:55 PM Response to Reply #85 |
89. I am so, so sorry, ScreamingMeemie. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:54 PM Response to Reply #82 |
88. Boy, you really are heartless. |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:57 PM Response to Reply #88 |
92. Oh cry me a river. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:58 PM Response to Reply #92 |
94. "false pandering sympathy"...where was that? |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:00 PM Response to Reply #92 |
96. You're done? |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 12:53 AM Response to Reply #92 |
283. In theory, if you're a liberal, you probably deplore Ayn Randian social Darwinism for adults. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:56 PM Response to Reply #82 |
91. Have you ever heard the expression, "the straw that broke the camel's back." |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:58 PM Response to Reply #82 |
95. Stop. |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:00 PM Response to Reply #95 |
98. You're funny. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:03 PM Response to Reply #98 |
100. I thought you were done? |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:04 PM Response to Reply #100 |
101. Your arrogance was a target I couldn't resist. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:44 AM Response to Reply #71 |
139. Oh yeah. That faulty logic rears its head again. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:41 PM Response to Reply #60 |
65. This is why it is so hard to educate people on suicide awareness. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:53 PM Response to Reply #65 |
84. It's hard to believe some of these reactions. |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:06 PM Response to Reply #84 |
102. I'm Damned Surprised |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:53 AM Original message |
It encourages all the children whose abilities deserve being picked first |
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immoderate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
158. It gives encouragement only to those who don't need it. Awesome! |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:59 AM Response to Reply #158 |
162. The exceptional need and deserve encouragement just as much as the inferior n/t |
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immoderate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:48 PM Response to Reply #162 |
195. At whose expense? Not that their particular deficiencies can't be addressed. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:40 PM Response to Reply #54 |
62. You don't know that, nor do I. I would hedge a guess that being picked |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:44 PM Response to Reply #62 |
69. Then the problem is harrassment, not the important life lesson |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:47 PM Response to Reply #69 |
74. So...my weakness was moving then? And I should have forced my |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:49 PM Response to Reply #74 |
78. Everyone has thoughts of suicide. Join the club. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:51 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. I'd rather not. I'd rather work for awareness. It didn't save my husband, |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:54 PM Response to Reply #81 |
86. You have it exactly backwards. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:56 PM Response to Reply #86 |
90. That's not what I am saying and you know it. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:09 PM Response to Reply #86 |
107. Destroying children's self-esteem sets them up for suicide. |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 10:11 PM Response to Reply #107 |
221. Exactly. Teachers hand back graded papers upside down |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 03:31 AM Response to Reply #86 |
290. Teaching people that it's perfectly OK when life isn't fair may be setting them up to be right wing |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:07 PM Response to Reply #81 |
105. I think that's the problem here. This poster is seriously misinformed. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:06 PM Response to Reply #78 |
103. If you think that, that may be the problem. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:02 PM Response to Reply #69 |
99. Why is this so hard for you to understand? |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:28 PM Response to Reply #99 |
169. It's okay. Someone has a different opinion than you do. |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:09 PM Response to Reply #69 |
106. It Isn't About |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 07:06 PM Response to Reply #106 |
209. That's not what is happening here. |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 10:03 AM Response to Reply #54 |
146. Fair enough |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 10:55 AM Response to Reply #51 |
150. New Plan... |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:17 PM Response to Reply #150 |
164. LOL! |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:37 PM Response to Reply #49 |
57. "Being picked next to last is a tremendous source of encouragement"? |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:38 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Yes, it's called "improvement". |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:40 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. No, it's arbitrary. |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:41 PM Response to Reply #63 |
66. Life is arbitrary. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:45 PM Response to Reply #66 |
70. And the decision on assigning teams not being done by the kids is an arbitrary decision. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:48 PM Response to Reply #66 |
75. You're the one pretending that this team-picking teaches something important |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 03:34 AM Response to Reply #66 |
291. 'Life' in this sense is not an abstract force. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:44 PM Response to Reply #59 |
68. I've unrecced a lot of shitty posts here, it never seems to lead to improvement by the posters. |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:31 AM Response to Reply #68 |
156. Congrats, you have just won the thread |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:54 AM Response to Reply #49 |
