|
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend Bookmark this thread |
This topic is archived. |
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (01/01/06 through 01/22/2007) |
ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:34 AM Original message |
When is a child old enough to be left home alone? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Ezlivin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
1. I was raised by wolves, so don't ask me |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:41 AM Response to Reply #1 |
40. Overnight? Probably 15-16 |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
2. By 8 years old, third grade. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
3. 9 is too young esp with the responsibility of a younger sib |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:37 AM Response to Original message |
4. They were leaving home for 5 DAYS!! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:00 AM Response to Reply #4 |
21. absolutely wreckless |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
txindy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:57 AM Response to Reply #21 |
47. But, hey, at least the dogs were boarded. Priorities. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
William769 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
5. A child that age should never be left alone to care for another child. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Little Star (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:13 AM Response to Reply #5 |
29. Yep n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Nimrod2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:42 AM Response to Original message |
6. I have a 4 year old daughter, I plan to NEVER leave her home |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
woodsprite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:49 AM Response to Reply #6 |
12. Hubby and I are of the same mind. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Nimrod2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:55 AM Response to Reply #12 |
17. We did NOT want to have kids, my daughter was an accident, tuned out |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 11:33 AM Response to Reply #17 |
51. Funny how that happens, and it teaches selfless love... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
soothsayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:43 AM Response to Original message |
7. Jeez, at least take the kids to Vegas with you and leave 'em in |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Tace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:48 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Plus, At Resorts These Days They Have Baby Sitting Programs... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
trixie (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:43 AM Response to Original message |
8. The laws of your local area will tell you. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
shaniqua6392 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
9. Most states have laws and/or recommendations |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
woodsprite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
10. I thought it was unlawful in some states to let even a 10yo to |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Daisy Adair (128 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:53 AM Response to Reply #10 |
16. Ah, but the IRS only lets you deduct child-care cost until they're 12. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Little Star (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:11 AM Response to Reply #16 |
28. In addition |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Daisy Adair (128 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:16 AM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Yes, and that is slipping younger and younger every day, isn't it? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Little Star (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:40 AM Response to Reply #31 |
39. Agree n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:52 AM Response to Reply #28 |
45. one more hypocrisy |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:37 AM Response to Reply #10 |
38. Our town has a course Home Alone for 9 year olds and up. There is no |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 12:08 PM Response to Reply #38 |
55. whoa..! that must have been an awkward situation nt |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 12:45 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. It was an awful situation. The neighbor also claimed that I was high or |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Toots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
13. Would you hire a nine year old to babysit your child? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
agates (743 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:20 AM Response to Reply #13 |
34. No, but I was babysitting for others |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
txindy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:53 AM Response to Reply #34 |
46. Caring for an autistic child for 5 days & nights is completely different. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 12:12 PM Response to Reply #34 |
56. These days a 10 yr old = 5 yr old back then; 30 = 21... etc |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
14. I remember reading somewhere.. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
abluelady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
15. My Opinion |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
theHandpuppet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
18. Were you left alone for five days while your parents partied in Vegas? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LizW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
19. Depends on the child |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
dogday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 09:59 AM Response to Original message |
20. Was certainly not old enough to care for |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
22. There's a huge difference between overnight and an hour away |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
CRK7376 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:04 AM Response to Original message |
23. We've left our boys |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
24. Depends On The Kid and How You Raised Him Or Her |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
25. Depends on the kid, of course, but... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Options Remain (475 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
26. thats messed up |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
hippiegranny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:10 AM Response to Original message |
27. it's not the age so much - it's the length of time |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
BiggJawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
30. 27, as long as the basement fridge is well-stocked. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
32. I got my housekey when I was 8 years old |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ohio_liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:19 AM Response to Original message |
33. One of my sons is 10, and he is allowed to stay home alone |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:27 AM Response to Original message |
35. I feel sorry for these kids; |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ProdigalJunkMail (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
36. I was a latch-key kid from seven onward |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Toots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
37. I left my sixteen year old home alone for a few hours and boy howdy. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
41. Unbelievable! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:45 AM Response to Original message |
42. I was born a poor black child... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
William Bloode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
43. I spent a lot of time alone when young. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
44. I was home alone quite regularly by the age of seven |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
txindy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
48. Mature and self-disciplined enough? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
49. The only time I can recall being home alone (other than parents |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 11:28 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. a test before procreation often occurs to me too |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 11:40 AM Response to Original message |
52. This was clearly egregious |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
No Exit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
53. One MIGHT leave a 9-yr-old home alone during the day, though |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
donsu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
54. I was earning babysitting money when I was 12 |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
shugah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 12:33 PM Response to Reply #54 |
58. indeed! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
shugah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
57. the age and amount of time |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-07-06 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
60. The autistic brother complicates this issue |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) | Wed May 08th 2024, 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
Advertisements [?] |
Top |
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (01/01/06 through 01/22/2007) |
Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators
Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.
Home | Discussion Forums | Journals | Store | Donate
About DU | Contact Us | Privacy Policy
Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.
© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC