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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 10:59 PM Original message |
Abused |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
1. I agree with that sober young woman. Depriving a child of food |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:11 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. Really? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:16 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. I know it to a certainty. What makes you think |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:20 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. I'm not saying that |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:26 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. I think we might be able to agree here: the government is more |
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kickysnana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:54 AM Response to Reply #8 |
41. Self delete...have a headache... |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:23 AM Response to Reply #6 |
125. It was all OK except for the supper |
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SammyWinstonJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:38 PM Response to Reply #6 |
150. All of those punishments and more were used on me by a stepmother who |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:58 AM Response to Reply #1 |
138. not to be nosy or try to justify anything, |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:04 PM Response to Original message |
2. can of worms |
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Frances (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:06 PM Response to Original message |
3. What state are you in? |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:13 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. I'm in Oregon |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:06 PM Response to Original message |
4. sorry, I'm not going to believe you until I see the criteria for child abuse |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:16 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. I don't think violence |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:32 PM Response to Reply #9 |
21. This is one aspect of the issue that many DUers here just don't get. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:03 AM Response to Reply #21 |
75. No there isn't. Next? |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:00 AM Response to Reply #75 |
139. Yes, There IS. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:15 AM Response to Reply #139 |
143. Nope. Hitting is hitting. The only variable is the degree of physical |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:25 PM Response to Reply #143 |
162. You are obviously correct in saying "hitting is hitting." |
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Ohio Joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:13 PM Response to Reply #4 |
157. Ohio laws |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:49 PM Response to Reply #4 |
173. i don't buy it either |
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fenriswolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
5. i got the belt as a kid |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:25 PM Response to Reply #5 |
15. Really? Up until what age do you think |
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fenriswolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:47 PM Response to Reply #15 |
30. i was about eight when i was able to reason |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:42 AM Response to Reply #15 |
70. Valid question. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:02 AM Response to Reply #5 |
45. Any parent who stirkes a child with a belt should be arrested. Period. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:04 AM Response to Reply #45 |
76. Absolutely. Frankly, I would like to go the way of Sweden and outlaw |
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MLFerrell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:40 AM Response to Reply #76 |
106. You must have some well-behaved children. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:51 AM Response to Reply #106 |
111. I do. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:18 AM Response to Reply #5 |
82. we got the belt too. i didnt like it. i didnt do wrong often or at least |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:36 AM Response to Reply #5 |
133. So did I and I imagine it contributed to my later issues with depression |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
10. Why do I find myself suspicious that many of the statements in the OP |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:23 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. Here's their website |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:30 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. Sorry, I don't see the items you mentioned listed as child abuse. nt |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:31 PM Response to Reply #13 |
19. The website does NOT back up your assertions in the OP |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:35 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. The details are not listed on the site, I agree |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:03 AM Response to Reply #24 |
46. So you're just making it up. How nice. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:45 AM Response to Reply #13 |
62. Different state, homes. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
12. self delete |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
14. Proud to deliver the first rec of the night. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:33 PM Response to Reply #14 |
22. Consistent discipline does not mean a parent needs to use |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:43 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. This is your opinion. I definitely do not share it. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:47 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. I hate to break this to you Joe, but |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:02 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. Please do not misrepresent what I say, Cali. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:28 AM Response to Reply #34 |
37. I'm sorry, but I think you're parsing. I don't think of hitting |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:51 AM Response to Reply #37 |
112. You're right. "Punching" means "hitting with closed fist" |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:27 AM Response to Reply #34 |
87. Slapping vs hitting |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:22 AM Response to Reply #87 |
102. Well, it wouldn't be kosher for a man to "ground" his wife either |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:06 AM Response to Reply #102 |
118. Respectfully disagree. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:30 AM Response to Reply #118 |
127. True, by the same token that the poster above says the child does |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:37 AM Response to Reply #127 |
134. People who hit others |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:42 AM Response to Reply #87 |
108. Very important point. n/t |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:20 PM Response to Reply #87 |
169. Another false argument. Are you going to sit there and try to tell me |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:54 PM Response to Reply #169 |
171. No. |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:58 PM Response to Reply #171 |
174. I thought as much. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:13 PM Response to Reply #174 |
175. You miss the point. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:24 AM Response to Reply #31 |
85. I would add |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:30 AM Response to Reply #85 |
90. That is a very good point indeed. |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:07 AM Response to Reply #31 |
140. the question I have is was your son ever intentionally defiant |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 08:53 AM Response to Reply #140 |
177. yes. |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 09:56 AM Response to Reply #177 |
178. what about after 5 or 6? |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:04 AM Response to Reply #27 |
48. So, if you hit another adult, you get arrested, but it's OK to hit a kid because they're small? |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:43 AM Response to Reply #48 |
