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1gobluedem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:45 PM Original message |
My teenage neighbor was brutally attacked |
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peace13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
1. My heart goes out to your neighbor and to you. |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
2. This is so very sad. I will certainly pray for her, 1gobluedem. |
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my2sense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
3. So sorry to hear this |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
4. Stopping violence against women |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:10 PM Response to Reply #4 |
13. Point of information: violence against women is significantly rarer than violence against men. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:18 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Facts rarely impede zeal. |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:25 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. poster didn't say rate was higher, but just too common |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 11:26 PM Response to Reply #17 |
35. thanks |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:37 PM Response to Reply #13 |
22. Yes, and how many of the people commiting violence against men are ALSO men? |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:55 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. Yes. nt |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 10:53 AM Response to Reply #22 |
143. Bingo! |
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Cronopio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 05:30 PM Response to Reply #22 |
149. Why? Male socialization and the concept of men held by men and women. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:53 PM Response to Reply #13 |
25. But much violence committed against women is done by someone they trust. nt |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:54 PM Response to Reply #13 |
26. Men perpetrate violence against both men and women. |
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TheWraith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 12:12 PM Response to Reply #26 |
47. Excuse me, but it's not "fun and games" any more than violence against women is. |
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Chemical Bill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #47 |
75. . |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 10:36 PM Response to Reply #13 |
32. POI: & the incidence of violence BECAUSE she's a woman . . . |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 01:12 PM Response to Reply #32 |
52. this is the salient fact |
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Threedifferentones (820 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:49 PM Response to Reply #32 |
64. So, if a man beats up his wife, thereby committing "intimate partner violence" |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 01:29 AM Response to Reply #13 |
38. Violence against women is not "rare" -- and is hugely underreported .... |
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lostnfound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 08:51 AM Response to Reply #13 |
42. The circumstances matter, however. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:42 PM Response to Reply #13 |
81. how about we stop violence from men? if yo want to be accurate that would cover what say 90 -95% of |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:27 PM Response to Reply #81 |
109. Just under 90% in "the Western World", according to wikipedia. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-19-09 08:38 PM Response to Reply #109 |
124. and they killl what % of the women as compared to other women? 95% or so I bet... |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-19-09 08:55 PM Response to Reply #124 |
127. Do you have some stats to back that up? |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-19-09 08:49 PM Response to Reply #81 |
126. Do you have a viable solution? |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #126 |
130. study what causes violence - treat it like a disease that men are prone to ... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #126 |
131. study what causes violence - treat it like a disease that men are prone to ... |
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Fire_Medic_Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-09 09:40 PM Response to Reply #131 |
133. That's much more rational than some of the solutions I've seen suggested on DU. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:00 PM Response to Reply #13 |
104. I can't believe that you posted this in this thread. What is your point? |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 10:57 AM Response to Reply #104 |
144. It's called "but what about the menz?!" sydrome |
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Trajan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
5. OMG .... |
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sweetladybug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:55 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. My prayers are with your young neighbor |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 01:12 PM Response to Reply #7 |
51. He's been charged; |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
6. That is so sad... |
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sasquatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
8. I hope she's able to recover from this horrible tragedy |
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BrklynLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
9. That is such a tragedy...such terrible payback for trying to do something good. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:05 PM Response to Original message |
10. Too sad |
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PM Martin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
11. In these cases, |
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razors edge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
12. My SO's daughter has had her tires slashed, |
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SheilaT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:10 PM Response to Reply #12 |
91. So it's okay to |
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razors edge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 09:48 PM Response to Reply #91 |
119. The cops will take a report |
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ManiacJoe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 11:49 PM Response to Reply #119 |
121. Keep filing the reports. |
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razors edge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-19-09 12:49 AM Response to Reply #121 |
123. Thats up to my girlfriend's daughter. |
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girl gone mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
14. What a heartbreaking story. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:33 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. It's not the age. |
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girl gone mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 11:17 PM Response to Reply #20 |
34. often, a 17 year old can be easily manipulated.. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
16. I hope the turd is in jail ... and I pray the young woman recovers fully. |
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enough (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
18. My daughter, now early 30's, spent 5 years of her 20's involved with a guy who was |
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
19. This is one reason why I don't date anymore. |
