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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 10:45 PM Original message |
How does one approach this subject delicately and with sensitivity to all concerned... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. It sounds like she's a racist. |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:05 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Well, if that is the case... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:07 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. It is very sad. I'm sorry that you found out in this particularly nasty way. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:52 PM Response to Reply #1 |
58. "I'd avoid her if I were you". Many people have stuff deeply implanted in their subconscious. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 03:01 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. The OP will have to decide how to react. I was responding to the words of the OP. |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 07:17 PM Response to Reply #58 |
75. artwork and comedy and music... you are so right.. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 10:54 PM Response to Original message |
2. You tell a good story |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:13 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. I guess that it what I wrote it for: |
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Mist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:13 AM Response to Reply #2 |
17. Thanks for putting this in perspective for me Tangerine. I've been wondering for quite a while |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:25 AM Response to Reply #17 |
35. It surprised me |
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NOLALady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:40 AM Response to Reply #35 |
36. Interesting. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:52 AM Response to Reply #36 |
49. It's not rational |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 02:04 AM Response to Reply #2 |
24. That matches my impressions of similar individuals to a "T" ... well said. |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:04 AM Response to Reply #2 |
31. could be her own story, or her mother's, or.. np |
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roseBudd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 01:00 PM Response to Reply #2 |
59. I spent a good amount of time examining HRC's own blog at right before & right after her |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 03:52 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. How telling |
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roseBudd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 05:13 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. And if you put it in the context of a love object who is stolen away, the ire would be directed at |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 10:58 PM Response to Original message |
3. You are far from dense, and I'm surprised you held your tongue. |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:31 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. Thanks, m'dear. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
4. My friend, my mother is in the same mode. |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:38 PM Response to Reply #4 |
11. I have a million reasons to tend my resentments. |
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Mist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:18 AM Response to Reply #11 |
19. Thanks for the OP, Tandalayo, and glad to hear everything's better, health-wise. I |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:17 PM Response to Original message |
8. You said exactly the right thing to someone you consider a friend |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:30 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. RE: The Car. |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:43 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. great meat? |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:10 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Tires nt |
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Adsos Letter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:13 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. it probably means it has good tires... |
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roseBudd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 05:16 PM Response to Reply #9 |
65. My 95 Legacy wagon was hit 2 weeks before election, I cried because I didn't want it... |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:42 PM Response to Original message |
12. You'd think every Democrat would be happy |
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dweller (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-27-08 11:52 PM Response to Original message |
14. a subaru is a great car |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:16 AM Response to Original message |
18. The slights of the primaries |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:49 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. You're right. |
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Celeborn Skywalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:40 AM Response to Reply #20 |
28. It |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:49 PM Response to Reply #20 |
56. Nobody's screaming and it sounds like this woman made racist comments, according to the OP. |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:09 PM Response to Reply #20 |
79. If you find people are frequently "screaming racism" around you. |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 12:50 AM Response to Reply #79 |
88. You do know I was referring to DU - doncha ya? |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-30-08 04:37 AM Response to Reply #88 |
98. Sorry but I've seen a few of your posts on DU. |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-30-08 10:13 PM Response to Reply #98 |
99. I was going to ask you what you found |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 01:13 AM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Yo. Freeze. |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 01:50 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. Excuse me? |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:04 PM Response to Reply #22 |
77. There is no legitimate excuse for any Democrat to support McCain and Palin |
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rosesaylavee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:08 AM Response to Reply #18 |
42. I am not familiar with what happened to votes in New Jersey |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 03:55 PM Response to Reply #42 |
63. The state went to Clinton |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 05:26 PM Response to Reply #63 |
68. They did what Hillary Clinton asked. |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:08 PM Response to Reply #63 |
78. OMFG. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 10:16 AM Response to Reply #63 |
92. None of the delegates counted. The vote was done by acclamation. |
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Fading Captain (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 02:03 AM Response to Original message |
23. On behalf of Michigan |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 10:10 AM Response to Reply #23 |
39. Oh, come on. I see them everywhere up here. |
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Fading Captain (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:10 AM Response to Reply #39 |
43. I feel the same way about foriegn car buyers |
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bvar22 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:38 AM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Let me repeat what was said above: |
