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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:28 AM Original message |
If someone is abused as a kid, then grows up and abuses kids themselves, do we blame them? |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
1. In other words, of what value is the concept of original sin? |
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JonQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
2. We blame them |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
3. People sometimes have brains and don't use them. If people abuse, they should be blamed. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
4. Once you starting hurting someone else, you're no longer the victim. |
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lisa58 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
5. the mature thing to do is to stop of pattern of abuse.... |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
6. "Blame" is a useless concept. One has to be practical and aim to protect society, that's all. -nt |
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timeforpeace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
7. It has to stop somewhere, with that person deciding it goes no further. |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:45 AM Response to Original message |
8. It stops with one taking personal responsibility. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:13 AM Response to Reply #8 |
22. So, let's look at a female 4 year old that was abused by a male |
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LAGC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:25 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. What kind of abuse are you talking about then? |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #26 |
28. How about kissing the child? |
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LAGC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:56 AM Response to Reply #28 |
33. I don't think that is a crime. |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:26 AM Response to Reply #22 |
27. So, I also said IMO. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:29 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. I didn't mean any disrespect. |
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Annces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
9. If there were a test for becoming a parent, I wonder how many would pass n/t |
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sunfluer (14 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:08 AM Response to Reply #9 |
18. Interesting point... |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
10. Most of the time yes we do blame them... |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
11. Which one will get them to stop? |
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Winterblues (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
12. Awww they're just "good ol' boys" |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
13. That's why I just don't feel comfortable supporting or condemning Jackson. nt |
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sunfluer (14 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:10 AM Response to Reply #13 |
20. He's more to be pitied then censored. n/t |
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Jackpine Radical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
14. Virtually all child abusers were once victims. However, most victims |
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LAGC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:33 AM Response to Reply #14 |
30. I've heard the "vampire" analogy before... |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
15. 'We' blame them: take a look at the number of felons who were abused as children. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
16. We blame them but the prior abuse can be a mitigating factor. n/t |
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Rebubula (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
17. Each person is responsible... |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
19. Better: |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
21. Obviously, we blame them. At the same time, we could go a long way toward preventing future abuse |
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stray cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
23. of course |
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FirstLight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
24. God, I hate this ... are you kidding me? |
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slampoet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
25. Yes. |
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firehorse (547 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
31. Every adult makes choices. |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
32. My sister and I were both abused. |
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Jackpine Radical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:03 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. I think your response is common. |
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