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Baby Snooks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:26 PM Response to Reply #19 |
60. Know it, name it, stop it... |
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Cronopio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 05:33 PM Response to Reply #19 |
150. I never dated. I related to people as friends for years before taking it further. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
21. I'm so, so sorry to hear this. |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
23. I am so, so sorry |
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madrchsod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
24. sometimes it makes one wonder why this should happen |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
27. Oh my goodness, how awful. |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:44 PM Response to Reply #27 |
82. Maybe there's something in the way boys are raised |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:41 PM Response to Reply #82 |
99. I'm not blaming the victim at all - I'm considering whether there's |
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pacalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
29. Please give us updates about her condition. This is heartbreaking. |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 10:29 PM Response to Original message |
30. Prayers for the young woman. |
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tabasco (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:05 PM Response to Reply #30 |
90. What religion is that? |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:25 PM Response to Reply #90 |
108. Religion of justice. |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
31. Oh God, I am so sorry. |
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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-17-09 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
33. I'm so sorry about your neighbor. |
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lostnotforgotten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
36. Sorry For Your Pain And Trauma - I Have To Ask - Why Do Woman So Often Fall For These Losers? |
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DIKB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:48 AM Response to Reply #36 |
40. Because sweet/caring guys who show interest |
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cletustakethewheel (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:35 PM Response to Reply #40 |
61. I agree with you, but I don't see it as a 'challenge' in a sporty sort of way |
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eowyn_of_rohan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:23 PM Response to Reply #61 |
106. I think you are right that it can be a lack of self esteem |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 09:35 AM Response to Reply #61 |
137. "We are comfortable with the familiar, even if it is painful." |
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SheilaT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:13 PM Response to Reply #40 |
93. I've heard that complaint from |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 08:21 PM Response to Reply #40 |
118. It can be a very gradual process, and you want to be a "good person" |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 11:03 AM Response to Reply #40 |
146. I think a lot of guys confuse "nice" with "needy". |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 11:13 AM Response to Reply #40 |
148. Many so-called Nice Guys(tm) are tiresome annoying wankers. |
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Cronopio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 05:43 PM Response to Reply #148 |
151. "Niceness" is a strategy of social interaction ... |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #36 |
54. There aren't enough men to go around |
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cletustakethewheel (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:59 PM Response to Reply #54 |
67. Do you really feel that way? I don't...Of course, I have been in a long-term |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:52 PM Response to Reply #67 |
86. The media and the culture make sure we know there are a lot more women |
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lostnotforgotten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:03 PM Response to Reply #86 |
89. I Simply Asked Because I Am A Nice Guy An Always Shake My Head At Stories Like This |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 09:41 AM Response to Reply #89 |
139. I wonder if you might be looking in the wrong places. nt |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 09:41 AM Response to Reply #86 |
138. Not only that, but because this is a patriarchal society, women are traditionally more motivated |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:39 PM Response to Reply #36 |
114. Y'know, I had a discussion with a co-worker in regards to how McCain treats women like shit. |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 11:03 AM Response to Reply #36 |
145. A better question: |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 01:22 AM Response to Original message |
37. So sorry to hear about this happening. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 01:37 AM Response to Original message |
39. That this still goes on is tragic. . . . |
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beac (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 04:22 AM Response to Original message |
41. Terrible. What a waste. Sending positive, healing thoughts.... n/t |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
43. Is This Really A Good Girl/Bad Boy Thing? |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 12:05 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Some might've had physically abusive or very domineering fathers |
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Night_Nurse (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:16 PM Response to Reply #46 |
58. Good point.. |
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tbyg52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
44. Best thoughts and wishes to her and her family. nt |
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jhain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
45. Praying.... |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
48. Its the 'I love you' phrase that women lose their minds over |
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Junkdrawer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
49. They arrested the guy Thusday... |
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Enthusiast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
50. Prayers and healing |
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Liberty Belle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
53. AMEN. I had a friend whose husband killed her children. |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
55. Sending good vibes |
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Happyhippychick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
56. K&R |
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Night_Nurse (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:12 PM Response to Original message |
57. If that were my daughter... |
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cletustakethewheel (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
59. 'Big time loser, still in high school at age 20' I don't think that came out right, did it? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:44 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. The poster is talking about her neighbor, not her daughter. |
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cletustakethewheel (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:58 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. Sorry, I must have missed that first sentence! But the sentiment remains... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:13 PM Response to Reply #66 |
