And it was a lot to consider. I even slept on it after I shared it with a friend who's another DUer and both of us later came to the very same conclusion about what you're trying to say.
Basically, you don't think that any kind of White privilege exists in this country. And frankly, both of us think that your stance is a remarkable one indeed, given much of the treatment that President Obama gets from all of the Teabaggerati in general and the most prominent of them like, Palin and Trump, in particular. Because, his example - the centerpiece of the "rant" as you call it - is the most salient proof of White privilege's existence in this country.
And of course, that is your right to deny the existence of something that you don't believe in. The application of belief itself is a very powerful thing.
However, I find that, in order for you to foment that belief, you have to paraphrase statements out of context, dismiss points that don't coincide with your point of view, diminish the important work of celebrated individuals who have worked long and hard on the subject and script an apoplectic diatribe full of logical missteps which I lovingly call a "Wall of Words".
That's quite a dance on which I commend you, my friend.
But… I digress.
Although I doubt that I could ever change your mind, in spite of whatever independent assessments that I could provide (because you're sure to dismiss them out of hand), I'll leave you with two points that I hope you would kindly consider. One is an analogy and the other is an anecdote.
Please bear with me for a moment:
To me (and this is totally my own supposition, for which I accept all of the credit or blame), White privilege in this country is analogous to a Matrix for White people, much like The Matrix in the movie of the same name. Both White privilege and the movie borne Matrix function in quite a similar fashion and I think that a quote from the movie will further explain the point that I'm making:
Morpheus: The Matrix is everywhere. It is all around us. Even now, in this very room. You can see it when you look out your window or when you turn on your television. You can feel it when you go to work... when you go to church... when you pay your taxes. It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth.
And much like that Matrix in the movie, the Matrix of White privilege surrounds you as a White person. It's there everywhere you go, it functions under the substrata of our society where you don't have to think about it. By your own admission, you don't even want to think about it and you do everything that you can do to deny that it even exists. People of color and Whites who are keenly open minded are aware of it. But again any White person in this country is never bound to confirm the very existence of White privilege and its consequences, because the key component of it is the fact that you never have to acknowledge something that is, by definition, the default condition.
I'm sure that I'm not getting through to you, because as you've demonstrated, all you have to do is reset to the default's natural order of things.
Now, if you remember in the movie that the protagonist, Neo, was given a choice to lift the veil of his Matrix from his own eyes or keep it there, by choosing between a red pill and a blue one. If I could offer you the same choice, I would… However, I have an inkling what about choice you'd now make. Of course, Neo chose the red pill, which facilitated a profound alteration of his entire worldview and thus, he went on to subsequent adventures in two movie sequels and a video game. A lot of fun was then to be had by all.
Now, please keep all of this in mind for a moment, while I lay out the anecdote. One that concerns that friend and DUer that I mentioned earlier.
She told me that I could share with you an event that she once had.
It was caucus day where she lives and, of course, she went to her local precinct to participate. Once she got there, she joined in on a conversation about the door to the polling place, which is usually closed and locked for elections. Someone in the crowd had mentioned how annoying it was to be let in to vote. Every election day because of a locked door it makes it harder to do one's civic duty… Quite inconvenient indeed, which is all she thought of it initially, nothing more than an inconvenience.
However, in that caucus room stood with her stood an African-American couple of considerable age. To them, that locked door represented something else in their own experience and it was much more than just the minor inconvenience to my friend. To them, that locked door stood as yet another reminder of the difficulty of what people of color have to endure in order to exercise their rights as American citizens. To that couple and to my friend a single locked door represented two distinctly different circumstances.
This isn't story about racial discrimination at voting locations, because after, a locked door doesn't really have to represent that… It's just a locked door.
However, based on one's own point of view, it should give you an insight as to the very nature of White privilege. My friend, a White woman, didn't even initially see the point of view of the African-American couple whose own experiences in this country may been one of outright discrimination in their lives. And the reason for that was quite simple, it wasn't necessary. Because, as a White person, she never has to consider the points of view of people of color, unless she wanted to be aware of them. For her to see those other points of view, she had to have an open mind and, of course, a considerable amount of sensitivity, empathy and self-awareness. A self-discovery which she aptly describes as an epiphany.
It made her realize that the point of view of White people is the general default position in this country, but yet, is not necessarily a universal one.
It seems that the presentation of the existence of White privilege to White people renders to some them a sort of incalculable quandary. Responses range from denial, to anger and so on. As I'm sure that they feel that they believe that they're asked to account for something which isn't their responsibility. So, obviously, such reactions are all too natural. But then, again that doesn't have to be the case. My White friend chose a different path from your own. Which, of course, is a natural thing, as different people make different choices all the time.
From both of our readings of your convoluted replies, we both understand that this is the very quandary in which you're going though right now. And your responses tell us that you think that the admission of White privilege's existence is tantamount to laying some sort of guilt trip on you and, by definition, all other white people. Something that is not your responsibility, yet you're being asked to fix.
I am stating unequivocally, that this is NOT the case. No one, not even I, is asking you to fix this problem. Of course, as a individual White person, there's very little that you can do to mitigate the specter of White privilege in our society. Were you to change your mind and accept all of the evidence about White privilege's existence and consequences in our society, whether it be anecdotal or empirical, the only thing that you would be responsible for is your own chosen course of action, without regard to its size or efficacy. No one expects anything of you to mitigate this problem, that you're not willing to do on your own accord.
I humbly suggest that you choose between a metaphorical blue pill and a red one, per se. Consider it a kind of rite of passage in the partaking of whatever choice you make. If you remember, the red lifts The Matrix from ones eyes, while the blue reinforces the already existing state of consciousness as dictated by that Matrix. For you, the red will be your choice to reconsider another point of view, while the blue allows you to embrace your current set of beliefs, without any blame or guilt either way, of course. It's a simple choice, as I hope you would agree.
Let me leave you with this one last thought:
It takes quite a bit of willpower to engage the sufficient amount of sensitivity, empathy and self-awareness to overcome the Matrixy veil that White privilege so handily incorporates and I'm not sure that you have it in you to summon such a thing.
But then again… You could surprise me.