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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:46 PM
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What's the worst financial decision you've made?
I'm putting this in GD instead of the Lounge because of its topical connection to the mortgage crisis, perceived impact of bankruptcy bill and other economic issues on our minds right now. Mods can move if necessary.
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jilln Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:47 PM
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1. Buying a Compaq computer
what a piece of crap.
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Quixote1818 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:50 PM
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4. I have had nothing but good luck with my Compaq.
It was dirt cheep and it usually runs faster than my Dad's Dell.

Maybe mine was made on a Tuesday?
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jilln Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:00 PM
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17. This was about 10 years ago...
Maybe they are better now.

You wouldn't believe the trouble I had... everything conflicting with everything, I would lose the sound or the picture or files randomly, it turned itself on and off...

I always swore when I got rid of it I'd take it to the Compaq HQ and smash it in their lobby but of course I didn't.
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progdonkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:54 PM
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7. buying an Alienware laptop...
$3500 for a "game machine" that couldn't handle anything without crashing, and needed to have the graphics card replaced twice: the first graphics card made DVDs stutter during playback and had a fan that made an awful grinding noise; the second wouldn't even let the computer get past POST; and the third lasted about a month before crashing in every single game, no matter how low the tech specs.

Piece. Of. Shit.
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jilln Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:58 PM
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16. Ouch!
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GOPNotForMe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:48 PM
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2. Not investing in Apple stock 3 years ago when it cost less than half its worth now!
Still regretting that!
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:53 PM
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6. Hanging on to my Apple options through the crash
and then quitting before they climbed back up.
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Big Pappa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:49 PM
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3. Letting
companies take out my bill via direct deposit. Ouch.
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karlrschneider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:58 PM
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14. I pay most of my bills that way and haven't had any problems.
What happened to you? (It's chump change in any case unless some company ripped you off for a few thou...)
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MissB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:52 PM
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5. When I was 23, I cashed out a retirement account
instead of rolling it over. The short term gain really wasn't worth it, but hindsight is 20/20.
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Clark2008 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:55 PM
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8. Getting a divorce from my first husband.
However, that was still the most sane decision I ever made, just the same.
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Mz Pip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:05 PM
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19. Marrying my first husband
By time the divorce came there wasn't much left to lose.

He was a financial clusterfuck. He just had to have the Lotus, the motorcycle, the fancy stereo. Then he just had to have his secretary. I think she ended up on the short end of that stick - paying off all those loans.

Mz Pip
:dem:
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:48 PM
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23. Marrying the ex also.
Should have just lived with him. What is mine is mine and, because it is a community property state, 1/2 of what is yours is mine also. Nothing fancy, just a greedy insecure obsessive compulsive.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:55 PM
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9. Buying a house in a bad location
Took over a year to sell it and we profited all of $850.
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frogcycle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:55 PM
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10. riding a bunch of stocks all the way down in the dot-com crash
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nevergiveup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:45 PM
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21. Me too!
How could I have been so stupid? I will never understand.
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A Brand New World Donating Member (803 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:56 PM
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11. Buying our current house before our old house was sold or
at least having a contract on it. Our old house has been on the market now for 10 months with not so much as a nibble. Of course the housing market would have to crash just as we made this move.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:57 PM
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13. Been there and done that
You have my sympathy. I know exactly what you are going through.
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jilln Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:02 PM
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18. Is there a right way to do that?
I mean if you wait, then you have a ridiculously short time to house shop and the new one won't close before the old one, so you have nowhere to live.

And if you wait til you get a contract, the deal could always fall through anyway.
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Hav Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:56 PM
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12. .
Clearly investing my money in stocks.
Whatever I do, keeping some too long, selling some too early, it's always the wrong decision ;).
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Raine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 08:58 PM
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15. I made a horrible investment
in 1999 that cost me $25.000. :cry:
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1620rock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:25 PM
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20. Buying a Ford before I was old enough to know better.
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AmandaRuth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:45 PM
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22. buying a house that necessitated a LONG commute
because i thought the school district would be better for my daughter.

I didn't have enough confidence in myself or her to realize that she would thrive in any environment she was in, and now I am stuck with a 3 hour commute (on good days), which basically adds another week of work to each month.

ps It is less than a bedroom community and there are no jobs paying higher than maybe $1.00 over min wage, so I commute to the big city as the wages are much better.
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Vox Acerbus Donating Member (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:52 PM
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24. I held on to about 75% of my employee stock options - in WORLDCOM
I started out at UUNET, got lots of cheap, cheap stock. Company got bought, and bought, and eventually bought by WCOM.

I didn't divest enough, fast enough. Lost well over a half million dollars, on paper.

