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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:47 PM Original message |
serious questiong: any help for depression over long unemployment? |
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Ruby the Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. I am right there with you. |
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roguevalley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:08 PM Response to Reply #1 |
23. exercise helps depression. try walking. I walk for two hours a day to |
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Ruby the Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:20 PM Response to Reply #23 |
36. That is a good point. |
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intheflow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:32 PM Response to Reply #23 |
38. I second this. |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
2. I think you should talk to your wife about this ASAP |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:55 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. I just can't. she is barely holdling up herself. Its a stupid guy thing |
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Donnachaidh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:59 PM Response to Reply #3 |
13. Call your county mental health and get an appointment for MEDS |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:11 PM Response to Reply #3 |
27. Any other close family members you can confide in? |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:12 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. not really... but I think I'll talk to her anyways. |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:14 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. Thanks and I am sure things are going to work out for you both |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:12 PM Response to Reply #3 |
29. Your worth to her has nothing to do with a paycheck. Talk to her. |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 12:12 AM Response to Reply #29 |
53. +100. if you support each other v. the world, even bad times can be endured. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:48 PM Response to Reply #3 |
43. Understood (believe you me), but it can be the case that shared burdens... |
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rebel with a cause (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 05:18 PM Response to Reply #3 |
45. My father lost his job at fifty and went through this. |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 05:24 PM Response to Reply #3 |
46. One of the most difficult things |
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laughingliberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 12:20 AM Response to Reply #3 |
54. Not just a guy thing |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 02:21 AM Response to Reply #3 |
61. If you're both trying to hide it from each other (and you both feel it) |
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gateley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
4. K&R to keep this visible. |
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thunder rising (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
5. Did you see my post "Unemployed, Uninsured, and Foreclosed"? |
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Paper Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
6. I'll fess up, I'm in the same boat. I wonder if I will ever find a job. |
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tonysam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:02 PM Response to Reply #6 |
16. Yep. I am in the same boat |
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tonysam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:04 PM Response to Reply #6 |
19. I was thinking you can work part time |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
7. I bet your wife already knows, friend. |
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conscious evolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:07 PM Response to Reply #7 |
22. good advice |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
8. I'm with NNN0LHI and Bonobo on this one... |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:57 PM Original message |
zoloft. and talk about it with your wife, it will help. |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
9. dupe. |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
10. my sister finally dragged me to her Dr. |
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cheapo90 (20 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
11. a |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:01 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. harrrr-umph! |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:09 PM Response to Reply #11 |
24. welcome to du |
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CrownPrinceBandar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
12. kick for visibility. |
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Ignis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:12 PM Response to Reply #12 |
31. Make it two. |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
14. Sorry to hear of this, Lerkfish. I would imagine this kind of depression will grow... |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:09 PM Response to Reply #14 |
25. Ironic to be putting this here, but I think both members of any |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #25 |
35. Thanks... |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 02:31 PM Response to Reply #35 |
66. Good luck then, I didn't want to intrude into your business but I |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:03 PM Response to Original message |
17. don't know any groups or anything |
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librechik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
18. volunteer--anywhere, but especially where you are needed |
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Brigid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
20. Perhaps this may help: |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:06 PM Response to Original message |
21. Come on in |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
26. if you don't mind me asking |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:15 PM Response to Reply #26 |
34. graphic design, some web design, flash animation, etc. |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:23 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. make something. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #34 |
40. my wife graduated in 2008 |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:45 PM Response to Reply #34 |
42. Why don't you try running an ad in the paper for web design or something? |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
28. thansk for the responses, everyone, I'll try to follow up on some of them tomorrow |
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gateley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:39 PM Response to Reply #28 |
41. Ix-nay on the embarrassment! This is a whole new world, Lerky -- |
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comrade snarky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 01:11 AM Response to Reply #28 |
57. Don't be embarrassed |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
32. Check with any county agencies to see if there is anything locally. |
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The Backlash Cometh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
39. Maybe we need a special chatroom here on DU so DUers don't |
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TxRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 04:52 PM Response to Reply #39 |
44. How about a jobs forum |
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The Backlash Cometh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 06:32 PM Response to Reply #44 |
50. kick |
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Thickasabrick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 05:31 PM Response to Reply #39 |
48. Fantastic Idea. Who better to turn for support than other DUers that |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
47. magnesium citrate |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
49. I started taking some classes at the local JC |
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Omnibus (676 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-08-09 11:06 PM Response to Original message |
51. I know exactly how you feel. |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
52. Not trying to be flip, but in my case, a job was the only solution. |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 12:25 AM Response to Original message |
55. Just keep on keeping on - you have every right to feel depressed but don't give in to it. |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 12:46 AM Response to Original message |
56. Psychiatrist and some medication. |
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Berserker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 01:13 AM Response to Original message |
58. Lerkfish I am 56 |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 02:00 AM Response to Original message |
59. A really great book to read is |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 02:04 AM Response to Original message |
60. Crap. Double post. n/t |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 08:59 AM Response to Original message |
62. btw, everyone, I slept on it, and took in everyone's advice... I feel a bit better |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
63. i can relate some personal experiences |
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Minimus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 09:13 AM Response to Original message |
64. I know how you feel. I am going on one year unemployed and my |
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Hidden Stillness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
65. God Bless You, and I Will Pray for You |
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Justitia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-09-09 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
67. My 50+ hubby going thru same. Small thing, but do try to get out a bit during the day. |
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