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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:30 PM Original message |
Poll question: Is this woman the suspect or a victim? (A reality-based exercise) |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
1. Seems we're only getting the woman's side of the story. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:43 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. Indeed, by his account; |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:51 PM Response to Reply #1 |
13. Yep--that is the issue. I still don't know who's who in this zoo, though. I can't |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:00 PM Response to Reply #13 |
22. That's the thing with interpersonal/spousal relationships... they're |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:09 PM Response to Reply #22 |
34. My opinion is that I don't think we're hearing the whole story. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:18 PM Response to Reply #34 |
43. The husband did not dispute these details. |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:25 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Come on, that's not how the police report read. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:28 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. Oh, so you read it? |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:31 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. No, I didn't read it. I would LIKE TO, that's why I'm asking for it. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #56 |
69. Umm... When did I say that was the police report? |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:01 PM Response to Reply #69 |
76. You didn't. You provided the "wife's" side of the story only. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #76 |
80. No effort, nor am I 'annoyed' at all. |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:35 PM Response to Reply #80 |
92. I've only read parodies of romance novels, but downthread you've gotten the thumbsup! |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:41 PM Response to Reply #92 |
95. Woo-Hoo! |
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dbt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-24-09 09:33 PM Response to Reply #1 |
295. You'd stick your dick in a blender for the attention, wouldn't you? |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
2. The woman is a suspect because... |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:46 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. Yet, she admitted to slamming a door. |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:47 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. That's neither up to me or the police |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:54 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. So you are on record as having no opinion? |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:59 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. Did he tell the police that she had tried to force herself on him sexually... |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:07 PM Response to Reply #20 |
30. From what the OP said as far as touching and putting an arm around |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:14 PM Response to Reply #30 |
38. And when the cops get there, everything you said becomes... |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:17 PM Response to Reply #14 |
41. Without the full story, I cannot say |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:25 PM Response to Reply #41 |
50. Perhaps. |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #50 |
54. Political opinions and legal opinions are two different things. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:38 PM Response to Reply #54 |
93. Ok... now that was funny. |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 07:21 PM Response to Reply #93 |
136. The designation of "suspect" is a matter of law, weedhopper. n/t |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:43 PM Response to Reply #136 |
144. You should re-read the post you were responding to... it was a QUESTION.... |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #144 |
255. See my first post in this thread |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:12 PM Response to Reply #255 |
259. Then you are of no opinion. That's fine. |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 07:45 PM Response to Reply #259 |
264. I gave an opinion based upon the law |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:18 PM Response to Reply #264 |
267. ? |
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WeDidIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 04:58 AM Response to Reply #267 |
285. I gave a perfectly valid opinion |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 03:38 PM Response to Reply #285 |
288. Silly person. I've ignored nothing. You said, in short, 'it's up to the police, not me'. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:08 PM Response to Reply #8 |
31. It is a dangerous precedent to dictate which methods of passive resistance are appropriate to... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:50 PM Response to Reply #31 |
167. You CAN dictate that a drunk person not drive children. n/t |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:49 PM Response to Reply #8 |
165. That's arguably a delay of temper. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:59 PM Response to Reply #2 |
19. Agreed. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:04 PM Response to Reply #19 |
28. So, should she have let him drive away with the children, |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:08 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. She has no right to detain him or the children. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:13 PM Response to Reply #32 |
37. Uh... so she should have let him drive away drunk with the kids in the car? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:21 PM Response to Reply #37 |
46. Husbands and wives don't have the right to detain each other in violent situations. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:30 PM Response to Reply #46 |
55. So, a slammed door is justification enough to put one's children in danger. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:44 PM Response to Reply #55 |
64. And taking away his phone so that he cannot call for someone to get them is kosher? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:02 PM Response to Reply #64 |
77. Never said it was. Neither of them claimed the children were ever in danger. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:52 PM Response to Reply #46 |
169. Since he was drunk, she had the right to protect the children from him. n/t |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:51 PM Response to Reply #32 |
