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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 06:21 PM Original message |
Religion invoked in custody battle between divorced parents in Chicago |
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polichick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
1. Good grief - maybe someone needs to rescue the child from both religious nuts. nt |
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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 06:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Speaking of nuts... |
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polichick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 06:32 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. The American Taliban strikes again. nt |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 06:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. My guess is that religion is simply being used as weapon .... |
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polichick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:03 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. Good for you and your ex, putting the kids first! |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
26. Why? The father is not the one getting a restraining order? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
3. Wait...what? How did religion make it into a restraining order? |
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frazzled (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:11 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. If you read the story it makes some sense |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:24 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. I side with the First Amendment and subsequent case law affirming it at the state level. |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:35 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. It isn't a First Amendment issue. He's "being a dick." (That's the legal term.) |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:43 PM Response to Reply #9 |
30. Wow, I've never heard of anybody other than my dad pulling the sneak baptism thing. |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:57 PM Response to Reply #30 |
36. Well, it's a TRO, not a final order. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:58 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. It's water. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:21 PM Response to Reply #37 |
45. I got baptized, First Communion, and confirmed. |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:37 PM Response to Reply #37 |
57. And that is your belief. You are entitled to it. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:48 PM Response to Reply #3 |
20. Parents have the right to determine their child's religious education |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:07 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. I didn't realize that parental orders covered religion. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:24 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. They do |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:38 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. You nailed it... |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:43 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. Yup, that's in Texas' custody orders too |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:50 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. You're lucky your clients listen to the 'you'll look like a shithead' argument. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:09 PM Original message |
yeah, well, not all of them have |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:17 PM Response to Reply #29 |
42. Religion isn't clothing. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:25 PM Response to Reply #42 |
48. Please stop now |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:37 PM Response to Reply #48 |
56. No, the parents are idiots and so are judges who insert themselves in religious conflicts. |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:40 PM Response to Reply #48 |
58. She's not going to stop--she's simply going to ignore the law |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:44 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. or even want to understand it nt |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 10:02 PM Response to Reply #58 |
62. The law? Or the law as selectively applied to protected persuasions? |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 10:03 PM Response to Reply #48 |
63. No, actually |
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Winterblues (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 11:02 AM Response to Reply #20 |
69. Most parents want to expand their childs mind not limit it. |
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frazzled (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
4. Parents involved in custody battles will invoke all kinds of crazy things |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 06:28 PM Response to Original message |
5. Who in hell would grant such a TRO in the first place? |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:23 PM Response to Reply #5 |
13. A judge who didn't want the kid used as a pawn. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:32 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. I am not comfortable with any use of the force of law to protect a religious belief. |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:39 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. It's not to protect a religious belief--it's to stop him from using the kid to get at the mother. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:42 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. I don't care "why", I care "what". |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:45 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. As a non-believer, it doesn't make me uneasy, at all. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:55 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Why would participating in another religion threaten that? |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:26 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. Why would non-consenting conversion to another religion harm a child? |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:45 PM Response to Reply #27 |
32. Why should a Jewish mother go nuts when a Catholic baptizes her child? |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:52 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. Yep. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:20 PM Response to Reply #35 |
44. Maybe a little relenting from her rigidity would be in order. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:25 PM Original message |
Yeah, you go tell that to the ladies at the Temple |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
51. I think it would depend on the temple. Or the parish, for that matter. eom |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:33 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. Guess again nt |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:02 PM Response to Reply #27 |
38. Did the 3 year old consent to the first religion? |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:07 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. You *DO* realize that parents have the right to decide what religion |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:11 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. So isn't the father her parent too? Has he been declared unfit? |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:30 PM Response to Reply #41 |
52. You are persistent |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:57 PM Response to Reply #52 |
61. I'd go along with that |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:05 AM Response to Reply #61 |
64. You don't get it because you are biased against religion |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:40 AM Response to Reply #64 |
66. And that has what to do with the law? eom |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 06:43 PM Response to Reply #66 |
73. It prevents you from understanding it nt |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 07:11 PM Response to Reply #73 |
74. Yeah, I guess I don't understand why mainstream religions are given such protection in the court |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 08:45 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. They aren't, as has been explained to you over & over nt |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:49 PM Response to Reply #38 |
60. Holy crap. You really don't want to get it, do you? |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:21 PM Response to Reply #17 |
24. He was Catholic before he converted to Judaism |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:31 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Well, if he can't figure out what the frak he is.... |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:23 PM Response to Reply #28 |
47. What business is it of anyone but him? |
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Randall Flagg (411 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
10. If the parents were non-mainstream religions there would never have been a ruling |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:09 PM Response to Reply #10 |
23. Same thing if the mother were an atheist. eom |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 08:46 PM Response to Reply #23 |
33. Wrong. both of you. nt |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:09 PM Response to Reply #33 |
40. Oh rly? |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:22 PM Response to Reply #40 |
46. The determination of which parent decides religious instruction is boiler plate in my state |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:25 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. No, it looks like judges are predisposed to prefer religious homes from most of those opinions. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:31 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. No, most of them are upholding the status quo of the child's life nt |
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Randall Flagg (411 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:26 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. I'll agree with Kitty. |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:36 PM Response to Reply #46 |
55. when I was attempting to get custody of my daughter |
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piratefish08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 11:09 AM Response to Reply #10 |
70. Correct. And if one worshipped Thor and the other was worshipping Zeus, child services |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:17 PM Response to Original message |
11. If this one makes it to the SCOTUS it should prove most interesting.. |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
12. Put the kid in the middle of a religious battle |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-16-10 09:19 PM Response to Reply #12 |
43. LOL... Every cloud has a silver lining, eh? n/t |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 12:08 AM Response to Reply #12 |
65. One can hope. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 02:52 AM Response to Original message |
67. The mother had the court ordered right to determine the child's religious training. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 10:36 AM Response to Reply #67 |
68. I have linked to numerous examples above of courts discriminating against non-religious parents. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 06:21 PM Response to Reply #68 |
71. This case isn't about "courts discriminating against non-religious parents." |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 07:13 PM Response to Reply #71 |
75. Separation of Church and State is my point. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 09:54 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. This has nothing to do with the Separation of Church and State. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 10:12 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. I understand what you're saying with regards to parental arrangements. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 10:45 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. I do prefer that parents share rights and that's possible with many. |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-17-10 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
72. I am sure the children will look back fondly when reminiscing about this period of their life |
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