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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 06:50 PM
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Background to stalking and cyberstalking

A study of 50 stalkers by the Royal Free Hospital and University College Medical School, London, found that women are much more likely to be stalked and attacked by a former sexual partner than by a stranger. Stalking has become Britain's fastest growing crime with over 4000 prosecutions under the Protection From Harassment Act each year. The UK's first national anti-stalking police unit was authorised by Home Secretary Jack Straw in January 2000 to tackle the growing behaviour of stalking.

US crime statistics show that 1 in 12 women will be stalked in their lifetime, as will 1 in 45 men. At any one time, approximately 1 million women and around 375,000 men are the target of stalking in America. Los Angeles, home of Hollywood, is the stalking capital of the world. But it's not just famous people who get stalked. The majority of stalking cases involve ordinary people.

The stalker exhibits a familiar pattern of behaviour. Stalking often starts as a result of rejection; rejection rage and abandonment rage motivate the stalker to seek revenge through a predictable pattern of stalking behavior. The stalker, usually a loner and socially inept, becomes obsessed with their target and bombards them with messages, emails, gifts, or abuse. The stalking behaviour can last for years and the intensity of abuse increases over time. The abuse, initially consisting of psychological violence, often escalates and culminates in physical violence. It's a chilling statistic which reveals that 90% of women who are murdered were stalked by their ex-partner.

In response to the growing incidence of stalking, the UK government passed the Protection From Harassment Act in 1997. The Act has both criminal and civil provisions to deal with stalkers and stalking behaviour.

In August 2000 and in a manner similar to the sexual offenders register, the UK government has suggested that a register of convicted stalkers might be appropriate for the most serious cases. In 1998 there were 5800 convictions for stalking in the UK. "Harassment can have a devastating effect on people's lives. It is something that must be tackled" comments Home Office minister Charles Clarke. Diana Lamplugh of the Suzy Lamplugh Trust welcomed the guide. "Victims will come forward much quicker." she says. "At the moment they are made to feel stupid and they wonder if it's their fault."

More at link:
http://www.bullyonline.org/related/stalking.htm
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 07:43 PM
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1. Thank you for the votes.
I am honored.
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 08:15 PM
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2. I wonder if it's always been this bad.
I mean, I know women haven't had enough rights to refuse men, and the stories of women who have and then been stalked and attacked are all over Western literature, but I wonder if the numbers are increasing. I wonder how we could know that.
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 09:17 PM
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3. I wonder how much of it goes unreported...
I wonder if the numbers should be higher.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 09:23 PM
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4. I bet the idea that it's somehow the woman's fault keeps it under
reported.

I had a stalker at once point for about two years. My mom witnessed the whole thing because we worked together -- the barrage of calls, mail, deliveries. But even so, both of us were uncomfortable talking about it because for some damn reason we thought it could be my fault. LOL! There was a barrowful of mail every week we didn't talk about for two years.

That's nuts. :)


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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 09:48 PM
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8. delete
Edited on Thu Nov-01-07 09:50 PM by wildhorses
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 09:50 PM
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11. My stalker was in a circle of in life friends, not on the net solely.
Edited on Thu Nov-01-07 09:51 PM by sfexpat2000
I knew something was wrong when he asked me not to tell his parents we'd broken up -- when we'd never been a couple as far as I knew. :shrug:
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Divine Discontent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 09:25 PM
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5. this is interesting K&R 9
I was rejected over time by a guy that wasn't sure 'what' he was, and I could have became a stalker, but inner peace and just accepting he is confused was my path to getting over it, but I have my faith to thanks also, and people who would listen to my heartache, it's skeeeeery to think of how some of these men act towards lost loves or those they are attracted to.

good thread...
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 09:46 PM
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7. delete
Edited on Thu Nov-01-07 09:50 PM by wildhorses
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Divine Discontent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 10:36 PM
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12. when I came back, all your comments were "delete"
w/e

have a good night! keep your eyes out for the storm!
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Richard Steele Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 09:29 PM
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6. K&R
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 09:48 PM
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9. delete
Edited on Thu Nov-01-07 09:50 PM by wildhorses
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-01-07 10:40 PM
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13. k&r'd, these are very serious matters indeed thank you for your post & link...
:kick:
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