An inside look at a control freak

[Ghost in the Machine]

I recently found some rather revealing papers. They are 3 pages long, hand written in all capitals, and dated (12-28-06). Each entry is initialed at the end by two people. The papers are also very well worn, like they had to be carried around in a pocket at all times or something.

I would laugh in someones face if they presented these to me, and I could never even *dream* of presenting these to someone else. I'll bold some of the really disturbing ones.

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"I will always pay attention to you, never neglect you. _________

I will always take care (not hurt or ignore) your feelings. ________

I will always ask you if I may use the bathroom. __________

I must do as I'm told sexually. __________

I must share all fantasies with you, in detail. __________

I will be touchy feely, all of the time, day or night, with you for the rest of our lives. ____________

I will never break a promise to you. __________

I will never leave your side, if you go somewhere, even another room, I'll go too, to be with you. ___________

I won't ever do anything sexual without you. __________

I will never lie to you about anything. __________

I will never not stand by you / with you. __________

I will never let anyone, including our kids/family, see me without clothes or using the bathroom, showering, or anything else. _________

I will never put myself in a position to see anyone but you in any of the ways mentioned above. __________

I will always keep all of our secrets. __________

I will always be faithful to you (no cheating, no flirting, etc). ______

I want to be nasty with you forever. _______

I will not complain about wearing my mask. ________

I will not talk to anyone else but you about anything sexually related, I swear! ___________

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Is this just crazy, or what?? For the record, I know the couple involved. They're no longer together (he died). It doesn't surprise me about him writing this, it just surprises me that she signed it.

[Warpy]

1. Did they do a tox screen on him after he croaked?

I know what my reaction would be if some man presented me with this crap and I couldn't just walk out.

[rucky]

3. some mysteries are best left unsolved. n/t

[sharp_stick]

2. KInd of looks like it could be

a B&D fantasy. Not that I'd know anything about that :eyes:

Some of the role playing fantasy games involve pretty detailed lists and behaviors and I don't think it usually ever leaves the bedroom.

on edit: Or it could be a whacko control freak, in which case I'd be kind of concerned about the surviving friends current stability.

[tjwash]

4. It's a B & D contract...here's an abstinence only worksheet.

No point to it...I just thought it was funny as hell:

[Fleshdancer]

5. gross

I'll never understand wanting to control another human being.

[Vickers]

6. "I will not complain about wearing my mask."

:rofl:

Holy shit!

[Ghost in the Machine]

7. I think that was in reference to his oxygen mask...

:hi: