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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:45 AM Original message |
Please stop telling me I should have biological children. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
1. But, we're down to our last 7 billion people! |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:05 AM Response to Reply #1 |
66. +1,0000 |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-25-10 03:16 AM Response to Reply #66 |
201. Amazing. |
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madmax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
2. You've thought this out and this is your decision |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
3. Sorry... |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:28 PM Response to Reply #3 |
62. What? |
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newtothegame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:00 AM Response to Reply #62 |
117. He's got a point; whomever the OP was addressing, they're not on DU. |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:12 AM Response to Reply #117 |
120. Republicans aren't on DU either but we still address them and their bs all the time. |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:23 AM Response to Reply #117 |
124. Oh, trust me, if you looked you could find a few DUers just like she describes. |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:47 PM Response to Reply #117 |
151. I checked out Sid Dithers comments. |
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mkultra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:49 AM Response to Reply #3 |
113. . |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
4. this adopted person says thank you! -- oh and try to get a gay one like me -- |
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Scuba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
5. OK |
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hlthe2b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
6. Heavens, I should think you would have come up with |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
7. I honestly don't understand |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
8. good for you! i think it's bs to expect there is something wrong with a person |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
9. As the mom of an 8 year old daughter who is adopted |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
10. My daughter is of the same opinion. She told me a very long time ago that she |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:10 AM Response to Reply #10 |
22. like my Mom! |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:19 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Good for your mom.... |
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BanzaiBonnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:19 AM Response to Reply #10 |
25. I she adopts, you WILL be a grandmother! |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:20 AM Response to Reply #25 |
27. That is exactly my take on it too. :^) |
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bahrbearian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
11. Your just being selfish. |
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HughBeaumont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
12. Rec'd. |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
13. So, who's asking you to? |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
14. No matter what the reasons, a woman's choice should be accepted WITHOUT QUESTION. |
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TlalocW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
15. Well, if you have children, the biological ones are the way to go |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:31 AM Response to Reply #15 |
33. LOL, nt |
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Pool Hall Ace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 12:02 PM Response to Reply #15 |
38. Childfree female who has heard that routine, right here. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 04:49 PM Response to Reply #38 |
47. Yeah, but you can have it reversed... |
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Pool Hall Ace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 09:15 PM Response to Reply #47 |
53. Hi REP! :D |
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Hissyspit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:50 AM Response to Reply #38 |
79. "How can you be so selfish?" I know! What the fuck does that even mean? |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:59 PM Response to Reply #15 |
155. I had a short time, looong ago, of wanting to have a kid |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
16. wish someone would tell this to my mother-in-law |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:06 AM Response to Reply #16 |
20. + Eleventybillion eom |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 04:50 PM Response to Reply #16 |
48. A devious manipulative |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 08:56 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. "now that.." |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 09:25 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. It helps that |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:53 PM Response to Reply #48 |
152. My wife uses this on people. |
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urbanasaurus (85 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:05 PM Response to Reply #152 |
156. That's a good |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:11 PM Response to Reply #152 |
159. ya, cause i am sure the women who want but cant have will thiink it cute that yawl giggle about this |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:28 PM Response to Reply #159 |
162. +1000... joking about infertility is really low nt |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:59 PM Response to Reply #159 |
172. How is this giggling |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 03:02 PM Response to Reply #172 |
173. are you telling me you and your wife dont do a little chucklin after her magnificent performance |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 06:06 PM Response to Reply #173 |
176. I'm clutching my pearls just thinking that they might laugh at rude questioners!11 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 06:22 PM Response to Reply #176 |
178. i am thinking more being insensitive to a woman that might feel hurt. but if you need those pearls |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:25 PM Response to Reply #178 |
186. You're not thinking; you're looking for a fight |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:35 PM Response to Reply #186 |
189. ah... we can use manipulation at anothers expense as long as they dont hear us do it. |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 06:10 PM Response to Reply #173 |
177. FIrst - it wasn't me |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 06:26 PM Response to Reply #177 |
180. and when the response is, i am so sorry, i too cant and it hurts the heart.... |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 06:47 PM Response to Reply #180 |
181. NOONE who can't have a child |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 07:06 PM Response to Reply #181 |
183. it seems the simple question.... do you have children... is highly insensitive |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:27 PM Response to Reply #183 |
