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truth2power (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 08:47 PM Original message |
Need assistance, plz...What to say to a person with a life-threatening illness.. |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
1. I'm thinking about you. You're in my thoughts. |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
2. I care about you... |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
3. Say you're very sorry about what has happened, and that you'll keep them in your thoughts |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:16 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. Liking what you say. |
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Booster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
4. Take them gambling. That's what I did when my best friend came |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
5. If you can |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 08:54 PM Response to Original message |
6. Tell them that you really care and |
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jillan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
7. Visit them as often as you can. See what you can do for them. |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
8. good advice from others |
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truth2power (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-22-10 05:02 PM Response to Reply #8 |
23. Thank you. This sums up a lot of what's being said here. I need to |
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howaboutme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:03 PM Response to Original message |
9. Doing something that helps is important |
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lynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
10. It's not what you say. It's what you do - |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
11. "Can I help you?" n/t |
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truth2power (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
13. I'd like to express my gratitude for all your kind responses to this thread... |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
14. start out with-how are ya doing? |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:34 PM Response to Original message |
15. "Tell me if there is something you need, something I can do" |
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CountAllVotes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
16. go visit or call the person |
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TransitJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:41 PM Response to Original message |
17. "Wanna go smoke a jay?" n/t |
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truth2power (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-22-10 05:03 PM Response to Reply #17 |
24. That's good. I like that!.. |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:48 PM Response to Original message |
18. Whatever you say, mean it. If you are close, stay close. If you weren't it doesn't matter |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
19. When my Dad was dying...everyone left but me... |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-21-10 10:12 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. we did the same things with our dads.It was right. |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-22-10 05:48 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. way too many people die alone |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-22-10 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
21. What's wrong with "I think about you a lot" or some equivalent? |
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truth2power (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-23-10 09:45 PM Response to Reply #21 |
29. "I think about you a lot." I've said that. I thought maybe it sounded trite.. |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-24-10 02:07 AM Response to Reply #29 |
30. Say it with different words next time. Say it by staying in touch. |
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truth2power (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-24-10 12:37 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. TY. n/t |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-22-10 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
22. Rather than Saying...... LISTEN. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-22-10 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
26. You care for them, and wish them the best. nt |
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slipslidingaway (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-22-10 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
27. truth2power, I will echo what others have said about helping them ... |
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truth2power (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-23-10 09:42 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Thank you and others for all the great suggestions here. I'm bookmarking this thread |
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northernlights (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-24-10 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
32. my sister is fighting recurrent triple-negative breast cancer |
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