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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:49 PM Original message |
Questions About Reporting a Pedophile. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. You can report suspicion of abuse to your local PS service anonymously. |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
2. Are you a health care provider, or do you work in education? |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:16 PM Response to Reply #2 |
23. I am not a health care provider.... |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:18 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. YES you are. You are OBLIGATED, go to your Principal, or a Union Rep. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:21 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Can my principal report it if it is not within our school? |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:25 PM Response to Reply #28 |
35. Yes, I'm sure they have procedures for such things. |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:42 PM Response to Reply #28 |
100. No |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:17 PM Response to Reply #100 |
115. Wanna bet? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:14 PM Response to Reply #26 |
81. No, She Isn't. I Don't Know Where You're Getting This False Information From. |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:31 PM Response to Reply #81 |
89. If she is a substitute teacher, as she claims, she is required to report suspected child abuse. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:33 PM Response to Reply #89 |
91. Because It Didn't Happen While In Her Official Capacity. |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:39 PM Response to Reply #91 |
95. Here. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:03 PM Response to Reply #95 |
108. How about in North Carolina? |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:17 PM Response to Reply #108 |
114. Here, All state laws here. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:33 PM Response to Reply #114 |
123. THANK YOU! |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:37 PM Response to Reply #114 |
126. That link is very clear: |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:45 PM Response to Reply #126 |
129. Yes, that is very clear. Thank you very much. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:13 PM Response to Reply #95 |
135. That Article Proves My Case. |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:02 PM Response to Reply #135 |
149. No, read # 1. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:07 PM Response to Reply #149 |
150. You Didn't Even Read Your Own Link, Did You. You're Wrong. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 05:44 AM Response to Reply #150 |
171. That may be true |
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wolfgangmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 02:58 PM Response to Reply #150 |
228. Dear mindcrime |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:19 PM Response to Reply #228 |
240. Oh Really? ROFLMAO!!!! Got Any Proof Of That? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:30 PM Response to Reply #228 |
241. And Furthermore, The Law States Within Professional Or Official Capacity. |
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MiniMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:14 AM Response to Reply #135 |
182. Read the other link provided, it goes by state |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 12:21 PM Response to Reply #182 |
213. I Know That. I've Said As Much In Several Of My Replies. |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:55 PM Response to Reply #91 |
131. please admit your error. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:17 PM Response to Reply #131 |
136. I Didn't Make One. Your Article Proved Me Correct. |
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wolfgangmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 02:50 PM Response to Reply #91 |
227. here is the webpage about the federal law |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:34 PM Response to Reply #227 |
242. In Her State She Is Mandated, As It Is For Everybody. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:43 PM Response to Reply #26 |
102. No one is ever obligated to report a crime they are not directly involved in |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:18 PM Response to Reply #102 |
116. Not true. |
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MiniMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:17 AM Response to Reply #116 |
183. MNDemNY, post the other link you provided |
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wolfgangmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 03:01 PM Response to Reply #102 |
229. Wrong. |
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jakem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 07:24 AM Response to Reply #26 |
178. No, maybe not. |
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Doodler71 (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:29 PM Response to Reply #23 |
41. Yes. Your teaching license could be suspended if it was |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #41 |
71. I work at a charter school, |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:32 PM Response to Reply #71 |
90. Even if you were employed as a janitor, you are required. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:32 PM Response to Reply #90 |
138. Janitors are not mandated reporters. |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:59 PM Response to Reply #138 |
147. In MOST , if not all, states, ALL school employees are. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:47 PM Response to Reply #147 |
247. Reference? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:51 PM Response to Reply #90 |
156. Again, Only If She Was Approached While In Her Official Capacity. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:49 PM Response to Reply #156 |
163. Here is what you wrote above, showing 2 situations. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 06:47 AM Response to Reply #163 |
173. That's Completely Incorrect. It Has To Be Within Their Professional Capacity. |
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Doodler71 (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 06:59 AM Response to Reply #173 |
174. It is not limited only to professional capacity. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 07:21 AM Response to Reply #174 |
177. Yes It Is. Educate Yourself. |
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Doodler71 (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 11:13 AM Response to Reply #177 |
208. Unless you are offering her legal advise as her attorney... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 12:23 PM Response to Reply #208 |
214. Again, You Are Wrong. |
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Doodler71 (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 01:11 PM Response to Reply #214 |
217. I'm not wrong but you apparently are so set on being "right" |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 01:24 PM Response to Reply #217 |
218. You've Been Proven Wrong, Yet You Still Want To Hold Onto Your Flawed Position. |
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wolfgangmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:11 PM Response to Reply #177 |