128. Tell you what. We're forming a modelling program. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 01:06 AM Response to Reply #128 |
285. Honorary DUzy! I wish we still had them. |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:48 PM Response to Reply #49 |
179. Thing is though that... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:32 PM Response to Reply #37 |
52. For many kids school is the first place where they have to deal with people outside of the family,.. |
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FreakinDJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:13 PM Response to Reply #1 |
39. Accept this is RECESS not PE class |
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a la izquierda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 07:14 AM Response to Reply #39 |
230. THANK YOU! |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 12:40 PM Response to Reply #39 |
254. The kids at my daughter's school played "Survivor" at recess. She was "voted off the island"... |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 01:25 AM Response to Reply #39 |
288. Maybe in your school. |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
47. There is a difference between recess where kids go willy-nilly and |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:36 PM Response to Reply #1 |
56. Our PE teachers would allow about 5 or 6 picks and then start assigning |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:48 AM Response to Reply #1 |
140. Yes, and everyone who is spewing the bullshit that kids just need to get better |
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Warrior Dash (175 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 07:17 AM Response to Reply #1 |
231. Sound like a plan to me. No need to teach them about choices. |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
2. Sounds reasonable to me. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
3. I see no problem with 1, 2, 1, 2-ing it, instead of picking teams. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:31 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. That's why when I got to pick my phys ed class I took fitness & dance. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:34 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. That's the thing. I was pretty good at sports. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 03:28 PM Response to Reply #4 |
259. You mean the ones who scream at you when you drop the ball? |
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hlthe2b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
5. I don't know... I can recall this being the impetus for lots of |
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Orangepeel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
7. are you thinking that picking teams is some sort of character building exercise? |
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NYC_SKP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:34 PM Response to Original message |
8. Problems with the traditional "pick two captains" and let them play God... |
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davepc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:05 PM Response to Reply #8 |
32. Not like the skilled kids are going to throw the ball to the unskilled ones anyways |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:07 PM Response to Reply #15 |
33. I am guessing that many people here consider themselves nerds... |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 03:48 AM Response to Reply #15 |
134. What do you do for a living? |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
17. This is not "political correctness." |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
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sakabatou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
20. I don't know |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:54 PM Response to Original message |
22. Wow, that was quite a leap from the school of the son of a friend of yours, to "the political |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:56 PM Response to Original message |
24. Schools tell kids what to do, as they should. |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
25. The whole "winning and losing" thing can be very unfair too. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 09:59 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. What does always being picked last "teach"? |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:17 PM Response to Reply #25 |
41. Life is unfair. Can you imagine the uproar if the 'A' students have to give part of their |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:25 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. You will not believe this, but it happened. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 12:44 PM Response to Reply #45 |
255. We should probably do away with the Special Olympics while we're at it... |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:30 PM Response to Reply #41 |
50. Seriously? Holy shite! |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:47 PM Response to Reply #41 |
73. Well, in one of my classes the teacher let students pick working partners |
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immoderate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:00 PM Response to Reply #41 |
163. I've done it. As you say life is not fair. |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #41 |
188. I think you're confusing two things.. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #41 |
192. Oh, but they're already doing that |
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backscatter712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:00 PM Response to Original message |
27. That practice is pretty humiliating for the kid that always gets picked last. n/t |
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virgogal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:08 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. Many years ago when I was a young,idealistic first grade teacher |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:56 PM Response to Reply #35 |
207. That is actually a very good remedy |
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tabbycat31 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
30. they should in PE class |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:52 PM Response to Reply #30 |
83. I also think they should emphasize individual fitness |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:11 PM Response to Reply #83 |