187. The question was "WHY don't you have children" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:37 PM Response to Reply #187 |
190. i read the whole subthread and didnt see why.... all i saw was a MIL talking about kids. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:04 PM Response to Reply #187 |
191. i was saying, merely asking "do you have children" seems to be the height of rudeness |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:13 PM Response to Reply #183 |
192. "Why don't you have children?" or "When are you going to have children?" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:37 PM Response to Reply #192 |
194. or it could simply be.... you dont want children? cool. but nooooo |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:12 PM Response to Reply #194 |
197. Just because it never happened to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen to others. |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
17. Who in the world is telling you that? |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:12 AM Response to Reply #17 |
24. Have you never seen a woman be lectured about this? Or a man for that matter? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:29 AM Response to Reply #24 |
30. i really feel as if i must be in bizzaro world. i was 32 before married. not even a serious bf ever |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:45 AM Response to Reply #30 |
36. I want that life lol. As soon as I had one child, it was "when's the next one?" and |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 07:50 AM Response to Reply #30 |
98. Gosh, you must be in bizarro world. One good thing about getting older is people don't ask me |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:26 AM Response to Reply #98 |
101. conversation. are you dating? this isnt people telling you want you need to do |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:38 AM Response to Reply #101 |
103. If they're good friends, OK. If they're casual acquaintances, it's none of their business. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:59 AM Response to Reply #103 |
106. then tell them it is none of their business. asking someone in conversation |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:35 AM Response to Reply #24 |
34. No, never |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:46 AM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Sounds like you travel in the right circles lol. |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 12:24 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. I guess |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:07 AM Response to Reply #34 |
67. Pretty much every child free woman I know has been told that |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:32 AM Response to Reply #67 |
73. I know no child-free woman that has been told that |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 05:28 AM Response to Reply #73 |
89. Well, I'm 44 years old.... |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 05:41 AM Response to Reply #89 |
91. No need to apologize |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:34 AM Response to Reply #91 |
107. Don't move here! |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-25-10 11:58 AM Response to Reply #107 |
207. I'm not sure what is better |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:56 PM Response to Reply #89 |
153. How about this as a response? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:50 AM Response to Reply #67 |
78. Me, too. The young men in our family were told to get married |
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Kurt_and_Hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
18. They're a lot cuter than mechanical children |
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Art_from_Ark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:20 AM Response to Reply #18 |
72. Oh, I don't know about that |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
19. I do the opposite |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
21. Who are you having these conversations with? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:31 AM Response to Reply #21 |
32. thank you. i just posted the same. i was old before i got married. i never experienced |
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prole_for_peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:36 AM Response to Reply #21 |
108. You have been lucky |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:41 AM Response to Reply #108 |
111. I've said before that I am 44 |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:13 AM Response to Reply #108 |
121. After reading this thread, I wonder if it is luck, or the people I associate with |
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MattBaggins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
23. I was adopted when I was 10 |
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valerief (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
28. I get a kick out of all the folks who spout "God's will" at the drop of a hat until |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
29. i think it is also pretty insulting to suggest that anyone would feel one baby is less than another |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
31. I Feel Your Pain |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
35. You should have the other kind of children. |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 12:52 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. The best are the furry, four-legged kind. |
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TonyMontana (237 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
41. I've always been bothered by this |
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yurbud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
42. is this an argument you're having with your partner or just people in general? |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 12:59 PM Response to Original message |
43. My brother-in-law adopted four kids. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:33 PM Response to Reply #43 |
63. Good on your bro |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
44. thats one thing that gets better as you get older |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
45. It is nobody's business |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
46. You have made a wise decision not to have kids. |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
49. I applaud all people who DO NOT BREED. |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 09:05 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. extinctions.. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:10 AM Response to Reply #52 |
69. I would never want to subject any child to the horrors that are to come |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:52 AM Response to Reply #52 |
136. yes, little unique miracle #7 billion and 1. Some estimates I've seen even put us OVER |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:08 PM Response to Reply #136 |
139. omg I start to shake every time I hear that.. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:15 PM Response to Reply #136 |
142. No one here is telling you to have kids. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:17 PM Response to Reply #142 |
144. but i a see a few telling us not to and child abuse.... becomes comical. nt |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:18 PM Response to Reply #144 |