237. I showed your posting to an educational lawyer I know. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:18 PM Response to Reply #237 |
238. Then Your Lawyer Friend Is An Idiot And Should Lose His License. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 07:26 AM Response to Reply #174 |
180. The Law Is Explicit. You Are Wrong. Here Ya Go: |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 07:26 AM Response to Reply #163 |
179. Maybe This Will Be Explicit Enough For You: |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 10:36 AM Response to Reply #179 |
196. Thanks for the whole bit. Being a health care provider, I am responsible to report any |
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Voice for Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:22 PM Response to Reply #23 |
87. there was a pedophile in my family |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:33 PM Response to Reply #87 |
92. Voice In Peace.... |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:41 PM Response to Reply #23 |
97. No You Aren't |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:19 PM Response to Reply #97 |
117. Not so read the laws. |
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usregimechange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:57 PM Response to Reply #23 |
146. you are likely a mandated reporter |
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Throckmorton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 12:10 AM Response to Reply #23 |
166. In Connecticut you would be a mandated reporter |
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wolfgangmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 02:38 PM Response to Reply #23 |
226. You are obligated. Absolutely. |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:12 PM Response to Reply #2 |
110. Very insightful question there.... |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
3. If you're certain this happened, you're at least morally required to report it. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:19 PM Response to Reply #3 |
27. I do feel that if I do not report it.... |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:29 PM Response to Reply #27 |
40. You can report it anonymously to your state's child protective service. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:44 PM Response to Reply #40 |
55. I guess I am gun shy because we have reported the same family before. |
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RubyDuby in GA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 01:45 PM Response to Reply #55 |
222. Seriously, for the sake of helping the kids, report this. |
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TomInTib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
4. I would confront the freak. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:54 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Reporting anonymously to one's state child protective service is more effective. |
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TomInTib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:05 PM Response to Reply #6 |
16. Yeah, but she had better be right. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:33 PM Response to Reply #16 |
45. It sounds like family implosion |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:35 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. No shit. |
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TomInTib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:04 PM Response to Reply #45 |
61. That's what I was thinking, as well. |
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wolfgangmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:18 PM Response to Reply #16 |
239. And what do you consider child abuse... |
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onethatcares (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:55 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. I'm with you. Up front and in their face |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:06 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. That won't stop it. That'll just drive him to be even more secretive. |
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Forrest Greene (946 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:22 PM Response to Reply #4 |
30. Please Consider That That Might Only Make |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:25 PM Response to Reply #4 |
36. Well, the problem with confronting him...... |
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TomInTib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:19 PM Response to Reply #36 |
66. I thought you were talking about an adult. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:07 PM Response to Reply #66 |
74. Thank you, Tom. |
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TomInTib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:15 PM Response to Reply #74 |
83. That was the first thing I thought after reading your reply. |
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Voice for Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:36 PM Response to Reply #36 |
93. The most important thing is to help the child directly, one way or another. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:42 PM Response to Reply #36 |
101. If there is any chance for any of the kids involved |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 03:36 PM Response to Reply #101 |
232. No, I do not think any of the kids will report anything. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 03:50 PM Response to Reply #232 |
235. Poorly worded statement on my part. I meant that you should report it |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:15 PM Response to Reply #36 |
151. Is the 16 yr old the one that was abused in your previous post? |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 03:42 PM Response to Reply #151 |
233. Yes, the 16 year old was abused when he was younger. |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
5. Thank you for wanting to do the right thing |
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Cessna Invesco Palin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
7. I would suggest speaking to a lawyer. |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
8. I know in some states teachers must report abuse. You're not a teacher are you? n/t |
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Doodler71 (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:07 PM Response to Reply #8 |
18. All 50 states require professionals who work with children to report |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:22 PM Response to Reply #18 |
31. Okay, I wasn't sure. Thank you! n/t |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:27 PM Response to Reply #8 |
37. I am a substitute teacher. |
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Doodler71 (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:30 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. Your are a mandatory reporter by law. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:31 PM Response to Reply #37 |
44. You're almost certainly a mandated reporter, then. |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:47 PM Response to Reply #44 |
104. Mandated Reporter |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:21 PM Response to Reply #104 |
118. No. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:35 PM Response to Reply #104 |
