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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 05:41 PM Original message |
When a parent is ill: Trying to do the right thing for them. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
1. I'd respect their wish and check in regularly. |
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DUFan (38 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 05:51 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. I agree with this. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 05:52 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Welcome to DU, DUFan. |
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DUFan (38 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 05:54 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Thank you. |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:19 PM Response to Reply #1 |
12. Yes, this is good advice. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:41 PM Response to Reply #12 |
21. Best wishes to you, Mike. I'll be there very soon with my hyper independent mom. |
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KoKo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 07:18 PM Response to Reply #1 |
28. Having been through this same heart wrenching experiece...I say...Listen |
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goclark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
2. Has the relationship with both parents been good until this |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:19 PM Response to Reply #2 |
11. Yes, we've always been very, very close. |
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goclark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:27 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. Then I think that I would be quietly there |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:33 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. No, I could never ever forgive myself if I were not there. Exactly. |
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CountAllVotes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
3. do as they say |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
19. I'm crying now, because this conflicting advice is all good, but it's killing me NT |
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DianeK (612 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
6. speaking as one who has recently experienced all of these |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:00 PM Response to Original message |
8. This response is usually motivated by seeing such a visit as a demand on their hospitality. |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:20 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. This is true |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:37 PM Response to Reply #8 |
20. Harsh, but maybe truthful |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:44 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. I see that post as advice, not as being harsh. Try this mike... |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 07:12 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. I appreciate what you are saying. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 10:05 PM Response to Reply #23 |
32. Indeed. I tried to be brief and descriptive. The behavior can be part of a cluster of ... |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
9. My mom had a mild heart attack in December. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
10. If You Normally Have a Positive, Supportive Relationship With Them |
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tosh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
14. I would go.... |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
15. Do you live near them? |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:42 PM Response to Reply #15 |
22. Yes, I live about two miles from their home here, and I am 90 miles drive |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 08:08 PM Response to Reply #22 |
31. Then try to keep in touch. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
16. Respect their wishes ........... |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
24. I would tend to look at age and other factors |
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wellstone dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
25. The closest I can come, is the time I found out that Mom had been |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
27. Just a quick thanks for all of the posts. I'm too shy or embarrassed to respond to |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
29. My father wished this |
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Samantha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 08:04 PM Response to Original message |
30. I think you should do both -- respect their wishes for privacy |
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