145. Yeah. "Who would bring a child into the world NOW"? Right, as opposed to 100 years ago. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:08 AM Response to Reply #49 |
68. Amen. Nothing will change that truth. nt |
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NYC Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:45 AM Response to Reply #49 |
75. So then, who should be allowed to "breed" and |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 03:11 AM Response to Reply #75 |
82. Know what my favorite argument someone floated in one of these threads in the past few months was? |
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Techn0Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 04:39 AM Response to Reply #82 |
86. Links ... or you just made it up. |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 05:34 AM Response to Reply #86 |
90. fer real |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:12 AM Response to Reply #90 |
127. No, it's silly telling people in the US to stop reproducing when the population 'problem' |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:02 PM Response to Reply #127 |
137. yah, this is where my feelings separate again from the rest of the humans |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:12 PM Response to Reply #137 |
140. Okay. So how is that not offensive- implying that having kids is "child abuse"- |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:24 PM Response to Reply #140 |
146. I am not arguing you |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:38 PM Response to Reply #146 |
149. It's true, there will be an awful lot to say "I told you so" about |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:34 PM Response to Reply #149 |
165. "fact based dialogue" |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:29 PM Response to Reply #146 |
163. I'm not saying you're stupid or ridiculous, but your worldview is very bleak. |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:04 PM Response to Reply #163 |
168. you're right, it is there! :D |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:18 PM Response to Reply #168 |
169. It's also helpful to remember the Zen Parable of the Farmer's Luck |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:16 PM Response to Reply #137 |
143. you are joking right? cause this is the ultimate in your hypocrisy. surely |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:27 PM Response to Reply #143 |
147. surely, I'm sorry |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:34 PM Response to Reply #147 |
148. lets see.... it makes you sick at the child abuse with parents having kids..how dare you criticize |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:44 PM Response to Reply #148 |
150. I.. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:05 PM Response to Reply #150 |
157. "squirted out"? on the one hand you act oh so innocent as the choice |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:21 AM Response to Reply #86 |
128. Believe me, people get all kinds of nuts when this topic comes up. |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 07:45 AM Response to Reply #82 |
97. Slightly??? |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:44 AM Response to Reply #75 |
134. oh Tut Tut! ...you're imputing to me words that I never said. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:14 PM Response to Reply #134 |
141. No, that's exactly what you said. |
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NYC Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:37 PM Response to Reply #134 |
166. Which words were those? |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:23 PM Response to Reply #49 |
160. Thank you. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:51 PM Response to Reply #160 |
171. Do you live in Niger, Guinea-Bissau, Afghanistan or Burundi? |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:48 PM Response to Reply #49 |
170. How does your over-simplified analysis account for the fact that population growth has STABILIZED in |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 07:29 PM Response to Original message |
50. I completely support |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 03:02 AM Response to Reply #50 |
81. Why, some people have several folks right inside their own head that need taking care of. |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
55. You're being very unselfish and that should be applauded - |
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Lisa0825 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
56. Amen, Amen, AMEN! |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 09:54 PM Response to Original message |
57. Out of curiosity, what role did the pain of your mental illness play in your decision? |
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gmoney (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
58. You should have mechanical children |
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jmondine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:54 AM Response to Reply #58 |
70. or geological children |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:08 PM Response to Original message |
59. I totally agree. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:09 PM Response to Original message |
60. Fuck anyone who would try to tell you what you "should do" re: kids. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
61. I refuse to read any replies to this post. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:18 PM Response to Original message |
64. Good for you. |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
65. That's funny. I don't remember telling you to have biological children. |
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musicblind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:15 AM Response to Original message |
71. Great post and also a great reason to support gay adoptions. |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
74. Love this post. Happy to rec |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:23 AM Response to Original message |
76. You need to (a) find an answer that turns people off and (b) hang out with other people |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:48 AM Response to Original message |
77. Okay, I'll stop, although honestly I don't ever remember telling you that. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 02:59 AM Response to Original message |
80. Amazing how quickly these threads devolve into "FUCK THE SELFISH BREEDERS" |
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Techn0Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 04:37 AM Response to Reply #80 |
85. Are you trolling? |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:09 AM Response to Reply #85 |
126. I guess you didn't read the rest of the thread. |
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Techn0Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:27 PM Response to Reply #126 |
161. You are boorish.... |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:31 PM Response to Reply #161 |
164. Translation: You don't want to deal with what I've actually said. |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 06:02 AM Response to Reply #80 |
92. hm you have the cool Nasa avatar :) |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:42 AM Response to Reply #92 |
133. Here's the "Big Picture": Developed Countries with free populations and access to contraception |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 07:59 AM Response to Reply #80 |