140. No it doesn't. It applies to the job title. Teacher = Mandated reporter. |
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Doodler71 (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 07:01 AM Response to Reply #104 |
175. Your incorrect it applies because she has a license to teach. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 10:42 AM Response to Reply #104 |
198. Not in this state it doesn't. Mandate reporters are required to report |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:33 PM Response to Reply #8 |
139. All certified teachers are mandated reporters and required to report suspicion of abuse. |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
9. Well |
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torbird (513 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
11. Do you live near Rick Davis, too? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
12. Who do you trust in this situation? |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:35 PM Response to Reply #12 |
47. I trust my husband. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:41 PM Response to Reply #47 |
54. Why is your husband |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:43 PM Response to Reply #54 |
69. He told me to see what legal obligations we may have. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:12 PM Response to Reply #69 |
77. Well, I hope that you two |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:34 PM Response to Reply #69 |
124. The therapist will report it |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:46 PM Response to Reply #47 |
57. What you describe here is making me ill.....the Mom of the perp |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #57 |
70. I pretty much feel that way but I know my husband is very attached to his parents. |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:35 PM Response to Reply #57 |
160. The neighbor perp |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:58 PM Response to Reply #47 |
59. I bet you do! What does your husband favor doing? What's his idea? |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:56 PM Response to Reply #59 |
73. He almost always just goes along with what I say. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:14 PM Response to Reply #73 |
79. You know, he sounds thoughtful and careful to me. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:22 PM Response to Reply #79 |
86. Thank you. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
13. If the family is going to deny it, |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:12 PM Response to Reply #13 |
21. That is what The Law is for. And the culpability lies with the molester and his enablers. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:17 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. I know what the law is for, |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:39 PM Response to Reply #13 |
53. That is what I am afraid of. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:17 PM Response to Reply #53 |
65. If you can, |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 01:51 PM Response to Reply #53 |
223. That boy could be raping strangers next |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:14 PM Response to Reply #13 |
112. The family's denial will be absolutely irrelevant to an investigative examination of the victim |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:33 PM Response to Reply #112 |
122. You missed my point |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:43 PM Response to Reply #122 |
127. Families deny abuse all of the time |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:37 PM Response to Reply #127 |
141. You seem to be under the impression |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:40 PM Response to Reply #127 |
161. I hate denial. |
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Jackpine Radical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
14. OK--to begin with, |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:10 PM Response to Reply #14 |
76. So there are several professionals in our family. |
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Voice for Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:45 PM Response to Reply #76 |
103. Give the mom some literature about the lifelong effects of sexual abuse on young children. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:52 PM Response to Reply #76 |
164. Oh my, what a situation. Yes, they are and yes they could. |
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Doodler71 (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
15. Thank you for wanting to do the right thing. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
19. Speaking from experience, Yes, he will do it to other children until he is stopped. |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:11 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. Lot of hugs and warm vibes coming your way |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:17 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. I'm sorry |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:15 PM Response to Reply #19 |
82. Hekate.... |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:01 PM Response to Reply #82 |
148. Oh dear. He's just a kid himself. And fortunately for him, a minor as well. |
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Z_I_Peevey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
22. Morally, you must report. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:20 PM Response to Reply #22 |
84. I have kept each and every email ...... |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
29. What's your evidence? |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:24 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. She gives it in post 27. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:54 PM Response to Reply #29 |
58. The parents believe us. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:09 PM Response to Reply #58 |
63. To clarify from something you said upthread... |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:39 PM Response to Reply #63 |
96. OK, I will try to clarify it. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
32. CALL THE POLICE, IMMEDIATELY.... |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:27 PM Response to Reply #32 |
38. I agree except for the 911 part |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:28 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. you're right..I'll amend the title |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:38 PM Response to Reply #39 |
52. I know--it is an "emergency," just not a 911 emergency. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:00 PM Response to Reply #39 |
60. I'd never call the police immediately because they're likely to act like your priest. |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
34. There will be no real family peace by keeping it a secret. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:29 PM Response to Reply #34 |
88. This family seems to find peace in secrets. |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:32 PM Response to Reply #88 |
158. Wouldn't matter what gender the victim is...girl or boy. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
43. This is such a difficult situation |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
46. You're a mandated reporter. You MUST call the authorities. nt |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
