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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 12:53 AM Original message |
If you got a "B" in school, were you pushed to do better? |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 12:56 AM Response to Original message |
1. in math and science, those were the only 2 grades my parents cared about. |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 12:59 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I really sucked at math; why were they the only two subjects |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:08 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. no actually neither, my Dad was an engineer by degree, he and Mom got divorced |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:18 AM Response to Reply #5 |
9. So you did the 'responsible' thing. And you hate it. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
3. my son brought home two b's rest a's. my husband asked if i was going to punish him for the b's.... |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:14 AM Response to Reply #3 |
7. What grade is 'the kid' in, and why is school so easy? I thought |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:20 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. he will be in 8th and it is sooo easy cause he is soooo smart, lol. |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:36 AM Response to Reply #11 |
19. Hopefully the nclb will be history soon; not the way to teach anyone |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:38 AM Response to Reply #19 |
22. teachers, adm, principal, education board... all i talk to are fighting it here in texas |
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TheFriendlyAnarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 11:24 AM Response to Reply #7 |
49. School is easy. The busywork isn't hard, it's just mindnumbingly |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:17 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. As long as the difference between "punishing for a B" and "pushing for an A" is there. :) |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:23 AM Response to Reply #8 |
13. he would bring a 94 home from english. i would chew his ass out and say wha wha... should be 100 |
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glowing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:08 AM Response to Original message |
4. Hard not to settle sometimes when the whole show seems rigged from |
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mcctatas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:12 AM Response to Original message |
6. It depends on the subject... |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:22 AM Response to Reply #6 |
12. That sounds reasonable to me. If a kid likes to read, they better |
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mcctatas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:35 AM Response to Reply #12 |
18. Two girls.... |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:44 AM Response to Reply #18 |
23. Oh my. So that old saw about boys 'doing' math and girls 'doing' |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:22 AM Response to Reply #23 |
35. It does in my case, my high school daughter helped her collage brother with English related |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 10:42 AM Response to Reply #35 |
45. In-house tutors! |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:17 PM Response to Reply #45 |
55. yeah it's great, and a whole lot cheaper! : ) |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:20 AM Response to Original message |
10. My father expected me to always get A's |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:24 AM Response to Original message |
14. No, I wasn't pushed to do anything other than get at least average grades. |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:29 AM Response to Original message |
15. My dad's attitude was that I should be ashamed to get anything less than an 'A' |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:31 AM Response to Reply #15 |
16. So you were 'encouraged'. Are you still in real life? nt |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:35 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. Nah, I'm a lazy bastard. |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:38 AM Response to Reply #17 |
21. But aren't we all? You gravitate to stuff you enjoy if you're able to |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
20. I think that we should be the best that we can be....... |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 02:15 AM Response to Reply #20 |
25. The mindset to keep on plugging was there with Obama, and I |
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Journeyman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:48 AM Response to Original message |
24. I never settled for less than the best from myself. . . |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 02:27 AM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Well then you are special. And your parents were lucky! nt |
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Journeyman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 03:26 AM Response to Reply #26 |
29. If there was anyone I learned from, it was Coach John Wooden . . . |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:15 AM Response to Reply #29 |
32. Thing is you can do your best and know it but it's hard to know it |
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Mr. Blonde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 02:40 AM Response to Original message |
27. In high school |
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McCamy Taylor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 03:25 AM Response to Original message |
28. Do not mistake grades with learning. Learning is a highly individualized |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:21 AM Response to Reply #28 |
34. I think the point is less to do with the learning itself but with the |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:04 AM Response to Original message |
30. No. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:11 AM Response to Original message |
31. No, Bs were considered good, as in As and Bs |
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HughBeaumont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:19 AM Response to Original message |
33. My dad would have thrown me a three day celebration if I got a C. |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:26 AM Response to Original message |
36. Not by my parents, but I pushed myself. I admit I liked the cachet of straight A's |
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OhioChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 08:22 AM Response to Original message |
37. Yes. I was encouraged to do better. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
38. if by "pushed" you mean "punished", then yes- definitely. |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 10:41 AM Response to Reply #38 |
44. No, I meant encouraged. I know that lots of kids were punished |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
39. Not "pushed," but asked why . |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
40. No, and I'm grateful I wasn't. I think that shows very black-and-white |
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Sundoggy (489 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
41. No - I pushed MYSELF to do better |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
42. No, my mother never placed any conditions of worth on me |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 10:13 AM Response to Original message |
43. Heh. From reading this thread, I guess I just had real shitty parents |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 10:46 AM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Your parents don't sound like |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:44 PM Response to Reply #46 |
53. gave me a wet ditch = threw me out into the rain |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 01:56 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. I'm |
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JeffR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:21 PM Response to Reply #43 |
57. Sorry to hear that story. |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 08:34 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Thanks :) |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
47. Yes, and then I rebelled by getting worse grades. sigh. |
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JustABozoOnThisBus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
48. Yes, and I learned to hate the word ... |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
50. No, I wasn't. Sometimes I wish that I had been... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
51. I Was Always On Dishonor Roll (All F's And Maybe A D). |
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dems_rightnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
52. Pushed to get the best grades possible |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
56. In a way |
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newscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
58. As long as I was passing it seemed like nobody noticed |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
60. Yes. I was always encouraged to do my best, and my parents knew I could |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
61. One teacher, just one, consistently pushed me to do better. |
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skooooo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
62. chided, yes.,. |
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DaveinMD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
63. if we got a 95 on a test |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-16-08 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
64. If they thought I could do better, then they nudged. |
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