54. Redstone, I am surprised that as a thinking adult, you seem not |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:22 AM Response to Reply #54 |
68. And I'm surprised that you, Joe Fields, as a thinking adult, don't know the definition of "hit." |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:50 PM Response to Reply #68 |
163. You remind me of Clinton defining what "is" is. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:59 AM Response to Reply #54 |
97. Hitting is swatting, Joe Fields. And it is abuse. |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:02 PM Response to Reply #97 |
164. Think about what you are saying. |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:23 AM Response to Reply #48 |
103. If you ground another adult, you'd get arrested |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:29 PM Response to Reply #103 |
154. Nice point. |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:04 PM Response to Reply #103 |
165. False argument. The issue of legal guardianship comes into play. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:50 AM Response to Reply #27 |
93. reasoning has always and still works. i kept hearing kids little ones dont have |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:13 AM Response to Reply #27 |
142. I don't reason with my young children. |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:44 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. Ummm, WRONG - - |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:50 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. you didn't call it abuse, you said he went "overbord. |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:52 AM Response to Reply #32 |
40. If all you want to argue is my choice of words |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:06 AM Response to Reply #28 |
77. In his defense? Are you serious? He should have been arrested. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:22 AM Response to Reply #14 |
84. isnt that the truth. children need and want, ... demand those boundaries. n/t |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
17. Spanking |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:32 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. So what DOES work then? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:35 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. If there seems to be a problem, one might start with testing. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:38 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. there are so many ways to teach those things without hitting |
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lazyriver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:09 AM Response to Reply #25 |
79. "There are so many ways to teach..." that is so true. |
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VLC98 (398 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:53 AM Response to Reply #79 |
94. Excellent post. I totally agree with you. nt. |
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ehrnst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:25 PM Response to Reply #79 |
147. spanking, hitting and otherwise degrading children is the lazy way to parent |
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lazyriver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:52 PM Response to Reply #147 |
153. I'm very sorry you had to learn the lesson first hand. |
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ehrnst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:10 PM Response to Reply #153 |
160. My relationship with my parents has healed somewhat with time, and I've grown up. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:30 AM Response to Reply #20 |
53. It depends on the child. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:08 AM Response to Reply #20 |
78. Tell you what. Take a trip East and come visit our home. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:54 AM Response to Reply #20 |
114. The fact that you lack imaginaton to come up with ideas that do work |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:08 AM Response to Reply #17 |
49. We don't agree frequently, but we do right now. Excellent post. I don't understand |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:50 AM Response to Reply #49 |
55. if it is okay to get arrested and imprisoned for a minor offense |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:02 AM Response to Reply #49 |
58. What's "disgusting" is the intentionally obtuse point of view |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:24 AM Response to Reply #17 |
86. wasnt abusive in our house. intent wasnt abusive. wasnt done in an abusive manner |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:53 AM Response to Reply #17 |
113. Thank-you |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:42 PM Response to Original message |
26. Some of those are silly... |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
29. I was going to say I have no advice for someone with a problem 16 year old, |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-12-07 11:51 PM Response to Original message |
33. And, if you merely threaten to discipline |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:07 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. If you're in a situation in which you are "threatening discipline" |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:45 PM Response to Reply #35 |
155. Agreed. |
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nadine_mn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:17 AM Response to Original message |
36. oh man, I should not go there but here I am |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:47 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. I hope that when I urged people to get counseling it is not blaming people. |
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nadine_mn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:08 AM Response to Reply #38 |
51. nope..counseling is great |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:04 AM Response to Reply #36 |
47. I agree with what you said |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:14 AM Response to Reply #47 |
52. And where the fuck are your credentials that allow you to pontificate about this? |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:01 AM Response to Reply #52 |
57. You know, you are absolutely right |
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ehrnst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:35 PM Response to Reply #47 |
149. If a parent needs to hit - they've failed already as an authority figure. |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:20 AM Response to Reply #36 |
83. A good and thoughtful post. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:30 AM Response to Reply #36 |
89. thank you for sharing. many excellent points. i was spanked, even with belt |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:48 AM Response to Original message |
39. Hitler was abused by his father --- and I have a feeling George W was abused --- |
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nadine_mn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:56 AM Response to Reply #39 |
42. oh no....I was abused too |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:08 AM Response to Reply #42 |
50. No . .. but he did . . . |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:58 AM Response to Original message |
43. I think you have to look at what is actually happening, though. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:59 AM Response to Original message |
44. Oh, balls. When I was a kid, it was OK to for parents to beat the hell out of their kids. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:32 AM Response to Reply #44 |
130. I hate those emails |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:48 PM Response to Reply #130 |
156. Why is seeking understanding"idiotic?" |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:25 PM Response to Reply #44 |
170. No wonder you can't make a distinction. I thought as much. |
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Frances (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:50 AM Response to Original message |
56. When I was young, my father sometimes swatted us kids with |
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TheMadMonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:08 AM Response to Original message |
59. So do what I heard of one mother(?) do. |
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Der Blaue Engel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:30 AM Response to Original message |
60. My father didn't think he was abusing me either |
