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Stanchetalarooni (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 09:58 AM Original message |
Bisexuals choose? Homosexuals and heterosexuals don't.? |
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last1standing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
1. Very offensive. |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:04 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Please read it again - you're misinterpreting. |
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last1standing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:11 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. No misinterpretation. |
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Stanchetalarooni (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:16 AM Response to Reply #8 |
15. I can see that my question asking has hit a painful nerve and I apologize. |
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last1standing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:18 AM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Then think about deleting it. |
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Stanchetalarooni (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:36 AM Response to Reply #18 |
24. Ignorance is not bliss. I won't hide mine nor yours. |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 11:09 AM Response to Reply #8 |
36. Yes, BIG misinterpretation. |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:13 AM Response to Reply #3 |
10. only in behavior, not in attraction. |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 11:12 AM Response to Reply #10 |
38. Sure. |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 11:31 AM Response to Reply #38 |
39. But that's the crux of why the right's "it's a choice" argument is so wrong. |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:33 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. "Sure a gay man could "choose" to ignore his feelings and be with a woman" |
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Stanchetalarooni (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:09 AM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Questions. Not declaratives. |
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last1standing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:14 AM Response to Reply #5 |
11. Then learn before you postulate. |
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Stanchetalarooni (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:31 AM Response to Reply #11 |
23. I was questioning that maybe it is only repressed people that think it is a choice. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:44 AM Response to Reply #11 |
28. That's offensive! |
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last1standing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:45 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. It "feels" like you're a bigot for belittling others' orientation. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:48 AM Response to Reply #29 |
32. You're being ignorant. |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
2. Quite right. If you're "obligative", to use an anthropologist's term |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
4. how can one possibly choose who one is (or isn't) attracted to? |
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Stanchetalarooni (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:12 AM Response to Reply #4 |
9. Perhaps this idea of sexual repression is what I am trying to understand. |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:47 PM Response to Reply #4 |
43. "it is the choice to repress or not repress part of one's nature" |
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volatileblob (105 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:10 AM Response to Original message |
6. I've postulated something similar... |
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last1standing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:15 AM Response to Reply #6 |
13. There's also something wrong with attacking people based on their orientation. |
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Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:47 AM Response to Reply #13 |
30. What is the claim you consider insulting? |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:36 AM Response to Reply #6 |
25. I don't think that follows. |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
7. As a bisexual myself I can say orientation is not a choice. |
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chicagoexpat (843 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:14 AM Response to Original message |
12. Bisexuals have MORE choices... |
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last1standing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:17 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Great. The first of many jokes. |
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chicagoexpat (843 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:30 AM Response to Reply #16 |
20. U must be from Seattle! How many seattlites does it take to change a light bulb? |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:43 AM Response to Reply #16 |
27. There are nasty, mean jokes, annd then there are harmless ones. |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
14. And Freud said everyone has the propensity to be bisexual |
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Cresent City Kid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
17. Choice or not, discrimination is wrong |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
19. You may have a kernel of truth about the homophobia. |
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last1standing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:30 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Like most studies that one means little without context. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:40 AM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Offensive? |
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Stanchetalarooni (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:48 AM Response to Reply #26 |
31. I do appreciate your sense of logic. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:53 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. Thank you. |
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volatileblob (105 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
22. I think Freud is wrong about choice, at least so far as who we are attracted to... |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
33. I refuse to make another person's orientation subject to my comprehension. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 10:58 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. Pearls of wisdom. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:31 PM Response to Reply #35 |
41. Thanks. (Grin) Even as a straight guy, I've often failed to comprehend the taste of other straights. |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:35 PM Response to Reply #41 |
48. They probably said the same thing about your SO |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 05:20 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. Well, from what I've heard ... |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:00 PM Response to Reply #33 |
51. Though back in the nineties I did used to wonder about |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
37. This much I do know - I have ALWAYS been gay, even as a child. |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 11:32 AM Response to Reply #37 |
40. Although, I think it's interesting that in some cultures, marriage need not have anything 2 do with |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:12 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. Comment |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:31 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. I find nothing offensive about that, but I know some people here do. |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:13 PM Response to Reply #40 |
45. "I often find myself wondering" |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:31 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. That IS interesting. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
50. The entire "choice" argument is irrelevant. |
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