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Three years ago this day is the last time I saw my mother alive. She was out of it. She came home a week before Christmas after being in the hospital for roughly 2 months. Christmas eve she went back into the hospital with kidney problems.
I went in to relieve dad for the night. I was running a bit late, I was supposed to go to a funeral for a friend I knew from work (her 19yr old son was killed by a drunk driver Christmas eve) but I just could not bring myself to go. I had already been to two funerals in nearly as many months. So I drove around a bit thinking.
Finally, I went in and mom was out of it. Dad pulled me out into the hallway and told me this was it, she only had a few days left. She seemed ok, just not all mentally there. Then mom yelled for dad and we went back in, she was trying to cut the 'baby' out of the pillow (she called my daughter the baby). Dad gave her a pretend knife, and she saved the day. And then she stopped.
She saw me then, tears in my eyes, and she snapped out of it all for a sec. She told my dad I should not be there, that I could not handle it, and to send me home. He did - so as not to upset her.
*I* agreed, along with my family, not to put her on life support.
And her death on Jan 31, 2004 still haunts me. What if?
And that brings me to you mr. bush.
YOUR actions have caused the death of thousands upon thousands. And yet you still sit there smirking. On the anniversary of your war, you beat your chest in defiance.
While I cry over one person, whom I might have saved had I not agreed to end life support.
Those people there - they don't even know who I am. They don't want to kill me. They want to live their little lives like I do.
But their bodies litter the landscape. And yet you smile and tell us how well the war is going.
Thousands of people have lost a loved one - and for what? To make me feel more safe?
As I sit here tonight crying over my loss, I can only imagine how many there are crying over theirs. And it did not have to be.
You wanted Saddam. You got him. And yet you are still there, still asking for (and getting) money to keep on killing - killing a people who instill no fear in me I might add.
No, mr. bush - I don't fear the people of Iraq.
I fear you - and your inability to FEEL.
I regret that I did not do more for one life, and yet you revel in what you have done to many many lives.
More of our people have died from your war than did on 9/11. And I don't feel any safer - because the real threat is home grown.
It is you and those who help you.
I feel my pain tonight - but I carry with it now the pain you have caused so many others in my name, and it makes me ashamed and terribly sad.
I miss you mom. And I hope you have a place in your arms in Heaven for those sent to their death by this administration.
They got their oil, and all we got and the Iraqi people got was death.
I fear for my family, but it ain't the Iraqi's I fear.
It is you mr. bush.
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