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Cruzan (806 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:05 PM Original message |
That's so gay |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
1. "today’s poisonous boy culture" |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:14 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. I think it's interesting how the boys, poisonous or otherwise, are going nuts jumping through hoops. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:18 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. It was never easy being a female adolescent. |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:21 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. It's not easy being a kid at all....but I find the leveling of the playing field in this regard a |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:25 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Yes, it's not a good trend is it? |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:27 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. I never thought I'd be glad I was old! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:32 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. True in some ways... but not in others... |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:18 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. Females are constrained too, just in different ways...Boys, for example, |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:20 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Yes... a girl could be ridiculed for being too masculine... |
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SemiCharmedQuark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #10 |
26. I did an experiment for class where I asked a bunch of women if they considered themselves somewhat |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:42 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. How can the message be anything but... |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:10 PM Response to Reply #31 |
38. Um..Yeah...and to girls!... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. Being a woman... |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:20 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. I'm surprised...You're sympathy seems to be all about the males. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. Context. (nt) |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:28 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. The context was open...Someone stated how much "more constrained" |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:31 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. That was me... I said boys are more constrained. |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 07:01 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. You responded to that...But there's nothing wrong with broadening the subject. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 08:37 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. Well there were those who reacted poorly |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:08 PM Response to Reply #26 |
37. Of course...That's because masculinity is considered to superior to "femininity" |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-19-09 07:47 PM Response to Reply #26 |
71. Sad, isn't it? |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:18 PM Response to Reply #10 |
41. Well, again, this just underscores what should be obvious, |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:20 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Also. Boys are high-fived for expressing their sexuality. Girls? "Sluts". |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:26 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. That's kind of getting offtopic. |
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dem629 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:27 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. And males are called "playas", just a different word for the same thing. |
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SemiCharmedQuark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:34 PM Response to Reply #16 |
28. I have never heard "playa" as a bad thing. Likewise I have never heard "slut" described as a good |
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Chulanowa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. "Playa" is the male version of "freak" |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 10:10 AM Response to Reply #29 |
60. It's really not |
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dem629 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #28 |
35. People never warn others that some guy is a "playa"? |
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keroro gunsou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 07:21 PM Response to Reply #16 |
49. i never understood |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 06:58 PM Response to Reply #15 |
47. "being a 'slut' doesn't seem to be considered such a bad thing anymore"? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 08:39 PM Response to Reply #47 |
51. From the fact that so many women consider the term to be BS. |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 07:35 AM Response to Reply #51 |
56. I'm sorry |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 09:53 AM Response to Reply #56 |
58. I don't think you're sorry at all. |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 10:00 AM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Yeah....same to you regarding your impression of whether I'm "sorry" or not. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 10:38 AM Response to Reply #59 |
63. Why'd you put "sorry" in quotes? |
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whathehell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:23 PM Response to Reply #11 |
44. You are absolutely right.....The double standard. |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-19-09 07:45 PM Response to Reply #8 |
70. I agree with this, too. |
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backtoblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #1 |
18. right |
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Chulanowa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:37 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. It has nothing to do with being a woman, so much as NOT being a man |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. What else is there? |
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Chulanowa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Didn't I say it wasn't very logical? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:40 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. It seems like a distinction without a difference to me. (nt) |
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Chulanowa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 04:39 AM Response to Reply #30 |
55. You know there's a third option, yes? |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-19-09 06:40 PM Response to Reply #24 |
68. Being a eunuch. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:38 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. That's what bothers me so much about it. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 10:57 AM Response to Reply #1 |
64. Go Onto the IMDB Message Boards Sometime |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-19-09 07:42 PM Response to Reply #1 |
69. I don't want my kids teased for what they are - but I don't want them |
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dem629 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
2. Why is sociologist Barbara J. Risman shocked that |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:11 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. That's all you took from that? |
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dem629 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:15 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. I wasn't looking to take anything from it. |
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tkmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:17 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. That would explain it |
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dem629 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:17 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Indeed it does. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:22 PM Response to Original message |
13. I know as an adult it wasn't necessarily that they knew I was gay |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
22. Misogyny is the cornerstone of homophobia |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Or...homophobia is the cornerstone of misogyny |
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Chulanowa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:34 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. Echo has it right |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #27 |
33. Deleted sub-thread |
nomorenomore08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:43 PM Response to Reply #23 |
32. It's the psychological need to defend some "masculine" ideal, combined with a fear of ambiguity. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #32 |
40. Oh they are afraid |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
34. It does have everything to do with being gay, too |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
36. It's still homophobia/hate |
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deaniac21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
52. I'm a gay fish. |
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Mopar151 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
53. I guess that's why I've always hung out with the odd ducks |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 07:42 AM Response to Reply #53 |
57. Prissy vs. Butch |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 10:36 AM Response to Reply #57 |
62. A lot of women dress to impress other women. Men, not so much. |
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Mopar151 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-19-09 02:20 PM Response to Reply #57 |
66. Absolutey! |
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ldf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
54. this so-called psychology professor hasn't a clue. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 11:03 AM Response to Reply #54 |
65. How Much Did You Read? |
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carlyhippy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
61. That stuff starts at home |
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Mopar151 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-19-09 05:43 PM Response to Reply #61 |
67. When I grow up, I want to be - Ryan Newman |
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