109. We are lucky, in my son's district, that they have moved to more |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:21 PM Response to Reply #83 |
166. Yes, I would have ENJOYED swimming and race-walking, for example |
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FrodosPet (35 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 01:08 PM Response to Reply #83 |
257. Unfortunately, most people consider sports more fun |
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smokey nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-13-11 07:48 AM Response to Reply #30 |
266. I agree with you 100%. |
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catrose (591 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
31. Good for the school |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:20 PM Response to Reply #31 |
42. It is totally unfair that only a few are picked to be Rhodes scholars. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:49 PM Response to Reply #42 |
77. Who's picking the Rhodes scholars? Are friends picking their own friends |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:00 PM Response to Reply #77 |
97. This is an example of how unfair life is. Only the smart ones get the |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:11 PM Response to Reply #97 |
110. Since when is team-picking based on pure athletic ability? |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:21 PM Response to Reply #110 |
112. Generally speaking, elementary age children have limited athletic |
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catrose (591 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:50 AM Response to Reply #112 |
141. If I want to audition |
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Bodhi BloodWave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 10:52 AM Response to Reply #141 |
242. who is forcing you to take part in something during recess tho? |
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catrose (591 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-13-11 06:50 AM Response to Reply #242 |
265. Actually, it was required at my school, whether recess or gym class |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 01:22 AM Response to Reply #242 |
287. "Recess" in US schools is very regimented. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:22 PM Response to Reply #112 |
167. And that's what's wrong with our political system |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:34 PM Response to Reply #97 |
172. The difference is... |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:53 PM Response to Reply #42 |
182. The two would only be equivalent... |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:30 PM Response to Reply #42 |
199. This is the definition of "specious argument." |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 08:56 PM Response to Reply #199 |
214. Would 'example' be more accurate than 'definition'? nt |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
38. I've read this before. Some schools do not allow teachers to put failing |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:28 PM Response to Reply #38 |
48. A red pen mark has nothing to do with peer punishment in choosing |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:51 PM Response to Reply #48 |
80. It's about little Timmy not feeling good. No red pen, no failing grade, no |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:58 PM Response to Reply #80 |
93. Two different things. A grade given by a teacher, based on work that |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:31 PM Response to Reply #80 |
200. since you repeat yourself, I will: SPECIOUS. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
40. Maybe I just had good teachers, but generally the teachers would decide how teams were chosen... |
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Enrique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:21 PM Response to Original message |
43. we already went through this in the 1990s |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
55. It's just like politics. We are told to vote for candidate X because he or she |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:39 PM Response to Reply #55 |
61. Young children vs. adults... duh. n/t |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:47 PM Response to Reply #61 |
72. One would think the adults would know better, huh....duh But no, we |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:33 PM Response to Reply #55 |
201. This is now bizarre. Are you seriously suggesting we vote for the UNintelligent? The UNeducated? |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 03:57 PM Response to Reply #201 |
262. A similar kind of contest. At recess the small, unathletic, unpopular kids are picked last, while |
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likesmountains 52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
76. The kids all know who is 'cool" and who is not..no need to point it out to them. I remember SRA |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 10:50 PM Response to Reply #76 |
79. They might now, but the schools don't have to reinforce it. |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
104. Yep, these kids are really going to ready for the real world. |
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NYC_SKP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:18 PM Response to Reply #104 |
111. Or, we could encourage them that they can make their OWN world and don't have to put up |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:31 PM Response to Reply #111 |
115. Their "own" fantasy world maybe. |
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NYC_SKP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:36 PM Response to Reply #115 |
116. Nope. Artificial bully games at recess and who is the best "athlete" is what's artificial. |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:43 PM Response to Reply #116 |
117. There are art and music classes already for that. |
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NYC_SKP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:48 PM Response to Reply #117 |
118. Dance, gymnastics, lots of things to do for appropriate physical education. nt |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:52 PM Response to Reply #118 |
119. So? Running, tennis, baseball, football are also appropriate physical education |
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NYC_SKP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:03 AM Response to Reply #119 |