49. I once had to report what my neighbors child told me. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
50. Of course you have to report it. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
51. If you were the abused child who would you forgive over this later in your life? |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:57 PM Response to Reply #51 |
105. If my Uncle had his way, he would have molested me. |
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AwakeAtLast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
56. Ask your husband what he would do if it was his child |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:01 PM Response to Reply #56 |
107. My husband is not trying to cover it up. |
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mimitabby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
62. you can make a difference |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:07 PM Response to Reply #62 |
109. I have a totally honest and open relationship with my husband. |
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salguine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
64. If you don't sat anything, and he does it to another little kid, can you live with that? |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
67. This child is himself a severe abuse victim acting out his abuse. He needs to be institutionalized. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:15 PM Response to Reply #67 |
113. We knew he needed help when he lived with us for a while. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
68. Ask yourself why you're hesitating (I'm not being mean here) |
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Baldameer (58 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #68 |
72. Sexual Offenders are habitual... |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:29 PM Response to Reply #68 |
120. Believe me, I know the worst that can happen. |
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sarcasmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:08 PM Response to Original message |
75. You better get yourself a lawyer and make damn sure the person did what you are going to be accusing |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:37 PM Response to Reply #75 |
125. It was both of the victim's parents who told us. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
78. How Strong Is Your Proof? What Kind Of Violation Was It? How Do You Know The Facts? |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:44 PM Response to Reply #78 |
128. we know the facts because.... |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 06:03 AM Response to Reply #128 |
172. I am still unclear |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 10:40 AM Response to Reply #172 |
197. OK, I will honestly try to make it clear. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:18 PM Response to Reply #197 |
248. I am sorry that you have to deal with all this |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:38 PM Response to Reply #78 |
142. "Proof" is not required to report the suspicion of abuse regardless of how the susp. is generated. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:50 PM Response to Reply #142 |
155. Doesn't Mean It Isn't A Valid Question. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:47 PM Response to Reply #155 |
246. I'll say it again, "Proof" is not required by law for the report of a suspicion of abuse. |
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faithfulcitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:41 AM Response to Reply #142 |
190. Exactly right, it's up to CPS to investigate. If your "evidence" isn't strong enough, they won't. |
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dgibby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
80. This is child abuse. |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
85. I wish someone had spoken up for me |
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4 t 4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:38 PM Response to Reply #85 |
94. I am so so sorry your in this position, and So sorry 4 the child |
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Pavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:41 PM Response to Original message |
98. report it |
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RT Atlanta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:41 PM Response to Original message |
99. WHAT LASTS LONGER?? |
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Voice for Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
106. If nothing else, if at all possible, let the abused child know that you know what is happening |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:50 PM Response to Reply #106 |
130. The victim is seeing a doctor and ..... |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
111. as others say since you are teaching you probably have a legal obligation |
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4 t 4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:26 PM Response to Reply #111 |
119. I Am so sorry for you too, But you know your parents |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
121. I thought every teacher knew they had to report known instances of child abuse whether sexual or |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:00 PM Response to Reply #121 |
132. Yes, I am serious. |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:04 PM Response to Reply #132 |
134. Then godamnit! Report the fucking abuse! WTH is wrong with you! |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:20 PM Response to Reply #134 |
137. I am sorry if I was offended by your post. |
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Dark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
133. Are you positive? Because, if you're not, you could ruin an innocent person's life. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:39 PM Response to Reply #133 |
143. No one is required to be positive to report suspected abuse. |
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mrbarber (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:52 PM Response to Reply #143 |
144. I'm gonna put this as nicely as I can: |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 09:56 PM Response to Reply #144 |
145. I'm going to put this as nicely as I can. I didn't write the OP. Now delete the response you've |
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mrbarber (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:16 PM Response to Reply #145 |
152. Oops.... |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #152 |
244. no problem |
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Dark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 02:03 AM Response to Reply #143 |
169. If you were accused of being a pedophile, do you think you'd recover? |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:42 PM Response to Reply #169 |
245. its not up to reporters to determine the veracity of a claim. That's the job of CPS. |
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mrbarber (884 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
153. To the OP: |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
154. You need to report this immediately. (Parents don't get to decide whether charges are filed) |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:21 PM Response to Original message |
157. Hmm |
