Oh, Monkeyman...

[TomInTib]

Every day you are here with updates on the horrors being heaped upon Veterans and the shameful attacks on our Health issues.

Every day, unflinchingly dedicated.

That's our Monkeyman.

And now this.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=364x3028551

Every once in a while I become thoroughly incensed and fed up with this place, this Democratic Underground.

But then something such as Monkeyman's loss comes around and makes me realize that this place is a community.

Just as with one's hometown, one may chafe at the residents and customs and cliques at times but it is - nonetheless - part of us all.

And it reminds me that there are still, even in these hard, cynical times, selfless Champions such as Monkeyman.

Take care, Brother.

We are with you.

But then, you know that, don't you?

Tom

[babylonsister]

1. So much sadness in the world; Monkeyman was fighting that, and

now he gets so much personal sadness. I'm here for him. And thanks, Tom.

[JohnnyLib2]

2. Recommended, with thanks.

He gives so much here. I imagine he gives tirelessly to those around him.

[Straight Shooter]

3. Thanks, Tom. Monkeyman is one of our finest.

And so are you.

[TomInTib]

25. And I thank you, Straight Shooter..

You are far too kind.

Take care of you and yours, my friend.

And say a little prayer for Monkeyman.
If you have it in you.
I had to go deep to find that place...

Tom

[Redstone]

4. Christ, I hope he gets to read this. You've written well and truly, my friend.

Redstone

[TomInTib]

6. Thank you, friend

You know how it is with me.

With you.

With Monkeyman.

We are all in it together.

You take care of yourself, Redstone.

Tom

[Redstone]

9. I'm OK. You? We haven't talked in a while.

Actually, a pretty good week for me; I've managed to work 7 full hours, two days in a row. Been a long time since I've been able to do that.

This keeps up, I'm gonna dust off the guitar. Or maybe the Autoharp first.

Redstone

[TomInTib]

32. Roll on, Redstone

Play some cool Autoharp for all of us...

You
Me
Monkeyman
madokie
Hasler
Seagreen
Curry
Rice
Bias
Barton
Silber
Lyberis
Antone
Washington (even tho he was a thief)
Davis
Anthony
Horne
Jennings
Lennnox
Gerity
Minh
Lomax

I could go on and on.
And only the first six guys on the list are breathing today.

I am not too sure where I was going with this for I am hopelessly drunk.

But I am sure that you know what I mean.

Tom

[illinoisprogressive]

5. You have captured what is in everyone's heart.

Monkeyman is a favorite of mine. I just came on to the discussions. I usually just stick to the main page. Since I've been in discussions I have come to respect and look forward to monkeyman.
To loose a spouse is hard. I wish words could say the sadness everyone is feeling for him tonight.

[mike_c]

7. thank you for posting this Tom....

I hadn't seen Jack's original thread yet. I'm crying as I write this-- the people we love slip away so easily. You're right, this is a community.

[TomInTib]

10. I know, mike_c

Isn't it great how our community of Brothers is so inclusive?

That we could cry, not for the loss of one of our own, but for the loss off one of theirs.

Monkeyman's loss has affected me in a way that I would not have thought possible just one hour ago.

[TahitiNut]

13. Ditto.

:cry:




:patriot:

[havocmom]

Strength to Monkeyman at this time of loss.

He has been there for others. Time for us to support him.

We fight, we grouse, but we are, in a way, family here. A family by our choice, perhaps the strongest bonds.

We are here for you Monkeyman. And we send collective strength to you. Any one of us will lend an ear or a shoulder.

We are family and we are here anytime you need us.

[Im with Rosey]

8. My heart is with Monkeyman

I'm so sorry for his grief and pain, it never ends, it only subsides, ebb and flow.
I too have been taking a break here, but always feel renewed by the power of the compassion that is one of the cornerstones of DU.

