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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:05 PM Original message |
If you had cancer and chemo was only guarenteed to extend your life for 6 months would you? |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
1. I think it would depend on what kind of cancer and what horrors I'd |
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sharp_stick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
2. It depends |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
3. I declined to have Chemo along with my radiation in April. The combination was supposed to |
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pacalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:30 PM Response to Reply #3 |
36. My 78-yr.-old mother, a breast cancer survivor, refused to continue chemo after one treatment. |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 12:18 AM Response to Reply #3 |
81. . |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
4. My grandmother eventually refused treatment. I respected her for it. n/t |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
5. each individual should be able to be respected to choose for themselves |
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Individualist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:10 PM Response to Reply #5 |
60. Absolutely! |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
6. I see his point. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
7. The hard truth is that the family should respect his wishes. |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
8. speaking only for myself, it would depend on whether... |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:10 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. Ditto. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
9. personal decision. i totally respect his right and would hope family comes to a place |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
10. that is what I told his mom |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:22 PM Response to Reply #10 |
30. Please know that your support is invaluable to this person |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:58 PM Response to Reply #10 |
52. Well, she could be right - |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 12:46 AM Response to Reply #10 |
82. Perhaps seeing a therapist would help his sister come to terms with his decision... |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
11. Quality over quantity any day of the week and twice and Sunday |
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safeinOhio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:36 PM Response to Reply #11 |
63. My feelings too |
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roody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
12. It is his life. |
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Robyn66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
13. I finished chemo in march |
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The_Commonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
15. No way... |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:12 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. I think I would rather spend what time I had left saying my goodbyes and enjoying life |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #18 |
47. Agree. Makes perfect sense to me. n/t |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:11 PM Response to Original message |
16. Quality of life for those 6 months would be my determining factor as well |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:11 PM Response to Original message |
17. Depends... |
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beam me up scottie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:01 PM Response to Reply #17 |
54. That's a very good point. |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #54 |
72. Heya bmus!!!... |
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beam me up scottie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:02 PM Response to Reply #17 |
55. edit, dupe |
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Mz Pip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
19. If I just felt |
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DailyGrind51 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
20. I HAD cancer and know that successful treament protocols are discovered all the time. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
21. If I had never had chemo before I'd probably have it. |
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tularetom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:14 PM Original message |
My mom refused all treatment for lung cancer |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
23. I know |
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seemunkee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
22. My mom took every treatment they threw at her |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:32 PM Response to Reply #22 |
37. My mom did also, gave her 10 yrs vs the 6 months. Me? It all depends |
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seemunkee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:10 PM Response to Reply #37 |
61. That was on her fifth recurrence, 15 years for fighting it |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
24. It all depends. So many variables. One one hand, quality of life is key. On other hand, how strong |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
25. It would entirely depend on two things - |
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opihimoimoi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:17 PM Original message |
Depends on his purpose in life....suppose he is working on some kind of research |
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Donnachaidh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
26. Not a chance |
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Crunchy Frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
27. His body, his choice. |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
28. 23 years ago, I had ovarian cancer with a less than 20% survival chance.. |
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ChickMagic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:47 PM Response to Reply #28 |
46. Are you me , Peacetrain? |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 03:59 PM Response to Reply #46 |
70. ChickMagic.. I had to stop and think.. I did not make 10 but had 9 |
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ChickMagic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 04:15 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. Congratulations to you too! |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 04:19 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. The reason I had three indwelling is because they kept floating loose |
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ChickMagic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 04:30 PM Response to Reply #73 |
74. So you had indwelling caths |
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northernlights (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
29. his family is furious with him? |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
31. Wife's uncle stopped chemo about 3 months ago. With chemo he |
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patriotvoice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
32. Refuse. |
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Gman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
33. The family is starting to grieve now. It's a selfish response and |
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backtoblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
34. No. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
35. I would, on the off chance that the 6-8 months projection was wrong. It's happened before. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
38. My best wishes to his family and friends. It is difficult to accept someone's life/death decisions |
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leftynyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
39. I agree with your friend |
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BlueGirlRedState (416 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
40. I've asked myself this question |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:42 PM Response to Original message |
41. My father refused treatment |
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damntexdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
42. Support your friend in his decisions about his own life and its quality. |
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scheming daemons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
43. As an atheist, I say ABSO-FUCKING-LUTELY yes... |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:12 PM Response to Reply #43 |
62. Strange, I feel the opposite. |
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scheming daemons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 03:03 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. In 6 to 8 months, medical science could find a cure......it would suck to die one day before a cure |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 03:12 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. No, it wouldn't suck |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 03:15 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. I appreciate the consistency of your thought! It's refreshing. |
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scheming daemons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 03:18 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. There always is a "possibility"... it would be "belief" if I thought it was a certainty |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
44. Depends on several factors. In any event it is up to the patient to decide. |
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DainBramaged (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
45. My Mom was diagnosed with breast cancer four yeas ago |
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K Gardner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:51 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. Kudos to a strong, courageous woman, and sympathy in your loss. |
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quiller4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
49. At 58 if I was promised another 6 months with my spouse, I'd take it |
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Uben (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
50. My wife denied chemo and radiation.... |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
51. I think that's far too personal a decision for any choice to be "right" |
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Irishonly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
53. It depends |
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winyanstaz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
56. Doctors are not always right. My husband was sent home with a terminal illness |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
57. Each person is different |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
58. My Mom refused chemo. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
59. No...but...chemo can also very well tear you apart |
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hlthe2b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
64. Sometimes chemo can also be paliative.... |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
69. Chemo is generally a pretty brutal treatment |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
75. It should be his decision |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
76. extend life for 6 months minimum, or 6 months maximum? |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
77. I'd take the chemo, but I'd understand not wanting to do it as well |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
78. My mother had chemo for a cancer that was incurable to extend her life. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
79. Yes I would, because miracles tend to run in my family. |
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
80. thank you for all the replies |
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Art_from_Ark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 12:54 AM Response to Original message |
83. I would take it as a challenge |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
84. I don't know; but it doesn't matter... |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:19 AM Response to Original message |
85. My dad has Stage IV liver cancer, and he's doing chemo to extend his life for a few months. |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:58 AM Response to Original message |
86. No, especially not after seeing my mother |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:05 AM Response to Original message |
87. Nope. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:57 AM Response to Original message |
88. It's a hard situation. |
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