71. She is in a coma. |
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cletustakethewheel (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #71 |
74. *slaps head* Ooo boy...now I feel like a major douche...Please forgive me! |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:23 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. The article about her being in coma was published on Jan 16th. |
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cletustakethewheel (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:26 PM Response to Reply #76 |
77. This OP said she'll never be the same, which left me the impression |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:48 PM Response to Reply #74 |
84. You ~are~ a major douche |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:51 PM Response to Reply #66 |
100. It WASN'T her daughter. |
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book_worm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:48 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. yeah, the guy described is a "big-time loser" who nearly killed somebody who |
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cletustakethewheel (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 02:54 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. I'll bet a young man who couldn't read at age 20 felt like a loser |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:00 PM Response to Reply #65 |
68. The girl is not the poster's daughter. |
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cletustakethewheel (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:04 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. I realize that this poster wasn't the OP...and as for it being bizarre |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:13 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. She is the OP. But the girl is not her daughter. |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:56 PM Response to Reply #65 |
87. Why does it seem that the victim is being blamed? |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:55 PM Response to Reply #87 |
101. . |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:04 PM Response to Reply #87 |
105. That is an all too common response, even from people who mean well. |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-19-09 09:40 PM Response to Reply #65 |
129. I'm so glad you got the granite you apologist fuck |
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GentryDixon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
69. I hope you don't mind. |
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Omaha Steve (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
73. I'm sharing this story with others |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
78. Link: |
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Cabcere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
79. Oh no |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
80. I'm so sorry - my thoughts and prayers are with her and her family! |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
83. Done! |
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Window (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
85. So, so very sorry for this young lady. Will keep her in my prayers. |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 05:58 PM Response to Original message |
88. I can't imagine the same pain you are going through but my Heart is with you. |
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2Design (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
92. And read up on cycle of abuse - they all follow the same crap - nice, possesive and then brutal and |
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Agent William (628 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
94. 'Bad Boys' are the bane of my existence |
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shaniqua6392 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
95. My thoughts and prayers go out to her and her family. |
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FloridaJudy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
96. I'm so very sorry. |
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Ken Burch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
97. Dear God. Her parents must be devastated by this. |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
98. Horrible, and all to common... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
102. Heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are with the young woman and her family. |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
103. So sorry, goblue. |
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Gman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
107. To All Women Who Don't Know: YOU CANNOT CHANGE HIM!!! |
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 10:02 PM Response to Reply #107 |
120. Your words should be a #1 dating rule of thumb: |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 11:56 PM Response to Reply #107 |
122. no f-ing kidding. |
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MindPilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 11:08 AM Response to Reply #107 |
147. Word!! |
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2QT2BSTR8 (320 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:27 PM Response to Original message |
110. Sending my healing energies to her 1gobluedem! |
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johan helge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
111. God, I hate that kind of guys |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
112. "...but i can change him" |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
113. This is terrible...no one should be attacked... |
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condoleeza (464 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:39 PM Response to Original message |
115. It is sad to hear some of the comments posted in reply to this |
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Unca Jim (405 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
116. OK bitter people! |
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FloridaJudy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-18-09 08:06 PM Response to Reply #116 |
117. Yes. I'm thinking of the "Central Park Jogger" |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-19-09 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
125. I will be praying. |
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Ecumenist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-19-09 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
128. OMG, I am so sorry to hear this... but can I ask sometihng... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-09 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
132. Unfortunately the girl has died. |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-09 09:43 PM Response to Reply #132 |
134. very sad... |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-09 09:45 PM Response to Reply #132 |
135. oh no.... |
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Jim__ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 10:10 AM Response to Reply #132 |
140. So sorry to hear this - n/t |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-20-09 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
136. How incredibly sad |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
141. RIP Anna |
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tom_paine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-21-09 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
142. I just had this conversation with my niece not too long ago. |
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