[DeepModem Mom]

11. Thank you for this, Tom. This news just breaks your heart. nt

[Tinksrival]

12. So sorry, it's so hard to lose your partner in life, your love, your soulmate.

Outside the rain begins and it may never end
So cry no more on the shore
A dream will take us out to sea
Forever more forever more
Close your eyes and dream
And and you can be with me
'Neath the waves through the caves of hours
Long forgotten now
We're all alone
We're all alone

Close the window
Calm the light
And it will be alright
No need to bother now
Let it out
Let it all begin
Learn how to pretend

Once a story's told
It can't help but grow old
Roses do
Lovers too
So cast your seasons to the wind
And hold me dear
Oh, hold me dear

Close the window
Calm the light
And it will be alright
No need to bother now
Let it out
Let it all begin
All's forgotten now
We're all alone
oh-oh, we're all alone

[stanwyck]

14. Thank you, Tom.

Monkeyman has been very supportive of me as I suffer through having my Marine son leave for his third tour in Iraq. I hope he knows how much he means to all of us here.

[lonestarnot]

15. A big hug for TomIn Tib.

So sad for Monkeyman.

[eleny]

16. Thank you, Tom

I didn't see the thread and appreciate your letting us know. :hug:

[OhioChick]

17. My heart goes out to Monkeyman

If I recall correctly, he puts up a good fight for vets, has recently lost his vet buddy (Randy, I believe) and now his wife. Too much in such a short period.

:grouphug:

[JohnnyLib2]

18. Tom, I posted the original on Veteran's forum, just in case.

And saw that Monkeyman had posted twice, early this morning. Amazing fellow.

[spindrifter]

19. Thanks, Tom,

for these important words--your reminder that this is community and that we each are working to make this world a little better, bit by bit.

[TomInTib]

20. kicking for Monkeyman and all of us... nt

[w8liftinglady]

21. monkeyman was there for me when my kid was hurt in Iraq

i hope he knows we are here for him now.

[Lasher]

34. Just 30 hours ago Monkeyman offered me comfort on the loss of my father.

I wish I could return the sentiment.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=364&topic_id=3021475&mesg_id=3021961

May God grant strength to him and his family.

[PsN2Wind]

22. My condolences to Monkeyman

We've all lost much in the last six years, it's so sad to see anyones loss compounded like this. Peace to Ms. Monkeyman and strength to him.

[Tuesday_Morning]

23. Thinking of you, Monkeyman.

[nam78_two]

24. K&R.nt

[Kurovski]

26. Perhaps those DUers who are financially able to do so

will consider donating to a local Veteran's group in memory of his wife?

Condolences and please return soon.

[TomInTib]

27. kicking again for Monkeyman

and I don't give a shit what anybody thinks about shameless self-promotion.

This is for Monkeyman.

Pure and simple.

Tom

[FrenchieCat]

28. I am now crying uncontrollably, and I realize that it is this and so much more!

Maybe I'm just at my limit!

[TomInTib]

29. You, me, and Monkeyman..

and each and every underdog soldier in the night.

Monkeyman would understand.

Take care, FrenchieCat.

Dry your eyes...

And help us fight the Good Fight.

Tom

[northofdenali]

30. My love and condolences, Monkeyman -

You've done so much, and given so much. This is so unfair. I'll light a candle for you in the AM and send prayers and good karma your way. I wish there was more I could do, and I know all of your friends at DU feel the same.

Take care, we love you.

[stellanoir]

31. awwwww

Shucks

Great healings and condolences to him and his clan.

[TomInTib]

33. Kicking one more time before I go to my bed. One more time for Monkeyman

I rarely sleep.

But I inhabit that space between sleep and consciousness.

It is a tight knit.

And it is in that space in which I thrive.

God bless you, Monkeyman.

Tom

[fooj]

35. Yes. We a here for you Monkeyman.

Sending you love and support...

:hug:

I wish you peace, my friend.

[Hekate]

36. Thanks Tom. Our hearts go out to Monkeyman and his family. nt

[Philosoraptor]

37. -----------------

[democrank]

38. Thanks for this, Tom.

Monkeyman is in my thoughts.

[TomInTib]

39. Once more for Monkeyman. It's reveille here..

I woke up thinking about you, Brother.

Tom

[NanceGreggs]

40. Thanks, TinT...

You've perfectly captured the sense of community that exists here on DU, along with the sense of loss we all feel when one of our own loses someone near and dear.

In the last post I saw from Monkeyman, he was consoling another DUer on the loss of her nephew in Iraq: "May St. Peter know that a soldier is reporting for duty tonight."

Peace be with you, Monkeyman, and Godspeed to Ms. Monkeyman on her journey to the other side of this life.

[BOSSHOG]

41. Fair Winds Teammate

May you find peace in the days ahead. And thank you again and again for all you do for us.