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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:01 PM Original message |
What's the best advice you can give to parents of teenagers. |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
1. Duck and cover |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:16 PM Response to Reply #1 |
11. This raises an interesting point. |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:33 PM Response to Reply #11 |
26. While it was sort of facetious, it does reflect my current situation |
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RagAss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
2. "It is Written" |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
3. Stay on them. |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:13 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. That's what we do, but it seems to be an almost constant fight. |
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July (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 08:18 PM Response to Reply #10 |
56. I agree w/wtmusic, stay with them. But it still may take a while. |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:05 PM Response to Original message |
4. Having raised three... |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
5. Maybe the parents haven't raised the kids that way |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:20 PM Response to Reply #5 |
16. Yes, television and instant texting.. |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:26 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. It's not the instantaneousness that is the problem |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:38 PM Response to Reply #19 |
67. Agreed, but we monitor the tv viewing pretty closely, |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:31 PM Response to Reply #5 |
23. If you are letting "the media" raise your children ... |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:38 PM Response to Reply #23 |
29. Good point |
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Count Olaf (256 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:28 PM Response to Reply #5 |
36. +1000 |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:37 PM Response to Reply #5 |
43. "My ex has a niece and nephew that were raised in a Pentacostal home without TV and movies" |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 06:12 AM Response to Reply #43 |
61. Not getting the reference |
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spanone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
6. vodka |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
7. If they are bratty and rude, then they were raised that way. |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:16 PM Response to Reply #7 |
12. Apparently I need to rewrite this. |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:35 PM Response to Reply #12 |
28. This sounds like she is trying to ... |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:28 PM Response to Reply #28 |
65. Yep workin on that. |
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virgogal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:11 PM Response to Original message |
8. Make your mantra be "This too shall pass". It does pass,and very quickly. |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:17 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. Yes, I keep trying to focus on that. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:16 PM Response to Original message |
13. Your children (often) demonize you to break away from you. |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:19 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Absolutely true, and I understand a lot of the behavior when |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
17. This too shall pass. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:27 PM Response to Reply #17 |
21. We have four teenagers in the house. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:30 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. It's a weather-vane type of thing. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:34 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. Especially the two girls... |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:38 PM Response to Reply #27 |
44. I have two older sisters and that is a accurate statement. |
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Count Olaf (256 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:31 PM Response to Reply #21 |
37. oh me too- we have the best discussions now |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:35 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Awesome! |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
18. Are they your children? |
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DrDan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
20. we are dealing with a 9-year old granddaughter now having raised 2 |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
24. In hindsight |
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Pathwalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
25. Grandchildren are your reward For not killing your children. |
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hayu_lol (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:39 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. Be... |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
31. The teenagers I know are actually pretty good kids. It pains me to say it, too :-) |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
32. Please, whatever you do, I would not duct tape them to a wall! |
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Count Olaf (256 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
33. they have to earn their video games |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:37 PM Response to Reply #33 |
66. Thanks, I never heard of the ..sweat/stuff for teens! |
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Zax2me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
34. Be a parent. |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
35. As a former very rebellious teen (lol), my main advice is it will pass, but also, to talk (ro) |
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Count Olaf (256 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:36 PM Response to Reply #35 |
42. great advice- and encourage them to pursue who they are |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:41 PM Response to Reply #35 |
68. We talk pretty often, mostly we're engaged, but when I try to suggest |
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Spazito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
38. Hmmm, I liken it to being on a roller coaster ride... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
39. They HAVE to be that way.,. It's nature's way of making you WANT them to GO AWAY |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
40. Don't ever be a hypocrite. |
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AzDar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:49 PM Response to Original message |
45. I have a fourteen-year-old son , and I'm baffled, too... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 07:26 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. Don't get me started on 14 yr. olds... |
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July (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 08:24 PM Response to Reply #45 |
58. Whoa, been there . . . |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:44 PM Response to Reply #45 |
69. Same page-but I think there are different |
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asdjrocky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
46. You gotta hit them when they're sleeping. |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:45 PM Response to Reply #46 |
70. HAHA! |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
48. It's a phase. |
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WeekendWarrior (849 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 07:29 PM Response to Original message |
49. We're very liberal parents and |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:46 PM Response to Reply #49 |
71. HAHA! |
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WeekendWarrior (849 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 07:29 PM Response to Original message |
50. Dupe |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
51. Pay your fire department fees. |
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Earth_First (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 07:38 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. lmfao! |
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Autumn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 07:48 PM Response to Original message |
53. Love them, even when your child is a poster |
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July (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 08:29 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. Love them, agreed. |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 08:01 PM Response to Original message |
54. Choose your battles, relax your expectations, give more choices, never assume it is about you,... |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:49 PM Response to Reply #54 |
72. Good advice-thanks! |
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Sabriel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 08:17 PM Response to Original message |
55. Hug them, tell them you love then, and consider yourself lucky they're still alive. |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 08:22 PM Response to Original message |
57. Their brains are still developing. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-05-10 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
60. there's a saying |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 07:41 AM Response to Original message |
62. Just keep repeating, "PUT A RUBBER ON IT!" |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:51 PM Response to Reply #62 |
73. HAHAHAHAHAHA! |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 08:03 AM Response to Original message |
63. The best advice I can give to anyone about teenagers is this: |
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laureloak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 09:23 AM Response to Original message |
64. Listen to your teenager and let them be right sometimes. |
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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
74. I'm 18. |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-06-10 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
75. THANKS TO ALL! |
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