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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 01:10 AM Original message |
The Gay/Straight Divide |
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Erika (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 01:15 AM Response to Original message |
1. My son in law and his partner are gay |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 06:57 AM Response to Reply #1 |
14. I'm confused. Do you mean "step son"? |
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POAS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 06:59 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Add me to the confused list! |
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IndyOp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 07:20 PM Response to Reply #14 |
57. Before Erika answers: I am guessing that her son-in-law |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 08:48 PM Response to Reply #57 |
61. Yeah, he could be a former son-in-law. |
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lligrd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 02:26 AM Response to Original message |
2. Nice Post. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 02:33 AM Response to Original message |
3. Recommended. |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 02:34 AM Response to Original message |
4. awwww, noth'n do'n, i'll k&r, but this one is all yours... |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 09:00 AM Response to Reply #4 |
19. That's the spirit! |
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Smarmie Doofus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 02:43 AM Response to Original message |
5. Why would this offend *anyone*? Well put. n/t |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 02:49 AM Response to Original message |
6. K&R |
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ropi (948 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 03:01 AM Response to Original message |
7. great post |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 03:03 AM Response to Original message |
8. k&r |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 03:05 AM Response to Original message |
9. Great post, ruggerson. The only thing I'd add is that |
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yewberry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 02:23 PM Response to Reply #9 |
50. Three cheers for our LGBTQ parents! |
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jannyk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 03:38 AM Response to Original message |
10. k&r |
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cui bono (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 04:02 AM Response to Original message |
11. Well put. I have to say, I am hesitant to post in any threads about homosexuality |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 04:37 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. Someone actually said that most gays here want to be separatists? |
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POAS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 07:05 AM Response to Reply #11 |
16. Nobody really wants seperateness |
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cui bono (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 04:24 PM Response to Reply #16 |
53. I believe you're correct. I think the thing to think about is |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 04:51 PM Response to Reply #53 |
56. Actually, I went into have a sense of humor mode. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 08:29 PM Response to Reply #16 |
59. "we tend to gravitate to those most like us"??? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 10:15 AM Response to Reply #11 |
25. For what it's worth, Cui, I feel the same way - and I'm gay. |
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cui bono (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 04:03 PM Response to Reply #25 |
51. Yeah mondo, I know and I don't judge all by the words of a few. |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 11:03 AM Response to Reply #11 |
32. Oy vey |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 11:46 AM Response to Reply #11 |
36. Who told you this? |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 11:54 AM Response to Reply #36 |
37. :) |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 04:04 AM Response to Original message |
12. Hear hear. :) |
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MH1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 08:34 AM Response to Original message |
17. Nice post, but... |
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pepperbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 09:05 AM Response to Reply #17 |
20. no flame here. you're right, but..... |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 11:32 AM Response to Reply #20 |
35. Not sure that's ALWAYS true |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 04:27 PM Response to Reply #20 |
55. As a father of a child with Autism, I think the gulf may not be so huge. |
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coznfx (69 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:38 AM Response to Reply #20 |
65. I think roughly equally as gays to experience those things |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 08:51 AM Response to Original message |
18. Cool. K&R |
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justiceischeap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
21. I think what creates the divide |
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Obamarama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
22. When it comes to most DUers, ruggerson, I think you're singing to the choir. |
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carolinayellowdog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
23. Categorical disqualification |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 10:51 AM Response to Reply #23 |
31. I think it's all in the attitude. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 01:38 PM Response to Reply #31 |
49. I would like to see the whole "groups in power" idea dropped |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 12:38 PM Response to Reply #23 |
40. I am witnessing this phenomena |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 04:27 PM Response to Reply #23 |
54. Excellent post. Thank you yellowdog. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
24. Thanks Ruggerson. As a gay man I've been quite embarassed by a lot of the threads |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 10:35 AM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Just keep in mind that some of us are permanently damaged |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 10:44 AM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Those things are all true. Just the same, we are responsible for how we conduct |
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Puglover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 12:39 PM Response to Reply #30 |
41. I'd be interested |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 12:47 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. I'd say a lot of the disagreements lately have included comments like |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 12:55 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. I doubt he'll be PMing you any links to back up his statement anytime this century. |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 01:18 PM Response to Reply #26 |
48. A-fucking-men |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 10:37 AM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Deleted message |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 10:41 AM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Really? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 10:41 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. As a lesbian, I completely agree with your post. |
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Tyo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 12:31 PM Response to Reply #29 |
39. My two cents on a pre-coffee Sat AM |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 12:50 PM Response to Reply #39 |
44. For what it's worth I don't think, nor have I ever said, our issues are too divisive |
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Tyo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 01:04 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. I was speaking more in general terms |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
33. I hear you, but here's an observation. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 11:58 AM Response to Reply #33 |
38. Very good post Gormy -- as usual |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
34. "which shouldn't be a divide at all" |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 08:36 PM Response to Reply #34 |
60. You get TahitiNut's Saturday KSOTO Award. Congratulations. |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 07:55 AM Response to Reply #60 |
66. do I want to know? |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 12:44 PM Response to Original message |
42. for straights, I think an important part of "listening" is toning down the reflexive defensiveness |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 01:04 PM Response to Original message |
47. I probably have built fewer bridges and lobbed more bombs |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
52. Thanks for helping to establish a constructive discussion. |
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election_2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
58. As a gay male.... |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:20 PM Response to Reply #58 |
72. I feel the same way about |
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election_2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 04:14 PM Response to Reply #72 |
73. Definitely |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
62. Seems spot on to me. |
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NoSheep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
63. You sell some of us short... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-17-07 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
64. "woman is the nigger of the world" |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
67. Does it matter what one person says? |
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Puglover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:18 AM Response to Reply #67 |
68. I'd be interested to see |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:14 AM Response to Reply #68 |
69. It works both ways... |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
70. Nice post |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
71. I don't really know |
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