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Edited on Thu May-14-09 07:29 AM by RandomThoughts
They may not know how. I am not saying this is true for all people of that group, but people on both sides that only know the slogans, and never even thought about what they might mean, sometimes have never really thought.
Sounds funny, but it is like a sleep, where they never got out from under the spell of the slogans.
You might start with really easy topics they don't have a vested interest in, and just try to get them to challenge what they hear or repeat.
Its hard to explain, but thinking has consequences that many people would rather not face.
I try to bring them back to the idea of building an argument, point by point, just get them to agree on anything, or offer an argument to anything.
Like on energy, just ask if they think it would be better to have lower energy cost, or less pollution, or being less dependant on a foreign source. unfortunately this requires a control of flow of conversation while you make your point, so you have to explain how that works, explain that if they listen and understand your point, then they can actually really disagree with it if they want.
Try and make them actually think on a point that is a step to the next point. And if they make an argument that is irrelevant, bring them back to the exact topic. Then try to let them do the same thing, and try to understand there point.
That's what I try to do.
One more thing, some people actually don't hear a word you say, it is not that they are not thinking, it is they don't listen, they create what you say, in there head from things Rush told them about your position on an argument. Its good to stop and just ask them to repeat what you just said. I have had discussions where I made a 4 word point, in one sentence, slowly, then made same point 3 times in a row, the guy I was talking to could not repeat the point I made, he was not listening at all. So you might have to get them to learn what listening is.
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