168. She does if he's drunk. If he's drunk, he's in no condition to be watching children |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:36 PM Response to Reply #2 |
61. But the husband was going to drive drunk with the kids. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:33 PM Response to Reply #61 |
178. "was going to" or "thought about" isn't a crime. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:28 AM Response to Reply #178 |
198. So it is your position that a mother should LET someone intoxicated drive away with her kids? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:11 PM Response to Reply #198 |
229. Presumably he drove home from work after drinking. |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
3. It is not easy to say who is the victim |
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peace13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
4. And this just goes to show you.. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
5. They are both responsible for their own actions. |
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relayerbob (149 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:51 PM Response to Reply #5 |
105. Agreed |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:01 PM Response to Reply #5 |
108. Very good. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:39 PM Response to Reply #108 |
120. If he was that afraid of her... |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:09 PM Response to Reply #120 |
129. No... SHE called the police to stop him. |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
7. The woman is NOT the suspect because |
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Kitty Herder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 05:16 AM Response to Reply #7 |
188. Yep. Last I checked, door slamming is not illegal. But... |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:47 PM Response to Reply #188 |
254. In many states you can be arrested for it |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:56 AM Response to Reply #7 |
219. First Of All, There Is NO Evidence He Was Drunk At The Time. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
10. if it's not too late, could you edit the line out of your post? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:57 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. On mine it's ok... |
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Demit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
11. If the husband verified the details, your question is really for the police, to explain their report |
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aintitfunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
12. Because there is no suspect |
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mrcheerful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:34 PM Response to Reply #12 |
58. But a door slammed in anger shows intent of possible violent behavior |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #58 |
81. How was the husband 'assuring the children's safety' by trying to drive away with them while drunk? |
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mrcheerful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:19 PM Response to Reply #81 |
114. Now your looking at intent which means nothing in this case as the guy never drove |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:04 PM Response to Reply #114 |
127. I agree, but would you let someone you knew had been drinking heavily drive away with YOUR kids? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:55 AM Response to Reply #127 |
194. Are you a counselor for the couple or a lawyer for the woman? n/t |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:34 AM Response to Reply #194 |
199. Funny... that doesn't seem to be an answer. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:45 PM Response to Reply #199 |
244. It's a question you didn't ask me. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #244 |
249. Wow... you really are a curiosity. So, how did you just answer the question you claim I never asked? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:03 PM Response to Reply #249 |
252. Follow along; you didn't ask ME. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:57 AM Response to Reply #81 |
220. This Whole Thread Assumes He Was Drunk, When There Was NO Evidence He Was. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:34 PM Response to Reply #220 |
276. Except for the police report and both parties acknowledging he was drunk... you're absolutely right! |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:57 PM Response to Reply #276 |
281. Oh Wait... You've Repeatedly Stated He Was Under The Legal Limit. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 04:58 PM Response to Reply #281 |
291. Edumacation... it's FREE online! |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
15. I don't think either one is a suspect or a victim |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
16. There is no suspect |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:58 PM Response to Original message |
18. They need marriage counseling not cops |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:01 PM Response to Reply #18 |
23. ... funny you should say that... |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
21. I can't possibly see how she is the suspect |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
24. She is suspected of what and he is listed as the victim of what? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #24 |
104. The facts are as stated. |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:34 PM Response to Reply #104 |
117. Ok |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:42 PM Response to Reply #104 |
123. And both said, according to you, that the children were never in danger. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:08 PM Response to Reply #123 |
128. From the wife, no. |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:23 PM Response to Reply #128 |
132. Not sure what you're saying. From the wife's POV he was drunk? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 09:42 PM Response to Reply #132 |
152. Why are you so focused on sex? |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:49 PM Response to Reply #152 |
166. Some DU'ers will tell you it is rape to try to have sex with an intoxicated person. nt |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:55 AM Response to Reply #166 |
218. But now the story is that the man wasn't drunk. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:18 PM Response to Reply #218 |
262. No, he came home that way and was still intoxicated when he attempted to leave. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:55 PM Response to Reply #262 |
279. Doesn't matter how far she can get. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 03:54 PM Response to Reply #262 |
290. Men can be raped. "there's only so far she can get"? It depends |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