99. +1000. Just found out I am pregnant with my first. We are over the moon! Selfish breeder here. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:27 AM Response to Reply #99 |
102. congrats. have fun, and enjoy. nt |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:36 AM Response to Reply #99 |
132. Hey, Congratulations!!! |
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Jokerman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:49 AM Response to Reply #80 |
135. So tell me... |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:04 PM Response to Reply #135 |
138. I haven't been told in person. Probably, because I'm a fairly strapping dude. |
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Jokerman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 03:12 PM Response to Reply #138 |
174. No, they shouldn't do that. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:21 PM Response to Reply #174 |
185. Yeah, that show had its moments. |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 04:05 AM Response to Original message |
83. Rec. L&S, I have 2 brothers and a sister and none of us has any natural kids - one of my |
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RandomThoughts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 04:14 AM Response to Original message |
84. There are some people that actually think their immortality |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 04:52 AM Response to Original message |
87. I'm shocked that so many people |
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eilen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 05:20 AM Response to Original message |
88. It is your life, and your choices |
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yellerpup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 07:15 AM Response to Original message |
93. Tell them instead of criticizing, |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 07:19 AM Response to Original message |
94. I've never told you, or anyone else, that they ought to have children from any source. nt |
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NikolaC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 07:43 AM Response to Original message |
95. Thank You, Wonderfully Stated OP |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 07:45 AM Response to Original message |
96. I think you are very wise not to want biological children, from what you've said. |
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:22 AM Response to Original message |
100. And then you get people like me... |
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AmandaMae (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:39 AM Response to Original message |
104. I'm 19 and want to remain childfree, |
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prole_for_peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:49 AM Response to Reply #104 |
114. I am right there with you. |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:43 PM Response to Reply #104 |
167. It does get easier when you get older. |
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Dash87 (404 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
105. I'm with you. I support your right to make your own choices in life! |
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COLGATE4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:37 AM Response to Original message |
109. It's your body. It's your business. Period. |
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DirkGently (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
110. There's no blueprint for what "family" should look like. Build your tribe as you see fit. |
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Jeff In Milwaukee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:45 AM Response to Original message |
112. If your children aren't biological, what will they be? Silicon? |
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mkultra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
115. Dont delude yourself to much |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
116. Who here was saying that? |
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mstinamotorcity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:10 AM Response to Original message |
118. It is always |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
119. Bless you! |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
122. My wife and I decided on cats as cheaper, quieter, and easier to herd. |
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niceypoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:42 AM Response to Reply #122 |
125. Two problems I have with Cats |
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Unca Jim (405 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
123. I doubt.. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
129. I'm astounded that there are all these parents who have time to give a shit. |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
130. Sorry, no can do |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
131. You really should have biological children. A quiverful would do. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
154. Deleted message |
Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
158. I wish I wasn't too late to Rec this. |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
175. K&R |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
179. Be true to yourself. n/t |
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AsahinaKimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
182. I am with you!! |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
184. I've already caused a few people to not want to have kids... |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
188. i wouldn't think of telling anyone |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
193. I hear you. Goddess, do I hear you. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:41 PM Response to Reply #193 |
195. that is a tough one. that would be a tough one for me |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:28 PM Response to Reply #195 |
198. It is tough. And I know there are a lot of people like her |
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rebecca_herman (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-25-10 04:55 AM Response to Reply #198 |
202. This is what I don't get |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-25-10 07:00 AM Response to Reply #202 |
203. interesting perspective, and you are right, too. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-25-10 08:36 AM Response to Reply #202 |
206. Well, that's a good point. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 11:39 PM Response to Reply #195 |
199. Also, my resentment on the money issue |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-25-10 02:59 AM Response to Reply #199 |
200. Wow. Your friends are trying to have a baby, and you're calling it a "frankenfetus"? |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-25-10 08:33 AM Response to Reply #200 |
205. Oh, I realize it's their choice. I was simply venting. |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-25-10 07:40 AM Response to Reply #199 |
204. You do not seem to know much about IVF at all. Ignorance. nt |
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Marengo (296 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-24-10 10:57 PM Response to Original message |
196. My Chinese wife receives maddening pressure from her family |
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