123. Please refer to the OP topic. Choosing teams. Not all sports are team sports. eom. |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:07 AM Response to Reply #123 |
124. So it's only team sports you oppose? |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 08:05 AM Response to Reply #115 |
234. You're joking, right? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:22 PM Response to Reply #104 |
113. Yeah, send them to the Ayn Rand school for tots! |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:49 PM Response to Reply #104 |
180. LOL, other kids aren't THAT good at rewarding ability |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:12 PM Response to Reply #180 |
187. Kids pairing up into teams to play during recess does not equal "schoolyard bullying" |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 09:47 AM Response to Reply #187 |
238. How does a kid get to be the one to start this? |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 11:03 AM Response to Reply #238 |
243. "Too bad for any kids weak enough to go along with it." |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 01:14 AM Response to Reply #243 |
286. You seem to have some nostalgic idea that this is something that happens spontaneously. |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 06:46 AM Response to Reply #286 |
292. But we aren't talking about PE Class, we are talking about Recess |
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shimmergal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 01:40 PM Response to Reply #180 |
258. Usually it's the favorites of the |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #258 |
264. Except this is refering to RECESS, not PE class |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:28 PM Response to Original message |
114. Sports is bullshit. That's what I learned in school. |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-10-11 11:52 PM Response to Original message |
120. I was a fairly gifted athlete in middle school (and still am, for an amateur) |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:15 AM Response to Reply #120 |
129. I had a similar experience to yours, |
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SpartanDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:00 AM Response to Original message |
122. We're raising a generation over sheltered kids |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:16 AM Response to Reply #122 |
130. Reinforcing kids' worst bullying tendencies isn't going to help anyone, either. n/t |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 10:17 AM Response to Reply #122 |
147. It's easy to say that |
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rufus dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
125. One of the best Jr. High memories I have is from being picked last |
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sofa king (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 07:21 PM Response to Reply #125 |
210. I have a story just for you. |
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last_texas_dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:48 AM Response to Original message |
126. Are we talking recess or P. E.? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:49 AM Response to Original message |
127. Okay. Turn it around. What developmental benefit is there in that little ritual? n/t |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:17 AM Response to Original message |
131. Good--that's one tradition that needed to die. Having been the last chosen |
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Golden Raisin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 03:22 AM Response to Original message |
132. I'm in my 60's so "picking teams" |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 03:47 AM Response to Original message |
133. GOOD, I'll never forget the humiliation I endured because I was ALWAYS |
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exboyfil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 04:20 AM Response to Reply #133 |
135. I wa the last picked as well |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 12:47 PM Response to Reply #133 |
256. In high school, my best friend and I were known, collectively, as "The Rest"... |
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nadine_mn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:10 AM Response to Original message |
138. I was picked last all the time, it neither made me suicidal or some super athlete |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:53 AM Response to Original message |
143. Thank you for your concern. |
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ergot (253 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
145. It's now PC to pretend that every human is identical in every way, shape and form. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:33 PM Response to Reply #145 |
171. Strawman argument |
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tombstone blues (8 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
148. "Lowly kids?" |
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tombstone blues (8 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 10:43 AM Response to Reply #148 |
149. And yes, it should be banished. It happened in gym class actually. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
151. both my kids grew up in schools that do it all the time. nothing different here. nt |
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catrose (591 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
152. To summarize |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:37 AM Response to Reply #152 |
161. i can be empathitic, but also... i say parents. it is a great lesson for parents to give kids |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
153. So, this is 'political' in what way? |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:30 PM Response to Reply #153 |
170. Right--I hate it when alleged Democrats advocate Social Darwinism |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:43 PM Response to Reply #170 |
176. Wow - that guy should have been sacked |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:51 PM Response to Reply #176 |
181. And for more reasons than that |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
155. Deleted message |
winston65 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
159. I never had to worry about it |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:35 PM Response to Reply #159 |
