Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Violence against women is justified, says pupil study

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) Donate to DU
 
ccharles000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:33 PM
Original message
Violence against women is justified, says pupil study
A study of schoolchildren has found that most of those questioned thought violence towards women was acceptable if there was a reason behind it.

The majority of the pupils said it was justified if the woman had an affair, or if she was late in making the tea.

The study by a researcher from Edinburgh Napier University also suggested that girls expect to curtail ambitions once they are married.

The research involved 89 primary seven children at five Glasgow primaries.

The 11 and 12-year-olds were questioned in depth about their attitudes and aspirations towards gender roles and behaviour.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/scotland/8516387.stm
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:34 PM
Response to Original message
1. WTF?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
joeybee12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:36 PM
Response to Original message
2. Well, of course...I think we all agree if tea is late, a punch or two is more
than justified.

Pretty scary study.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
athenasatanjesus Donating Member (592 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 05:28 PM
Response to Reply #2
21. delete
Edited on Wed Feb-17-10 05:30 PM by athenasatanjesus
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
saracat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:38 PM
Response to Original message
3. Wow. And it seems to be the same here. Fundies everywhere.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:38 PM
Response to Original message
4. Wow. Glad we live in a post-sexist society! nt
Edited on Wed Feb-17-10 04:38 PM by Captain Hilts
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Scout Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:39 PM
Response to Original message
5. disgustingly sad
what the hell is wrong with people, to teach their kids this bullshit?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:39 PM
Response to Original message
6. sigh.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:43 PM
Response to Original message
7. ask them the same question about violence against men, i bet you'd get the
same result. it's ok if there's a good reason.

same rationale the gov't uses for its violence.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:46 PM
Response to Reply #7
9. perception of "serving" having tea ready late is a good reason? nt
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:48 PM
Response to Reply #9
12. i didn't say that, did i?
Edited on Wed Feb-17-10 04:50 PM by Hannah Bell
plus, the kids didn't say exactly what's claimed, apparently:

She said: "The children didn't agree with violence, but gave reasons to try to justify it if the woman had done something 'wrong'.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Glassunion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:45 PM
Response to Original message
8. More goodness from the nanny state...
K&R. Good post, shitty news.

For levity I would normally tell a joke here, but the article took care of that for me.

Shameful.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
HiFructosePronSyrup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:47 PM
Response to Original message
10. "late making tea" = kids being smartasses.
C'mon, people. Don't go all Margaret Meade.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
enlightenment Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 05:24 PM
Response to Reply #10
20. Unfortunately, that sort of attitude is
pretty prevalent. It's not just smart-assed kids - it's kids' who are drawing on what they have seen and heard in their environments as justifications for violence.

(and it's Mead, by the way . . .)

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
tabatha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:47 PM
Response to Original message
11. This country is better than most.
When my parents from SA were over here some years ago, my father was surprised at all the things that women did.
And in SA itself, in the two jobs that I worked, there was the expectation that I would not last long but go off and get married. Stereotypes are very hard to undo. The English still have remnants of colonial type attitudes.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Echo In Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:55 PM
Response to Reply #11
16. True - although I suspect much of it is based on women adopting men's loathsome traits/value$
... so that it's been perceived as beneficial for the corporate structure since women are of course encouraged to assimilate to that structurally/culturally. Which is to say, perhaps women's rights wouldn't count for as much in the US if the majority were perceived as being against the consumer/corporate culture?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Kyril Enko Donating Member (204 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:50 PM
Response to Original message
13. Goddamn Muslim Scots!
Jews and Christians would never support such a view!

:sarcasm:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ceile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:50 PM
Response to Original message
14. That is very disturbing....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
RedCappedBandit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:54 PM
Response to Original message
15. IMO the gender of the target is irrelevent
Violence is hardly ever justified. If it is justified, it doesn't matter whether the subject is male or female.

A lot of people don't share that view of violence, though.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
dustbunnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:58 PM
Response to Original message
17. Some of those findings are exasperating, but not surprising.

Girls know that it's their mothers who take time off work, or go for part time jobs, so they repeat what they know and see. But many mothers WANT to stay home with their children. Fathers do too, but not in the same numbers. So how can anyone blame kids for their observations.

The football thing sucks, as do the stereotypes surrounding many sports, and the sooner we get rid of them the better. This one is troubling.

The readiness to accept violence doesn't really faze me. 11 year olds are far from mature or capable of adult thought, and they're still very much entrenched in that childhood concept of 'fairness." Brother took my toy, brother gets hit. That's fair to a child. Also, at that age, they don't fully understand the strength differences between the sexes... girls and boys still fight each other, (or only recently stopped) and girls are often bigger than the boys. That changes by 13.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
nosmokes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 04:59 PM
Response to Original message
18. sad & maddening.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Spike89 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 05:00 PM
Response to Original message
19. Society changes very slowly
It's a start to tell young boys and girls that violence is wrong, but if good ol' Dad cuffs Mom for some "mistake" or Mom hurls a gravy boat at Dad on the slightest provocation, well those kids aren't going to automatically think of violence as archaic. Sadly, this is pretty much true about any and all social changes. Mom's and Dad's attitudes and behaviors are almost always bigger influences on kids than school or even society. It takes generations for enlightened behavior to move from the brain to the core, i.e., lots of people "know" what is right, but don't truly "feel" it.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
athenasatanjesus Donating Member (592 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 05:30 PM
Response to Original message
22. If Gangsta rap is accepted in the mainstream nowadays
This shouldn't surprise anybody.
I mean snoop dog was on the Daily show and Colbert report.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 05:56 PM
Response to Reply #22
25. Because women were living like queens before gangsta rap.
:rofl:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
lapfog_1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 05:45 PM
Response to Original message
23. The study should have also asked the question
"Are you spanked or otherwise hit when you don't do what you are told by your parents?"

Just a guess, but I suspect a correlation.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 05:47 PM
Response to Original message
24. sad, isn't it?
what century are we IN, anyway?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Hoopla Phil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-17-10 06:07 PM
Response to Original message
26. For the love of Dog, you cannot give those kinds of surveys to kids.
I remember taking those tests in middle school and we had a LOT of fun answering them. I remember two questions in particular.

Q. Do you smoke?
A. Only after sex

Q. Do you have sex?
A. At least once a day before and after school.


When you give kids surveys that are anonymous they imagination goes wild. I remember talking about these surveys for the hole week. I also remember watching my teacher snickering when she was reading them.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
muriel_volestrangler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-18-10 01:17 PM
Response to Reply #26
27. They weren't anonymous surveys, they were discussions
The study, by an Edinburgh Napier University researcher, involved 89 pupils at five primary schools in Glasgow.

Three scenarios were put to the pupils, who were split into groups of four or five for the research.
...
Researcher Nancy Lombard said: "Initially, when we started discussing it, the youngsters said all violence was wrong.

"However, on further discussion, they found justification for the violence if the woman had done something 'wrong'."

http://news.scotsman.com/education/Children-39say-it39s-OK-for.6074152.jp
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Sat May 04th 2024, 02:55 AM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC