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ensho Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-22-09 11:24 AM
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The Great Shame

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/21/opinion/21herbert.html


I had a conversation several weeks ago with a former Army officer, a woman, who had been attacked in her bed a few years ago by a superior officer, a man, who was intent on raping her.

The woman fought the man off with a fury. When she tried to press charges against him, she was told that she should let the matter drop because she hadn’t been hurt. When she persisted, battalion officials threatened to bring charges against her.

“They were talking about charging me with assault,” she said, her voice still tinged with anger and a sense of disbelief. “I’m no longer in the Army,” she added dryly.

Tia Christopher, a 27-year-old woman who lives in California and works with victims of sexual assault in the military, told me about the time that she was raped when she was in the Navy. She was attacked by another sailor who had come into her room in the barracks.

“He was very rough,” she said. “The girls next door heard my head hitting the wall, and he made quite a mess. When he left, he told me that he’d pray for me and that he still thought I was pretty.”

Ms. Christopher left the Navy. As she put it: “My military career ended. My assailant’s didn’t.”

Rape and other forms of sexual assault against women is the great shame of the U.S. armed forces, and there is no evidence that this ghastly problem, kept out of sight as much as possible, is diminishing.

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There is no real desire in the military to modify this aspect of its culture. It is an ultra-macho environment in which the overwhelming tendency has been to see all women — civilian and military, young and old, American and foreign — solely as sexual objects.

Real change, drastic change, will have to be imposed from outside the military. It will not come from within.
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get the neo con brass out of the military and the pentagon , like now.
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LakeSamish706 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-22-09 11:31 AM
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1. I agree that these kind of so called leaders need to go. There is no way...
that these women should have to put up with that. Maybe they start sleeping with a loaded gun under their pillows and blast the crap outta the first man that tries to rape them.
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TriMera Donating Member (885 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-22-09 11:36 AM
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2. The problem with that is
they'd be charged with murder. Women are not allowed to defend themselves against men in the military.
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LakeSamish706 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-22-09 11:40 AM
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3. Yeah, my response was sort of tong in cheek, but maybe a serious...
black belt in martial arts might even the playing field a bit.
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