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MilesColtrane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
26. The cops probably listed her as the suspect because they were pissed off... |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
27. A suspect or a victim? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:16 PM Response to Reply #27 |
40. Correct. |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:33 PM Response to Reply #40 |
57. If the legal limit is .08, what ticket can be issued for .05-.06? (nt) |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:47 PM Response to Reply #57 |
67. DUI/DWAI, I believe. |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:13 PM Response to Reply #67 |
78. On the subjective judgement of the police? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:23 PM Response to Reply #78 |
84. They told him as much, and he admitted to heavily drinking. Good question though. |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:40 PM Response to Reply #84 |
94. In that case, there's clearly no basis for describing him as a 'suspect' |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #94 |
107. Lol...'suspicion of wasting police time'. |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #107 |
113. Maybe I would try to stop them - but would I then call the police? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 09:46 PM Response to Reply #113 |
154. All the facts available are listed. There's nothing not 'admitted'. |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #84 |
103. THere are laws in some states where you can be arrested for DUI |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:46 PM Response to Reply #40 |
101. Stupidity? Nepotism? |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
29. Are you certain the "violence" was only the slammed door? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:54 PM Response to Reply #29 |
72. That fact was not in dispute. |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:25 PM Response to Reply #72 |
86. This kind of looks overblown to me. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:02 PM Response to Reply #86 |
157. Indeed. |
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Jack_DeLeon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
33. She is probably listed as the suspect... |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
35. No offense but this: |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:12 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. I'd say it sounds more like a Nicholas Sparks novel |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:15 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. LOL |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:24 PM Response to Reply #35 |
48. I thought he wrote copy for that insomniac's delight TV show "CHEATERS." |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:34 PM Response to Reply #48 |
59. It seems to me that the OP |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:46 PM Response to Reply #59 |
66. I think Tahiti Nut is right on the money--switch the genders. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:21 PM Response to Reply #35 |
83. Heheh... thanks! |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
42. It's even more interesting if one switches the genders. |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:27 PM Response to Reply #42 |
51. You rather cleverly have probably cracked the nut...as it were! |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 12:08 AM Response to Reply #51 |
298. Yeah, it seems obvious, doesn't it. Bet he doesn't have the balls to pony up the truth though |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:28 PM Response to Reply #42 |
53. Exactly my thoughts. You forgot to mention his dark depression though. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:45 PM Response to Reply #53 |
65. Yup. So trite it isn't even noteworthy. (Unless the genders are switched.) |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:35 PM Response to Reply #42 |
60. Yes |
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Caliman73 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:44 PM Response to Reply #42 |
63. Exactly what I was thinking... |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #63 |
70. I wondered if the "wife" outweighed the husband by sixty to a hundred pounds |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. LOL! Well... she had gained weight. |
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Caliman73 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #70 |
89. Though size, weight, and strength might be a factor |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:57 PM Response to Reply #89 |
125. Sure. I know a lady who used to smack her husband around all the time. |
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Caliman73 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:11 PM Response to Reply #125 |
130. Definitely |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:44 PM Response to Reply #130 |
278. "Preconceived notions" indeed. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:56 PM Response to Reply #42 |
73. That thought occured to me too. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #42 |
90. Bullshit. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:46 PM Response to Reply #90 |
100. Don't be so hard on TN... it's an academic proposition, that's all. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 07:53 PM Response to Reply #90 |
138. That's how it would be portrayed, imho. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:17 PM Response to Reply #138 |
139. Now you're digging in deeper. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:55 AM Response to Reply #139 |
204. +1 |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:35 PM Response to Reply #42 |
91. Oh, and you forgot to add that the woman is drunk and about to drive with her kids |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:41 PM Response to Reply #91 |
181. You missed the part where he passed a breathalizer. n/t |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:48 AM Response to Reply #181 |
186. You missed the part where he has a new paramour and is looking for an excuse to leave. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:48 AM Response to Reply #181 |
201. ??? He never took a breathalizer. Now you're just making shit up. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:59 AM Response to Reply #201 |
221. ".05 blood alcohol" implies he took a test. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:41 PM Response to Reply #42 |
180. Indeed. n/t |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
44. She is the suspect because he did exactly what the cops would have recommended. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:25 PM Response to Reply #44 |
85. But it was ok that he was attempting to drive drunk with the children in the car? |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 08:50 AM Response to Reply #85 |
190. You have already admitted he was not legally intoxicated. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:42 PM Response to Reply #44 |
96. Flip the genders and she's the drunk one who's about to drive with the kids. eom |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 08:50 AM Response to Reply #96 |
191. He was not drunk. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:19 AM Response to Reply #191 |
210. Something we didn't find out until later. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 01:47 PM Response to Reply #191 |
302. Incorrect. You've failed to make the distinction between 'drunk' and 'under the legal limit'. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:54 PM Response to Reply #44 |
170. No cop or social worker would recommend that a drunk person try to drive off |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 08:50 AM Response to Reply #170 |
192. He was not drunk. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:26 AM Response to Reply #192 |
197. The police considered him impaired. Did you know that you can be |
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Spike89 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
45. Although not actionable (probably) she was the violent one |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
47. Maybe the cops didn't know what to do |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:29 PM Response to Reply #47 |
88. Yep... pretty much. |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
62. The intimacy between the couple, love, lack of it.. has nothing to do with |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #62 |
74. That's merely how she explained herself. |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:43 PM Response to Reply #74 |
98. Ah but attempting to put children in a car and take off intoxicated.. we had just a couple of days |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
68. I actually had something very similar happen to me. My So was drunk, we got |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:19 PM Response to Reply #68 |
82. Isn't it just swell? |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
75. No vote |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:15 PM Response to Reply #75 |
79. I couldn't vote either due to a paucity of information. NT |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:22 PM Response to Reply #79 |
239. True that, MADem. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:28 PM Response to Reply #75 |
87. Exactly right. |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:20 PM Response to Reply #87 |
237. I supposed you were stimulating discussion |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-24-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #237 |
294. I do have to wonder though.... |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
97. She crossed the line when she took the phone - but slamming a door isn't 'violence.' |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:46 PM Response to Reply #97 |
99. Exactly. And some people on this thread are doing it with rape. |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:46 PM Response to Original message |
102. I'd say she was not the suspect since she is the one that called |
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rvablue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
106. Door slamming is a crime? n/t |
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LiberalPersona (679 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
109. Based on the story I can't see how |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #109 |
110. He had little more to say, and did not dispute the facts as given. |
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bobbert (548 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
111. There was a lot more than door-slamming |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:13 PM Response to Reply #111 |
112. Actually... no one claimed anything else. |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #112 |
115. The way it reads they stayed in |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:03 PM Response to Reply #115 |
126. No, same bedroom. Sorry for the ambivalence. |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:13 PM Response to Reply #126 |
131. Ok, I was just wondering. It really had nothing to do with |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
116. Not enough info |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:25 PM Response to Reply #116 |
140. All the facts are as stated to my satisfaction. There are other bits, but not directly related |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
118. Niether: What's the crime? |
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anonymous171 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:39 PM Response to Original message |
119. I blame society. nt |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:40 PM Response to Reply #119 |
121. I blame my mother. (nt) |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:42 PM Response to Reply #121 |
122. I blame my father, he's still alive, the bastard. |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 05:47 PM Response to Reply #119 |
124. I blame Obama. |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:12 PM Response to Reply #124 |
176. I blame Canada. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:37 PM Response to Reply #119 |
142. I blame the media. /nt |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
133. Two answers. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:46 PM Response to Reply #133 |
147. Great response. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:35 PM Response to Reply #147 |
270. I missed the phone confiscation in my first read. |
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McCamy Taylor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:53 PM Response to Original message |
134. She is the suspect because she resorted to physical violence. Period. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:38 PM Response to Reply #134 |
143. I'm really shocked at how many DUers have never slammed a door in their lives. |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
135. It seems like she was the one who was drunk |
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rufus dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 07:53 PM Response to Original message |
137. there is 1- minutes of my life wasted. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:27 PM Response to Reply #137 |
141. Then the waste is yourself. |
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adamuu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:43 PM Response to Original message |