My husband manages the finances now.
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wiggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 11:27 PM
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38. The only individual stock I owned was Worldcom. Bought in repeatedly at the
suggestion of Smith Barney (auditors of Worldcom who also pushed investor clients to buy). It was part of my SEP-Ira pension and I lost about 10 grand. Almost everything that my Smith Barney advisor has suggested has not panned out.
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Vox Acerbus Donating Member (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 10:01 AM
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39. Did you hear about that lawsuit?
There was a lawsuit against SSB sometime around 2000 for just that reason. It was the branch out of Atlanta that got sued for peddling WCOM stock on the advice of Jack Grubman, illegally.

I had an SSB advisor too, and yeah, they kept giving bad advice. Fortunately, I didn't take margin loans out against my stock, as they suggested to many other people. SSB is evil.
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1monster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:01 PM
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25. Getting married and having a kid... Been in the red ever since. NT
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alittlelark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:05 PM
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26. My husband was hired at Microsoft in 1986
Straight out of Stanford w/ an MBA. He left after 4 months because he didn't think their model would work - they didn't 'produce' anything.

You DO NOT WANT TO KNOW how much the stock would have been worth if we stayed there for 2 years....
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Ghost in the Machine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:05 PM
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27. using my workers comp settlement to open a restaurant....
what was I thinking? Seriously... I've used everything I got in less than 6 months... now I'm waiting for the payback to come... it's starting to turn around slowly, but it just doesn't seem fast enough for me.
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valerief Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:06 PM
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28. Not being born wealthy. nt
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tomreedtoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:10 PM
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29. Being born in America.
No one will retire, no one will have any money. The financial apocalypse will hit everybody, no matter how many stupid investment schemes they try, no matter how many infomercial "no money down" schemes they try. My only satisfaction is that we're all going down to the hobo jungle together, but you won't be prepared to eat rats for survival. I will.
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:16 PM
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30. That purchase of fifty tons of aluminum.
Hell,I still got some out back...
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:22 PM
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33. Go To The 9/11 Forum And Name Your Price. There Are Plenty Of Folk There In Need Of More Aluminum!
:)
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:31 PM
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36. Who do you think baught the first forty tons?
:)
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LEW Donating Member (809 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:17 PM
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31. Buying a home that ended up being full of mold
Bought a fixer upper for a good price in a great neighborhood. We found it was completly filled with mold, lost everything we owned and alot of money.

Please be ready for the completely unexpected when buying a fixer upper, (this was our third one, and we thought we knew what we were doing) even an inspection would not have found the mold as it was completely hidden.
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AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:18 PM
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32. Taking out student loans
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moondust Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:23 PM
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35. Same here. n/t
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Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:23 PM
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34. Buying our first home back in '75
We closed on a Wednesday, found out I was pregnant on Thursday, and that Friday my husband was told he would be laid off in a couple weeks. Didn't see those last two coming at all.

We held on as long as we could. Used a neighbor's old chest-type coke machine for a refrigerator. Some nights dinner was a canned vegetable and butter bread. On the day our first child was due, I was helping the hubby load a piano, and our other meager possessions into a moving van, and headed for our new home...a rather crappy 2 bedroom apartment. Luckily, she was late.

Pretty tough times, and it took us a while to recover, but we made it.
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fed-up Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 11:14 PM
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37. cashing checks sent unsolicited from credit cards co's when I was ill-best
was selling house last Nov, surviving the real estate bubble and buying down and being debt free, actually that is second best, first best was living in a closet (literally) for two years in a studio apartment in San Francisco to save up for a down payment for my first house 20 years ago

second worst was signing the subprime refi anyway (to clear up credit card debt) even after finding out at closing (at the title company's office) that it was only fixed for two years
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Hotler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 10:03 AM
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40. Allow Morgan Stanley to manage my portfolio...eom
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 10:05 AM
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41. Buying new vehicle instead of used, and a larger one than necessary
I'll be paying on it for a while too. And paying for more gas than I need to. :(
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Taxloss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 10:06 AM
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42. Not buying a particular apartment when I had the chance.
It was an incredible bargain. I dithered and lost the opportunity.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 10:06 AM
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43. All the wasted opportunities. Like most people, I've had ample opportunity
to make modest investments but opted for short term gratification instead.
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lectrobyte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 10:07 AM
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44. Not getting started sooner on retirement planning and saving. I like to
think I live somewhat frugally, modest house, keep cars for 10 or 12 years, save money, etc., but really didn't think about retirement soon enough.
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Nay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 01:59 PM
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45. Not planning earlier for an early retirement--I'd love to never have
to darken the door of a workplace ever again. But I am stuck in employment hell until full retirement age. Luckily, I have been cheap all my life and am debt free except for a small mortgage, but I will have to work until age 66. That sucks.
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