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Dem2theMax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
159. I have ONE question for you. |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-22-08 11:46 PM Response to Reply #159 |
162. I'd feel unspeakable anger |
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Dem2theMax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 12:04 AM Response to Reply #162 |
165. I do feel the anger. I think you could tell. |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:18 AM Response to Reply #165 |
170. .... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 12:18 AM Response to Original message |
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Giant Robot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
168. Honestly I am not familiar with the laws in your state |
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ogneopasno (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 07:06 AM Response to Original message |
176. That child is hoping someone will make it stop, and you are in a position to do so. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 10:47 AM Response to Reply #176 |
199. It already stopped for this victim. |
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Red State Rebel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:06 AM Response to Original message |
181. For the sake of the next victim if not the past ones - YES REPORT IT!!! |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 10:48 AM Response to Reply #181 |
200. Just so you will feel better.... |
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Balbus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:24 AM Response to Original message |
184. The fact that you had to ask whether you should report it or not disgusts me. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 10:56 AM Response to Reply #184 |
204. I am sorry that a misunderstanding on your part makes you disgusted with me. |
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Balbus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-25-08 04:23 AM Response to Reply #204 |
249. Even after your long-winded, back-stepping, blather... |
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faithfulcitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
185. Honestly, your OP makes me sick. WHY WOULDN'T YOU? |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 11:01 AM Response to Reply #185 |
205. I am sorry my post made you sick for no reason. |
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faithfulcitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 11:35 AM Response to Reply #205 |
211. You need to reread your OP. You asked for professional AND personal opinions, you got both of mine. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 01:38 PM Response to Reply #211 |
220. I asked for personal opinions but not asking should I go to the authorities. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
186. After reading all your responses in this thread I'm sure you'll report it |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 11:03 AM Response to Reply #186 |
206. Thank you for reading and understanding. |
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greguganus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:31 AM Response to Original message |
187. Let's see...piss off your in-laws or stop the pedo. YOU GOTTA ASK??? JEESH!!! |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 11:13 AM Response to Reply #187 |
207. That was never a choice and I am sorry if I did not make it clear. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:36 AM Response to Original message |
188. Thank you for all of your replies. I do want to clarify a couple of things..... |
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greguganus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:38 AM Response to Reply #188 |
189. The sooner this pedo turned in, the less chance of another child suffering. n/t |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:43 AM Response to Reply #188 |
191. you are in a tough situation |
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faithfulcitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:58 AM Response to Reply #188 |
192. Who said our world if safe? I have personally reported molesters in my family. Ask yourself this: |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 08:59 AM Response to Reply #188 |
193. My suggestion is that you go to the police and tell them everything, including |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 11:23 AM Response to Reply #188 |
209. I know this is a crazy difficult thing to go through. |
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Doodler71 (263 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 11:30 AM Response to Reply #188 |
210. Something is not making sense to me |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 01:34 PM Response to Reply #210 |
219. There are different occaions when the perp supposedly saw someone. |
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RevolutionStartsNow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 03:24 PM Response to Reply #219 |
230. Wishing you strength and peace, Demgurl... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 01:41 PM Response to Reply #188 |
221. I have had manipulative abusers turn the tables on me and know exactly |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 04:36 PM Response to Reply #188 |
243. You Are In An Incredibly Tough Position. Ultimately, The Choice Is Up To You. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
194. My own personal experience with this... |
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shrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
195. Do the right thing, but be prepared for fallout. (Just edited.) |
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Sabriel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
201. It's a moral issue, not a legal one, IMO |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
202. Also, the perp is at this point a juvenile |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 12:52 PM Response to Reply #202 |
216. I agree that prompt intervention might change the course the perps life could take. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
203. You must report this to your county's Department of Social Services. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 11:41 AM Response to Original message |
212. After mulling this tough question over I have to say the perp should be turned over to the police |
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Eurobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
215. Checking with my daughter, she works at a state agency |
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Eurobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 02:28 PM Response to Reply #215 |
225. You are not a "mandated reporter" according to my |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 03:34 PM Response to Reply #225 |
231. While I hate I am not a mandated reporter..... |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
224. You gotta do what you gotta do;. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 03:47 PM Response to Reply #224 |
234. Thank you for your kind words of support. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-23-08 03:57 PM Response to Reply #224 |
236. There are things you can do to minimize some of your fears of retaliation |
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