145. suspect. she effectively made a citizen's arrest. n/t |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
146. Slamming the door is not violence, but it is aggressive |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:53 PM Response to Reply #146 |
148. Slamming a door is an entirely appropriate way to vent anger |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 08:58 PM Response to Reply #148 |
149. Any "entirely appropriate way to vent anger" can be threatening. |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 09:02 PM Response to Reply #149 |
150. Speculating of course, but I'd say the husband got mad, not scared. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 09:34 PM Response to Reply #149 |
151. Excellent. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 09:43 PM Response to Reply #151 |
153. Thank you. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 09:52 PM Response to Reply #153 |
155. Then you are a student. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:14 PM Response to Reply #155 |
158. That's very kind of you to say. |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:01 PM Response to Original message |
156. Alcohol. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:18 PM Response to Reply #156 |
159. Yeah... but he was trying to sleep, then he had to wake to a slammed door.... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:27 PM Response to Reply #159 |
160. so he wants to leave her for someone with money and foist the guilt on her... screwing his kids.. |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:25 PM Response to Reply #160 |
177. "Boys will be boys" n/t |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:29 PM Response to Reply #159 |
162. It still doesn't detract from my original statement |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:57 PM Response to Reply #159 |
171. The good drunk guy had to wake to a slammed door? Tough. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:02 PM Response to Reply #159 |
174. So he admitted that the slammed door was an excuse. How can there be any |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:17 PM Response to Reply #159 |
235. Yes, that's typical of the behavior he exhibited. |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:29 PM Response to Reply #156 |
161. Not at all how it would be played out in Canada, but dream on. |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:45 PM Response to Reply #161 |
164. Meaning what, exactly? n/t |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:58 PM Response to Reply #164 |
172. Meaning you should party with us next time we get up to Blackstone Lake. |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:00 PM Response to Reply #172 |
173. Delighted |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:06 PM Response to Reply #173 |
175. I don't drink either, but there's lots to do, and I'll ask you. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
163. Why am I hearing the COPS theme in my head? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:39 PM Response to Original message |
179. Must there be a "suspect" and "a victim"? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:51 AM Response to Reply #179 |
202. There was no breathalizer test. Why are you making shit up? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:14 PM Response to Reply #202 |
233. To say that I find your account confusing is an understatement. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:07 AM Response to Reply #202 |
287. That's the one point that gets to me |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:43 PM Response to Original message |
182. F'ed up poll... Where is 'HE is at fault' |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
183. Um, he's an idiot. So she slammed a door. BFD. He was a drunk and drove with kids while wasted?!?!?! |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:48 PM Response to Reply #183 |
185. my take on it too! |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:02 AM Response to Reply #183 |
195. a) he wasn't drunk. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:23 AM Response to Reply #195 |
196. People hate to recognize their own bad behavior. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:04 AM Response to Reply #196 |
206. Interesting, indeed. (nt) |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:39 PM Response to Reply #196 |
242. Don't try to do a Dr Frist on me by keyboard remote. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:56 PM Response to Reply #242 |
246. Funny, but you know nothing of my 'professional conduct'. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:06 PM Response to Reply #246 |
253. That's entirely true. I know nothing about you. You could be lying, after all. n/t |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 03:00 PM Response to Reply #242 |
251. He Seems To Be Doing A Lot Of That. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 03:42 PM Response to Reply #251 |
289. Deleted message |
Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-20-09 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
184. Slamming a door is not placing anyone in danger, nor is it illegal. |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 04:37 AM Response to Original message |
187. Crap. I read through the entire thread |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 07:31 AM Response to Original message |
189. Neither |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
193. A reminder to readers. The guy was not drunk. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:05 AM Response to Reply #193 |
207. Deleted message |
lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:25 PM Response to Reply #207 |
240. You're the doctor, why don't you tell me? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:07 PM Response to Reply #240 |
247. Wow. You're definitely a curiosity. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 02:45 PM Response to Reply #247 |
250. Thanks, "The Doctor", I fully agree that you're not a professional. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:41 PM Response to Reply #250 |
271. Well, aren't you a transparent 'one-trick pony'. Making shit up seems to be your ultimate fallback. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
200. Suspect? What's the Charge? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:52 AM Response to Reply #200 |
203. No one was charged. |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:02 AM Response to Reply #203 |
205. So that's it? n/t |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:06 AM Response to Reply #205 |
208. Yeah, pretty much. Funny world eh? |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:12 PM Response to Reply #208 |
231. If the woman called the police, |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:53 AM Response to Reply #203 |
217. K. I'm Not Voting |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
