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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 01:45 PM Original message |
My partner of 6 years refused to go to the hospital when we thought she had appendicitis. |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. I feel for you |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 01:58 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Maybe MASSIVE FINES for discriminatory hospitals would be a good immediate step. |
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deaniac21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:44 PM Response to Reply #1 |
10. I don't think medfilght's allow anyone other than the patient. |
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dflprincess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 08:09 PM Response to Reply #10 |
18. That was true when my cousin was flown into Minneapolis from rural Minnesota |
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AdHocSolver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 02:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
36. Helicopters and airplanes have weight and balance requiremeents to be safely flown. n/t |
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Chulanowa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
3. Hospital stays count?! |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
4. "Who EXACTLY is included in the American system anymore?" |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
5. If it's any consolation,I wouldn't keep you from seeing her |
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bkkyosemite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
6. Is there something contractual that you can do to make sure you are allowed to stay with her in a |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:41 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. No. Nothing can be done. It's hospital policy or it isn't. /nt |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
7. I'm sorry to hear that, although it might not be so bad in your part |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:42 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Might be. Might not be. It's the "who knows" that keeps us all terrified tho, right? /nt |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
11. How does going to the doctor for a DIAGNOSIS= her not being able to see you? |
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unblock (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
12. as for the emts not letting you ride -- |
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cbc5g (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
13. Could be Crohn's Disease - I had similar symptoms and thought it was appendicitis |
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Libertyfirst (583 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
14. First step, have you each made the others' legal health power of attorney. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
15. It might have been appendicitis. Mine was. |
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OHDEM (802 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
16. What you want are LEGAL rights and there is NO basis to deny you... |
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BuyingThyme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
17. While you may not technically have a right to visit your partner, |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
19. when it comes down to something so serious and the thing keeping |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
20. So sorry for you. |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
21. . |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 10:28 PM Response to Original message |
22. I know that this happens in many corners of this country |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 10:43 PM Response to Original message |
23. I am sorry but somebody not going to see a doctor |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
24. Now that the crisis has passed, I presume you made an appt with her doctor? |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
25. Do you know for certain that you would not be allowed in to see your |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
26. What hospital doesn't allow visitors? |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 10:58 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. A nurse at Stanford tried to deny my partner a visit to me |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 11:01 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Do you have any idea if it was hospital policy, or just a stick-up-her-ass |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 11:07 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. Partner is MexAm |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 11:15 AM Response to Reply #30 |
34. Restricting ICU's is a good idea. Powers of attorney really help in cases like this. |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 03:33 PM Response to Reply #34 |
40. certainly, but why only challenge Gays for POA? |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 06:16 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. They only can challenge gays for POA because of the state of flux of gay marriage. |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 10:00 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. It will be prudent for the Hospital to be very very careful |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 10:44 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. I would give them advice not to screw with any significant other regardless. |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 11:04 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. I've never seen a hospital deny visitors in places other than the ER, ICU and CCU. |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 12:54 AM Response to Original message |
31. Yeah |
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roody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 12:59 AM Response to Original message |
32. Judges and legislators are doing well financially. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 01:48 AM Response to Original message |
33. I wish I could offer more than just empathy and sympathy. |
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AdHocSolver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 01:54 PM Response to Original message |
35. Another possible cause could be infected gall bladder. An ultrasound would verify that as a cause. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
37. No operation for ruptured ovarian cyst |
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Vidar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
38. Kudos to you & your partner. That is real devotion. When elections |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
39. My husband had similar symptoms a few years ago that led |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
41. Tough partner. When I had my kidney stone, I would have sold all my family to slavery for a shot of |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
45. Unique and diverse coalitions are converging to fight for your human rights - BUT - you have to deal |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
46. This story just about kills me. |
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