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Dyedinthewoolliberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:35 PM Response to Reply #43 |
53. I'm not sure buying American is the solution. |
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Fading Captain (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:47 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. Stop thinking about the company |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 06:42 PM Response to Reply #53 |
73. They made those, though, because they sold. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 06:41 PM Response to Reply #43 |
72. I do know the devastation. I also know it's not just cars. |
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Chulanowa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:38 PM Response to Reply #43 |
81. well, if Michigan made anything people wanted to buy... |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 10:00 AM Response to Reply #81 |
90. Not true. |
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charlie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:46 AM Response to Reply #39 |
48. Tandy's a guy |
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roseBudd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 01:07 PM Response to Reply #48 |
60. And a 10 year old American car may not be worth buying, sad but true... |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 06:38 PM Response to Reply #60 |
71. Not sure about that. |
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roseBudd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 07:12 PM Response to Reply #71 |
74. Running fine is not the criteria, it is time & $ spent at the repair shop.. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 09:54 AM Response to Reply #74 |
89. I had my mom's old Jeep for a couple of years. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 06:37 PM Response to Reply #48 |
70. My serious bad. I didn't even look. |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:23 PM Response to Reply #23 |
51. Yo, Myron. |
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Fading Captain (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:45 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. I recently bought my first new car |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:09 PM Response to Reply #51 |
85. Don't let them get to you. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 10:05 AM Response to Reply #51 |
91. We're all just trying to survive, that's true. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 11:07 AM Response to Reply #51 |
94. Here's a great website for you to enjoy-- we own a '98 too |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:07 PM Response to Reply #23 |
84. a used one |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 04:05 AM Response to Original message |
25. Still trying to wrap my brain around this |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 04:20 AM Response to Original message |
26. There is only one thing to do. Make sure that PUMAfied fool does not remain a dem councilwoman |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:34 AM Response to Original message |
27. There you go again... |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:26 PM Response to Reply #27 |
52. Yeah, I know. |
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The Backlash Cometh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
29. The squeaky wheel gets the oil. |
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BeFree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:54 AM Response to Original message |
30. Hmmfh!! |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:10 AM Response to Original message |
32. If she wanted the Dem who came in second in our primary to be our candidate she is not a Dem |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 10:19 AM Response to Reply #32 |
40. It reminds me of those who decided that Lieberdweeb should go back to the Senate, |
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southernyankeebelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:17 AM Response to Original message |
33. Dim Wits - Picture President Palin |
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Time for change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:22 AM Response to Original message |
34. I had become somewhat upset about what I considered Hillary's negative campaigning during the |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:47 AM Response to Original message |
37. Congrats on your lovely new car...good choice, IMO. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
38. I think part of that vitriol is defensive |
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rosesaylavee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
41. This political year has been so hard on friendships |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
44. She brought it up, and asked for your opinion. |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
45. Some people were driven mad by the primaries- people on BOTH sides |
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nashville_brook (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
46. wow TS -- i really love your writing and I couldn't agree more. |
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rhett o rick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
50. Thanks you for the great post and nice greeting. I agree with the post above about racism. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 12:50 PM Response to Reply #50 |
57. I agree. |
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DCKit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 11:42 AM Response to Reply #50 |
96. I believe fear was a bigger factor than racism. |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
66. Tremendous Post. I share your vulnerability. |
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SidneyCarton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
67. I appriciate your well-reasoned consideration of this mess. |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
69. Rec, by the way. NT |
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Festivito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 07:54 PM Response to Original message |
76. One thing, agree THAT we disagree, not TO disagree. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:16 PM Response to Original message |
80. It's telling that |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
82. That vitriol sounds uncomfortably familiar to me |
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kiranon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 09:07 PM Response to Original message |
83. Sorry, I don't believe your tale. All the Clinton supporters I know backed Obama. |
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Pale Blue Dot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:40 PM Response to Reply #83 |
87. I'm going to defend the OP, who you obviously dont know. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 10:20 AM Response to Reply #87 |
93. backing up what FinnFan wrote |
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Tandalayo_Scheisskopf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 12:34 PM Response to Reply #87 |
97. Aww...Finny... |
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clyrc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-28-08 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
86. I've got a more hopeful story for you |
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cemaphonic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-29-08 11:27 AM Response to Reply #86 |
95. Yeah, this election made for some strange realignments. |
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