204. "I never had to worry about it." "The teacher did humiliate me once...." |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
160. I had zero interest in competetive sports, and yet I was forced to participate. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 05:53 AM Response to Reply #160 |
223. +1. Baseball/softball is a ridiculous requirement for "physical education". |
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ldf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
175. i turned 60 on wednesday |
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greenbird (432 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:44 PM Response to Original message |
177. I never got picked. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
183. Imagine if this was done in academic classrooms |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
189. Why do you have a fetish for doing things the old way --this is not sacrosanct |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
190. Nobody gave a GOOD GODDAMN about my self-esteem. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:42 PM Response to Reply #190 |
205. {{MoL}} Heh---I DID dislocate my ring finger in college, catching a basketball! I was always a |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
196. King of the Hill only serves the interests of the few -- |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
206. I will say this |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 07:31 PM Response to Original message |
212. God I hope not. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 08:39 PM Response to Reply #212 |
213. Why do they commit suicide then? High self esteem? |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 08:58 PM Response to Reply #213 |
215. Obviously there's exceptions to everything. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-11-11 09:41 PM Response to Reply #212 |
217. There's a difference between being overly gentle with a child's feelings and |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 03:39 PM Response to Reply #217 |
260. I was COORDINATED but not big. |
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rpannier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 06:12 AM Response to Original message |
225. The OP is about recess |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 06:44 AM Response to Original message |
226. I hope so! |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
232. Anything was better than when they taught us Square Dancing |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 08:34 AM Response to Reply #232 |
235. My worst grade school memories involve square dancing lessons in the gym. |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 11:59 AM Response to Reply #235 |
248. I despised that with a fiery passion |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 08:44 AM Response to Reply #232 |
237. i liked the square dancing. it was sorta fun. |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 12:03 PM Response to Reply #237 |
249. At least learning to fucking Waltz might prove useful later in your fuckin life. |
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lolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 12:22 AM Response to Reply #249 |
281. Many older adults square dance regularly |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 03:43 PM Response to Reply #237 |
261. There was a failed attempt in 10th or 11th grade |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 10:01 AM Response to Reply #232 |
240. I loved it, but... |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 12:06 PM Response to Reply #240 |
251. OK |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 11:07 AM Response to Reply #232 |
244. Argh! Flashback! Square dancing in elementary school! |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 12:05 PM Response to Reply #244 |
250. I know...right? |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 11:13 AM Response to Reply #232 |
246. Grapevine! |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 12:07 PM Response to Reply #246 |
252. shudder! |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 04:15 PM Response to Reply #232 |
263. That's nothing. I had to learn to dance "The Hustle" in gym class. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-13-11 07:53 AM Response to Reply #263 |
267. I'm jealous!!!!! |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 07:55 AM Response to Original message |
233. Good |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 08:39 AM Response to Original message |
236. meh, sounds cool, but whatev. as long as team captains rotate, other system is fine at recess. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
241. Time to start learning Mandarin |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
245. Good, letting kids picking their own teems is a subtle for of bullying. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-12-11 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
253. I agree. Teams should be selected by lottery. Each |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-13-11 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
268. kick |
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bbdad (111 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-14-11 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
271. Hey, buddy, how about genuine fitness classes ... |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-14-11 10:11 PM Response to Original message |
272. It's not "political correctness out of control" to ban that shitty practice. |
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madville (743 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-14-11 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
273. Yep, and everyone gets a trophy and they don't keep score at the baseball game |
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TransitJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 12:07 AM Response to Original message |
278. And reality inches closer to Harrison Bergeron eom |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 12:25 AM Response to Original message |
282. If so, good. |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 06:50 AM Response to Original message |
293. I am 62 years old and I still remember how I felt being the last one picked for kickball. |
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Prometheus Bound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-15-11 07:46 AM Response to Original message |
295. I was good at sports so I was always a captain. |
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