209. you should also include the guy's perspective... |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:26 AM Response to Reply #209 |
211. LOL... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:34 AM Response to Reply #211 |
214. Why didn't you put his ignoble motives in the OP? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:05 PM Response to Reply #214 |
226. It was discovered after the fact, and not material to the question itself. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:50 AM Response to Reply #211 |
216. it just seems that any reputable dr. wouldn't run to a message board to formulate an opinion. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:59 AM Response to Reply #216 |
222. " I thought it would be interesting to get the opinions of ..." |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:14 PM Response to Reply #222 |
232. it just strikes me as extremely un-professional. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 10:53 PM Response to Reply #232 |
303. Wow... you're right! |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:10 PM Response to Reply #216 |
228. You'd be right... if that were in fact my purpose. I recommend a more critical perusal |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:17 PM Response to Reply #228 |
234. there's nothing more i'd like to know about it. |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:40 PM Response to Reply #234 |
243. LMAO! |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:26 AM Response to Original message |
212. I'm surprised they didn't charge her for holding him against his will. |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
213. Drunk driving with kids? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
215. Of Course The Woman Is The Suspect. How's That Even Up For Consideration? |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:05 PM Response to Reply #215 |
225. Why do you hate women? n/t |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:08 PM Response to Reply #225 |
227. Oh God The List Would Be Wayyyyyyyyyyy Too Long To Take The Time To Post Here. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:18 PM Response to Reply #227 |
236. Deleted message |
OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:53 PM Response to Reply #236 |
245. ROFLMAO! |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 04:07 PM Response to Reply #245 |
256. Never mind |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 05:26 PM Response to Reply #256 |
257. Deleted message |
Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 05:34 PM Response to Reply #227 |
258. Glad you're admitting it. eom |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:14 PM Response to Reply #258 |
260. Why? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:34 PM Response to Reply #260 |
277. Uh dude, you know, you're here too, posting about it. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:56 PM Response to Reply #277 |
280. Listen Honey, You Totally Missed The Point. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:58 PM Response to Reply #280 |
283. Yeah, I know your admission was insincere, albeit accurate. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 06:27 AM Response to Reply #283 |
286. "But I know enough about your posting history to know your deal." |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 08:18 PM Response to Reply #258 |
265. And ain't it |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:16 PM Response to Reply #227 |
261. Now there's a point to make a case out of... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
223. Deleted sub-thread |
backtoblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
224. How could the woman possibly be considered the suspect? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:11 PM Response to Reply #224 |
230. Very Easily. |
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backtoblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:21 PM Response to Reply #230 |
238. okay, so taking the phone |
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HamdenRice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
241. Let me guess. They are white and this is the burbs. In Brooklyn or Harlem they'd both be in jail. |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
248. I'll tell you where this went wrong - when she took his phone to prevent him from |
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ret5hd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
263. I vote for "I should ask the wife to forget the bum and marry me". |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:35 PM Response to Reply #263 |
269. LOL. Cute. |
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ret5hd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:44 PM Response to Reply #269 |
272. Give --ME-- her number??? I'm talking about YOU! |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:56 PM Response to Reply #272 |
273. Wow. |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
266. How did she manage to take the keys and phone? |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:31 PM Response to Reply #266 |
268. Well, for starters... he'd been drinking quite a bit. (It's in the OP) |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
274. Well if he threw her off as the report says then |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:31 PM Response to Reply #274 |
275. Yet he only did what he did Because she slammed the door. |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
282. We are only getting the woman's POV |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:10 AM Response to Reply #282 |
284. Taking the phone was out of line but not the keys. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-23-09 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
292. You don't put your kids in the car shitfaced. "Drunk" is of course subjective... |
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Vektor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-23-09 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
293. Not the suspect. Slamming a door is not a crime. Drunk driving is. Kids in the car makes it worse. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-24-09 11:59 PM Response to Original message |
296. You switched the genders, didn't you? n/t |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-27-09 01:42 PM Response to Reply #296 |
301. Why might I do such a thing? |
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quiller4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
297. The woman is a suspect because she engaged in menacing |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
299. Something I agree with Dan Savage on - if a person expects sexual fidelity from their partner |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-25-09 01:17 AM Response to Original message |
300. Why don't we take the gender tags completely away? |
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