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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 08:07 PM Original message |
Question: Do two wrongs make a right? |
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notesdev (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
1. Yes she was right |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 08:18 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. So two wrongs do make a right? |
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notesdev (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 09:25 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I'm saying that she may not have been wrong |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:42 PM Response to Reply #3 |
57. Nope - you're mom was right. |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 09:25 PM Response to Reply #1 |
10. Exactly. Kids can have a very low threshold of "he/she started it" |
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sorcrow (68 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
2. No |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 08:31 PM Response to Original message |
4. Your family sounds really violent |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
5. you are interpreting wrongs. i guess one would have to first ask if there really are two wrongs |
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yawnmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
6. Your mom was right. She did good. but your premise is wrong... |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 09:18 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. So if you find yourself in the wrong place, wrong time you should go all out? |
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yawnmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 11:25 AM Response to Reply #8 |
15. If you have that ache to go all out, it will happen eventually. Perhaps you are in the... |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 02:58 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. So turn the other cheek and also take the punishment? |
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Solomon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:11 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. LOL This thread ain't going no where near where you wanted it |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:15 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. Actually, it has been very informative. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:45 PM Response to Reply #28 |
38. I don't see anyone saying that. Interesting how you do. |
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yawnmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:47 PM Response to Reply #28 |
41. LOL you didn't learn that from here. That is what you had in your mind to begin with. eom |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:58 PM Response to Reply #41 |
48. Were did I see it, let me explain. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:00 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. Wrong. You were punished for being aggressive back, not for defending yourself. |
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TexasProgresive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
7. My mother-in-law had eight children 5 sons and 3 daughters |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 09:27 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. So if my accused me of taking money and started hitting me that is for me to be punished? |
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notesdev (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 12:35 AM Response to Reply #11 |
14. It's a prisoners' dilemma |
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yawnmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 11:27 AM Response to Reply #11 |
16. no you would not be justified. You can be angry. And learn to deal with anger. |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:02 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. So by not learning to deal with anger and lashing out is a flaw of character. |
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yawnmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:51 PM Response to Reply #20 |
45. Yes, I would argue that not learning to deal with anger, in a society, can be ... |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:04 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. So not learning to deal with anger and lashing out is a flaw of character |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
12. No, but two lefts do. |
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unkachuck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-10-11 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
13. you guys.... |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:06 PM Response to Reply #13 |
23. Should this type of conflict resolution also go for groups too? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:46 PM Response to Reply #23 |
40. Yes, groups of children can also use this type of resolution. eom |
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Incitatus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
17. Another Bin Laden thread? |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:12 PM Response to Reply #17 |
26. In a way, yes. Trying to see why some people think the way they do. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:49 PM Response to Reply #26 |
42. There is a difference between children and adults, between siblings and groups at war. |
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yawnmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:10 PM Response to Reply #26 |
55. The thing about seeing how other people think is that you need to try and remove from your own mind |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 07:57 PM Response to Reply #55 |
69. This was never going to be scientific study. |
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coalition_unwilling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 05:33 PM Response to Reply #26 |
62. OBL did wrong by allegedly masterminding the deaths of 3,000 people. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
18. The 1 who started it was wrong, the 1 who responded back was wrong. A bigger question for you... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:04 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. "still getting into fights with the excuse "he started it"?" this is what stuck out for me. |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:09 PM Response to Reply #18 |
24. So if someone punches you, should you ignore it? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:15 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. Yes, you should ignore it if you can. Walking away can be the best thing to do. It depends |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:17 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. To were? What if that is not an option? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:44 PM Response to Reply #30 |
37. Part of defending yourself is walking away. Sorry that your childhood is upsetting you still |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:25 PM Response to Reply #24 |
32. because as a parent we have learned, it generally takes two. he punched you.... why? |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:31 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. So if I am attacked for any reason I should not defend myself? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:01 PM Response to Reply #34 |
50. my mom asked the three of us who did something... cant remember of course. we were pretty sure |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:02 PM Response to Reply #34 |
51. If you, as a child, were attacked for a reason, should you respond violently? |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 07:52 PM Response to Reply #51 |
68. Define attacked. Nt |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 08:06 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. no. eom |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 08:12 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. Ok. Thank you for your time. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:50 PM Response to Reply #34 |
59. Yes - depending on "how" you defended yourself. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:30 PM Response to Reply #24 |
33. Or possibly our actions could be predicated on our own judgements... |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:33 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. I felt threatened, should I not defend myself? |
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yawnmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:05 PM Response to Reply #36 |
54. Its A response, not the only response or even the most logical. eom |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:34 PM Response to Reply #36 |
56. I imagine that should we think about it, we'd find many logical responses |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:50 PM Response to Reply #36 |
60. Felt is not = to logic. |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 06:07 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. I take it you have never been in a fight. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 06:44 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. I have been in riots. |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 07:49 PM Response to Reply #60 |
67. Felt = input. Fighting = output. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-11 12:47 PM Response to Reply #67 |
72. Sun Tzu said... |
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yawnmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:03 PM Response to Reply #24 |
52. Walking away from a punch is not ignoring it. If the punch is so insignificant that it can... |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:48 PM Response to Reply #24 |
58. Rule one in martial arts. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
27. Your mother will trump whatever you say |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:22 PM Response to Original message |
31. Not always. It's complicated. |
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Arctic Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:50 PM Response to Reply #31 |
43. Thank you MrS |
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Ikonoklast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
35. Simple, don't break your Mom's stuff. |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
39. Why would your Mom care what a bunch of strangers on the |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
44. No, but self defense isn't "a wrong". n/t |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
46. You mean she hit you? Where I come from, that's called child abuse and not only is it wrong... |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
47. Two "wrongs" can prevent additional "wrongs". |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 04:05 PM Response to Reply #47 |
53. I was going to post something similar. Thanks! |
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Motown_Johnny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
61. No, but two rights make a U turn |
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drpepper67 (224 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
64. I raised twins |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-11-11 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
66. I don't consider it wrong if you were defending yourself... |
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