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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 09:54 PM Original message |
Poll question: Is it okay to use the N word and the F word (faggot) if it's done in a playful/non-hateful manner? |
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FLAprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 09:59 PM Response to Original message |
1. Completely depends on the context. |
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mwooldri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:33 PM Response to Reply #1 |
19. Agreed. |
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qwlauren35 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 08:04 PM Response to Reply #19 |
83. Okay. I can go with that. IN COMPLETE PRIVACY. |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:00 PM Response to Original message |
2. People should be able to use any words they wish. Even ugly ones. |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:07 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. I'm not sure if you're blackt, but if you're not ... you |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:20 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Your question shoudo have been answered by the final paragraph of my response. |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:31 PM Response to Reply #7 |
18. Yikes. So you approve of speech that could prompt |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 11:09 PM Response to Reply #18 |
33. Do you work at being dense or does it come naturally to you? |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:13 AM Response to Reply #33 |
40. Says the person who would lose in three seconds on the |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:22 AM Response to Reply #40 |
44. "why you love hearing the the N-word, that's up to you" |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:28 AM Response to Reply #44 |
45. Well you clearly don't have a problem with it....You've yet |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:46 AM Response to Reply #45 |
47. Okay, you're on your own. |
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Hanse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
3. In my personal opinion... |
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rockymountaindem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
5. I can never decide |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:16 PM Response to Original message |
6. Isn't this an "insiders make the rules for their group" kind of thing? |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:21 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. That's always been my feeling |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:22 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. LOL! |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:22 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Well my opinion is minorities should be free to use certain |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:24 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. The same is true for all groups, imho. Some things kin can say what no one else should. |
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brendan120678 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:16 PM Response to Reply #9 |
69. So you're saying that you are in favor of... |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 03:50 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. Did he say something about laws? |
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marmar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
10. I get the empowerment aspect of it - taking a negative and turning it around..... |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:37 PM Response to Reply #10 |
24. I'm gay, and to be honest, I actually don't really use the F |
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camera obscura (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
11. It's a bit like Potter Stewart's famous quote: I can't define it, but I know it when I see/hear it. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:23 PM Response to Original message |
13. Context. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
14. Aside from those words, which I think |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:26 PM Response to Original message |
16. They're only words - |
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misanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:33 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. Words are the most powerful things we have... |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:36 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. As a lawyer, a novelist, and an essayist, |
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misanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-06-08 03:52 AM Response to Reply #22 |
84. Umbrage and indignation are like Dodge City six-shooters in this place, arent' they?**nm |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
17. I'm just going to say I believe in consistency. |
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Uzybone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
21. Both should refrain from using it |
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msongs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
23. seems like it's ok for you to spell out the F word but NOT the N word. does that show YOUR bias? nt |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:39 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Since I'm white, I would never use the N-word or spell out the |
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bluedawg12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:39 PM Response to Original message |
25. Both have a negative connotation, so I'd don't use them. |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
27. Not for me, but I use the D word sometimes |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
28. Come along little faggot white boy.. |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 11:02 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Oh, for a second, I thought you were taking me somewhere. |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 11:27 PM Response to Reply #31 |
36. Where do you want to go, babe? |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
29. check this out |
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metapunditedgy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 10:55 PM Response to Original message |
30. It's a question of social standards, which are variable and situation-dependent. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
32. as I understand it, |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 04:52 PM Response to Reply #32 |
77. LMAO! |
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Edweird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 11:15 PM Response to Original message |
34. It depends on your audience. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 11:21 PM Response to Original message |
35. (shrug) Go for it. |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:32 AM Response to Reply #35 |
46. Well it sure seems that way per this thread, even though I |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 11:38 PM Response to Original message |
37. In group solidarity. |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 11:39 PM Response to Original message |
38. I work with several young black men who use that word |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:16 AM Response to Reply #38 |
41. Wow. I hear gay folks call each other "fag", "queen", and worse (as it were)... |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 07:39 AM Response to Reply #41 |
51. I think you took my post wrong. |
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ACTION BASTARD (765 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-04-08 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
39. N word I can't imagine saying it in any context. However, faggot |
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SmileyRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:17 AM Response to Original message |
42. I believe in free speech. |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 08:15 AM Response to Reply #42 |
56. What the hell is wrong with all of you people who justify |
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cwydro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 10:56 AM Response to Reply #56 |
64. Thank you for that post. |
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SmileyRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 03:38 PM Response to Reply #56 |
70. Oh words can certainly be a problem |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:19 AM Response to Original message |
43. It's the intent, not the word. IMO |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 12:46 AM Response to Original message |
48. It's all about context, of course. And like you said, the "non-hateful manner". |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 03:11 AM Response to Original message |
49. I think it depends on the situation |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 04:39 AM Response to Original message |
50. In addition to being a raving pro-gun jerk, I am a published poet. |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 08:06 AM Response to Reply #50 |
53. So being a poetic pro-gun advocate is justification for |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 08:01 AM Response to Original message |
52. I have no idea |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 08:09 AM Response to Reply #52 |
55. This is why, among many other reasons I'm sure, why you're |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 08:25 AM Response to Reply #55 |
57. aww thanks. |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 08:37 AM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Oh yea totally .. it's tough enough for a gay kid to proclaim |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 09:56 AM Response to Reply #59 |
62. We are in a very gay friendly school also |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
54. In the movie Idiocracy one of the funniest lines |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 08:26 AM Response to Original message |
58. Not for me... |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 09:11 AM Response to Original message |
60. Context is everything |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 09:13 AM Response to Original message |
61. I don't understand why anyone would WANT to use these words at all! |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
63. I think your base assumptions are wrong |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
65. Ugly, hurtful words are ugly and hurtful, no matter who says them. |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
66. I sometimes use them in jest while poking fun at the people who really do talk like that |
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zorahopkins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
67. N.E.V.E.R. |
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kenny blankenship (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
68. Without taking any side to the argument, I'd like to add some background on the Fword |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 04:44 PM Response to Reply #68 |
76. Thank you - wish I could K&R this reply n/t |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
71. i'm not comfortable w. it for myself and choose not to use those words |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 03:58 PM Response to Original message |
73. It depends on the context. My sibs & I refer to each other as the b*s, but no one else can |
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freestyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
74. I could be called both, and I refrain from using those words |
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SidneyCarton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
75. If you do not wish to be called a thing, you shouldn't use the epithet yourself |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
78. I prefer "blackamoor" and "nance" myself... |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
79. I think both words can be used playfully, but the user must be incredibly cautious |
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Sebastian Doyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 06:51 PM Response to Original message |
80. In a related question: What about the word "breeder" to refer to heterosexuals? |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 06:53 PM Response to Reply #80 |
81. That doesn't bother me |
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misanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-06-08 12:50 PM Response to Reply #80 |
85. What about straight folks who are voluntarily child-free?**nm |
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qwlauren35 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-05-08 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
82. My choice isn't quite there. |
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