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slay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:39 AM Response to Original message |
61. Some of that IS indeed abuse in my opinion |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:36 AM Response to Reply #61 |
66. Sending a kid to bed without any dinner |
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slay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:55 PM Response to Reply #66 |
161. Why don't YOU go to bed without dinner tonight |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 08:48 AM Response to Reply #161 |
176. That's the whole point |
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midlife_mo_Jo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:35 AM Response to Reply #61 |
131. For starters, I don't think I ever sent my older kids to bed without dinner |
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JTFrog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:54 AM Response to Original message |
63. I still have a card in my wallet |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:10 AM Response to Reply #63 |
80. That's ridiculous. |
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JTFrog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:17 AM Response to Reply #80 |
81. My children do what they |
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ConsAreLiars (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:55 AM Response to Original message |
64. So, as a victim of abuse you now regard it as "a good thing." |
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Raejeanowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:32 AM Response to Original message |
65. How Many Columbine-Type and Lesser School Violence/Weapons Incidents Did We Have In The 50s-60s? |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:13 PM Response to Reply #65 |
168. Post hoc fallacy |
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Raejeanowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:26 PM Response to Reply #168 |
172. Thanks |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:13 AM Response to Original message |
67. I really have to chime in |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:29 AM Response to Reply #67 |
69. I'm sorry |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:46 AM Response to Reply #69 |
71. The only legitimate goal |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:56 AM Response to Reply #71 |
73. On this, we agree completely. n/t |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:51 AM Response to Reply #69 |
72. When your're doing it right but |
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kdmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:40 AM Response to Reply #69 |
91. I know some great kids, too |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:08 AM Response to Reply #91 |
100. but the thing |
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kdmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:26 AM Response to Reply #100 |
104. Yes, most people tell me that |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:04 AM Response to Reply #104 |
116. a lot of it does have to do with the parenting. i hold by that |
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kdmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:14 AM Response to Reply #116 |
120. Sorry, I misunderstood then |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:23 AM Response to Reply #120 |
124. i can ALWAYS understand where a person is coming from |
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kdmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:32 AM Response to Reply #124 |
129. Thanks for the clarification |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:38 AM Response to Reply #129 |
135. it is a tough one |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:31 AM Response to Reply #120 |
128. i learned a long time ago |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:19 AM Response to Reply #91 |
123. You, my friend, are a far cry from a bad parent. |
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kdmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:29 AM Response to Reply #123 |
126. Thanks, Midlo |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:09 AM Response to Reply #69 |
141. i agree with your post, but then i am not in small rural either |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:32 AM Response to Reply #69 |
146. Now you have me wondering if that's what we did right. When the older kids were little, |
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kdmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:41 AM Response to Reply #67 |
92. I feel your pain |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:53 AM Response to Reply #67 |
95. and i dont believe in the swat for danger, like so many opposed |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:01 AM Response to Reply #67 |
98. generation of spoiled, greedy children........... gosh i have to post further |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:03 AM Response to Reply #67 |
99. I have three children and never needed to 'swat' them |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:44 AM Response to Reply #67 |
109. OK so if your toddler runs out into traffic and you hit him |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:54 AM Response to Reply #109 |
115. My biggest argument against spanking for infractions like that |
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ehrnst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:43 PM Response to Reply #67 |
151. "This is a generation of spoiled, greedy children." |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:47 PM Response to Reply #151 |
152. you are so right on |
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ehrnst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:02 PM Response to Reply #152 |
159. I have a four year old, and I'm not seeing it in him. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:06 PM Response to Reply #159 |
166. and i am at 9 and 12 |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:02 AM Response to Original message |
74. This is horseshit. |
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Prophet 451 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:27 AM Response to Original message |
88. Fuck this shit |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:57 AM Response to Reply #88 |
96. Awesome post. |
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Prophet 451 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:41 AM Response to Reply #96 |
107. I wouldn't say I've put it behind me |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:48 AM Response to Reply #88 |
110. Deleted message |
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117. Deleted message |
Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:09 AM Response to Reply #110 |
119. Actually, you are dead wrong about Clinical Depression |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:43 AM Response to Reply #110 |
136. self-deleted |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:23 AM Response to Reply #88 |
144. Thank you! |
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Joanne98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:10 AM Response to Original message |
101. I lived in Japan when I was growing up... Japanese do not spank until 7 years old! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:25 AM Response to Reply #101 |
145. That's weird cause most corporal punishment advocates insist that toddlers |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
105. Let's look at your list |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:19 AM Response to Reply #105 |
122. wow to the being locked in your room. i used locking in room |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
121. So, we can send adults to prison, and that's considered ok, but not sending kids to their room? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:35 AM Response to Reply #121 |
132. i didnt know i yelled UNTIL i had kids. i swear i never ever yelled |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:10 PM Response to Reply #121 |
167. EXACTLY! Folks want to throw kids (and sometimes their parents) in prison |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
137. I Wouldn't Compare a 7-Year Old's Rape to Being Sat in a Corner |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
148. Yeah, I call bullshit. |
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JFN1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:34 PM Response to Reply #148 |
158. Did you read my post, or just skim out the parts you wanted? |
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