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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:07 AM Original message |
Is it unrealistic (or just unnecessary) to expect people to sleep with one person only for life? |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
1. Both, in my pov, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
2. i was older when i got married. no we arent tired of sleeping iwth each other |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
3. Aside from procreation, why should people get married? |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 01:22 PM Response to Reply #3 |
41. NO REASON. |
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Winterblues (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
4. I can not imagine not wanting to be with the one you love forever.. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:20 AM Response to Reply #4 |
12. ya know |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:21 AM Response to Reply #4 |
13. That's nice for you, but the question is really about the basic rules of relationships in general. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
5. Marriage is about a lot of things, and sex is one of those things. |
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Turbineguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
6. Since most of the conventions |
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pnutbutr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
7. when sex starts getting old with the same person |
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theoldman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
8. Christian marriage is a commitment in many ways. |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:19 AM Response to Original message |
9. Depends on a lot of things... |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
10. i think it is possible to be with only one person for life. relationships are very complicated t |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:29 AM Response to Reply #10 |
16. I understand it's "possible," but is it necessary or even desirable? |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 12:12 PM Response to Reply #16 |
38. i don't know. from my perspective, i made a commitment to my husband... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
11. it can be neither and it can be both, depending on the people involved |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
14. Depends on the wants and needs of those involved |
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Triana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
15. If you have your priorities in order... |
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FarCenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
17. Improbable |
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WilmywoodNCparalegal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
18. As someone said, when it's right, it's right... |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
19. There is an evolutionary advantage, for both men and women, |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:43 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Good points. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:46 AM Original message |
seeing how you dont have mass group of women getting impreg by alpha male and having beta male |
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Adelante (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
20. As unrealistic as abstinence only |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:46 AM Response to Reply #20 |
23. I have to admit |
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WI_DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:45 AM Response to Original message |
22. Believe it or not some people actually do this. If somebody doesn't think they can be faithful |
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salguine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
24. People are different. Monogamy suits some people. It doesn't suit some people. |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
25. As someone who was cheated upon ... I fully agree with you. It was no big deal. |
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WI_DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:54 AM Response to Reply #25 |
26. Obviously your spouse wasn't as committed as you were to your marriage. |
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Adelante (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 11:04 AM Response to Reply #25 |
31. Two very good questions nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 11:15 AM Response to Reply #25 |
32. if my hubby cheated on me i wouldnt hate him. i would thank him for the years of being happy |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
27. Hurting my spouse by sleeping with another person kills the fun of |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
28. No, I don't think it's natural. It's what people do, or attempt to do. |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #28 |
36. I became active in those scant few years of FREE SEX!!! |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
29. "Open Marriages" - usually end in divorce, from what I have observed. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 02:43 PM Response to Reply #29 |
44. From what I've observed, "closed" marriages usually end in divorce, too. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 02:45 PM Response to Reply #29 |
45. closed ones do as well from my observations. nt |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
30. Any marriage is defined by the people in it. |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
33. Been married for 36 years, we have had our problems, but none involving sex. I think |
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Vickers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
34. It isn't for me, but my wife is totally HAWT!!! |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
35. I know it's realistic, because I've seen it. |
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imdjh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 11:29 AM Response to Original message |
37. I can't imagine sharing a bedroom with someone |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
39. My thoughts: |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
40. That's the stupid thing; marriage is NOT about sex. |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 01:55 PM Response to Original message |
42. The only way infidelity seems to work is if you have a secret "open" marriage, |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
43. It doesn't really matter if you promised to do that |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-08-09 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
46. No |
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